Blessing Lai says: "Do not agree to excuse the person of others, do not give oneself leave some leeway namely, when because each person has,make mistake and needing others to excuse. When because each person has,make mistake and needing others to excuse..
The means of this word says to want conversion to think when anything crops up, want to change an angle to consider an issue.
If you are that person, because ashamed remorsed old, come to the humane apology that is harmed by you, confess eventually, what kind of state of mind can you be?
The first, admit one's mistake
The person is not sages and men of virtue, what can have not been had. Although the thing went a lot of years, be like Zuo of the pass through the territory of a country when as transient as a fleeting cloud already, but the fault because of oneself, the cannot offset harm that causes to the other side is the fact that does not dispute however! wrong be wrong, any moment cannot alter this fact, what can do exclusively is have in oneself unripe year, analyse to profundity of the other side, admit one's mistake, with getting each other excuse.
The 2nd, burn one's boats
"Hit a person not to make a face, name-calling not show up one's fault " , this job is very old in the past, again aching cut also become scarred, look for this matter of bring up again of the other side now, does the scar upgrade face that is this the person that open spill salt again? But this is exterior phenomenon only, because of oneself in those days the psychological shadow that the mistake causes to the other side is cannot of efface. Accordingly, it is again difficult to make already again painful also should look for confess of the other side, apology, let the other side go up too happy, quiet, easy and comfortable life. Meet as to the other side how look upon, deal with, its him consequence is assumed completely!
The 3rd, the heart is unfixed
Look for apology of the other side, confess, admit in those days mistake, it is to win a heart quiet, get interior disengagement. What arise accordingly is sequential, no matter be good,be bad, no matter the other side is excused, actually not important. Open and aboveboard be an upright person, work for nothing obviously, priceless of return to the fold, this is enough.
The word says again, you are excused or do not excuse, actually already not important.
Since the family decides to come to your apology, confess, actually the self-condemned, ashamed from in the past walked along Si classics in regret, confess, si classics from in the past old I was moved toward today true new I! At the society character, he present is a honorable person, because he did a significant business, he is worth you to excuse!
Excused term explains: "Forgive to the person's neglect, error or wrong forgiveness, do not add blame or punish. Do not add blame or punish..
Excused amplify meaning: Do not use the error of others, will punish oneself.
Taigeer has said: "Dust gets caustic disgrace, be repaid however with her flower. Be repaid however with her flower..
Face this issue, right way:
The first, reason is treated. The person that get let sb have sth into the bargain is in and Rao Ren, everybody has when erring, not total hold tight is worn the small tail in the past is not put. Want to know: Years alternate, life changes, now have been thermonuclear times. Anyway, everybody is the person that should walk into 5G times, should cherish well present have, happy and happy ability is the most important! The person is living it is a kind of state of mind, happy it is a day, kink also is a day, why be inferior to putting down the past, excuse other, also let off oneself.
The 2nd, learn to excuse. Excusing is manner of a kind of life, excusing is the ability that a kind of ego saves atone for, also be pair of ego help sb to fulfill his wishes. Cannot be being excused is to follow his to be impassable actually. In the past become the past already, you should hold well and instantly just is cherished. Learn to excuse, leave in the past, put down kink, laugh at enemy of die out favour, why be unhappy.
The 3rd, wide in order to need a person. "Sea Na Baichuan, have Rong Naida " , good-tempered it is Qia strikes the corn that grows, have the person of bosom expanse only, ability is in the human society with this complex numerous and complicated, sureness has spent his lifetime, alleged remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging.
Finally, let us admire the logion of pluvial fruit:
The means of highest vengeance is good-tempered. Good-tempered resemble cool and refreshing manna, irrigated the heart that dry up; Good-tempered the fireplace that resembles warmth, warm frozen apathetic heart; Good-tempered resemble not the firebrand of extinguish, ignited the live cinders kept for starting a new fire that will extinguish below the iceberg; Good-tempered resemble flute of a demon, wake sleep deeply up mediumly in darkness.
