The experience that close half an year comes to lets my suspicion have this lot really year view. We are not Shanghai this locality, spent the New Year to return old home severally this year. Did not think of to the day changes unexpectedly after answering Shanghai, he does not answer QQ of phone small letter, say he comes to Shanghai really in his home. I feel not right to fear he can give what job, but hesitation goes to his company searching seem improper, in case it doesn't matter, he can do not have face very much. Want to search then most the boudoir that be close friends is sweet (we are the college fellow students that keep Shanghai together 3) come out to chat, can be her also " disappear " , I did not think more at that time, just pay mad boy friend " break couplet " . After a week, wait unexpectedly came of the boy friend part company, because,he says is " somebody " , discovery likes her more than me.
He when of somebody? Don't have a feeling completely? We talked 1 year, at the outset still he chases after me, do not have a feeling originally, tried to admit him below the encouragement of boudoir honey, but nowadays... I what break down look for boudoir honey again, unexpectedly she still " disappear " in. I in those days still did not think more, just feel she is so busy that she do not have doctrinairism I, be very foolish? I can a person weeps silently.
Classmate after two months meets, they did not come twice, their thing was heard over there the classmate that I come back from the United States however. It is boudoir honey professions actively allegedly dark love very long, hinder to exist at mine all the time, before feeling I and male friendly be on speaking terms resemble doing not have now so good, she decides to be striven for.
Tell the truth, was gone to by the be modest about one's skill of boudoir honey and scheming Jing, my not reconciled to, I hate them. Boudoir honey follows two schoolboys to had had a concern at the same time in the university actually, only I know. I think too this paragraph " black history " before telling male friend, tell him this wife very broken bits, telling him to choose her is off base. But I feel to be done so again rather too Lilliputian, the boy friend seems to also be grabbed do not come back. How should I do after all?
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To evil mercy, be pair of be apt to is cruel.
Be pair of be apt to is cruel..
What calls a mean person? The wise man is early tell us: Gentleman is magnanimous swing, relative of Lilliputian Chang Qi. Original, the broken bits male broken bits that you face those to employ an artifice in feeling female, can relax completely heart, this how fight back how fight back; Now however before tiger of fear after the event is afraid of a wolf, unripe give birth to the one party that does so that oneself resembled be in the wrong, is this why bother?
Shopkeeper should remind you: Of broken bits is your boudoir honey not merely, before still having you male friend. The case breaking off a leg that I had seen is very much also, but problem advocate you meet let a person this feel all the more hold back bends: They two undermine the foundation with respect to undermine the foundation, love another person, it is Song person unluckily, from the start also dare not admit knead dough is right, unexpectedly in pairs pulls you black, want to regard you as had not existed at all! Especially you that boudoir is sweet, if not be you of other friend explode makings, you are afraid even " below the lamp black " for a long time.
Say honest, still be in amative phase, which one party has the right that part company, cannot importune everybody to be handled very beautifully when part company, but should have basic character respect to his predecessor at least, this also is the bottom line that humanness plays. Very apparent, you meet this two people that go up, do not have such consideration at all, should then you are opposite why again are they polite? To evil mercy, be pair of be apt to is cruel.
Shopkeeper supports the disgusting thing exposure that you do this two people, let the person all round them know they are the people of a what pattern after all, lest let more people wear their path. Just shopkeeper feels, before you need not disclose boudoir honey again " the foot steps two boats " black history, that was in the past after all, the life is advancing ceaselessly, who can'ts bear the past of turn one's head again? You needed their instantly what to do to you only, ground of from beginning to end is shown come out, believe fair and free will of people.
Shopkeeper still hopes you can be clear, your striking back is to contend for at a heat, is not to want to grab a male friend. In the process that settles this thing, you will more see this clear once was mixed twice your very close person, having what kind of heart after all; Probably, you also can see what you want clear is what kind of feeling after all.
You also can see what you want clear is what kind of feeling after all..
Song Yuan
Ego lost consistency, can be immersed in another kind of anguish.
Can be immersed in another kind of anguish..
Want shopkeeper to say, what does such boy friend have to be reluctant to leave, he has an affair with probably for some time with your boudoir honey, throw early early good, grab even come back to work, should leave this really " thunder " cross again year? Does such boudoir honey still call boudoir honey? The family should not answer you at all thing, say miserably to nod, it is a between male friend gangplank before you should be mixed, the opportunity matures minute minutes " strive for for oneself " .
They are pretty two match -- the degree of broken bits has so that go all out.
Boy friend " somebody " , what did he do? Escape, break couplet, it is not to know how to answer you probably, also do not want to answer probably, a word dismisses you. Boudoir honey also is to choose to escape and disappear, hide to tiring-room, shopkeeper dare be guessed, this after the event she never has with you any contact or communicate.
You are not contacted on boy friend, can fear he gives what job, want to go to a company considering his reputation again, honey does not contact boudoir to go up to explain for her too busy, you also do not have the thing that heard of them immediately " kill " come to beg view or direct boudoir honey " black history " tear apart, while hate gets tooth itch also jib. You are a dewy-eyed other, attend to other is experienced, the person with younger aggressiveness. You follow them is not one passerby.
You sufferred two the closest people at the same time betray, love and friendship at the same time be defeated. Betray the worst consequence is a relation to devalue, what happen on your body is acme devalue -- clear, even negative number. This kind of bitter experience makes us want defend and retaliation, think only defend and revengeful ability match current experience bitterly -- was stepped on by person firm firm it is foolish that one foot does not step on that? But be bitten by the dog go back foolish?
Your hesitant just reflected nature and quality, this is you distinguish the essence at person of those two broken bits. If you boudoir honey " black history " before be being ripped, male friend looks, may have wonderful effect, but you also become at the same time a person of low position as them. Believe shopkeeper, this can be not reduced betray brought anguish, pull instead low oneself character and morals, because was made,violate oneself even the thing of 3 view principle, ego lost consistency, be immersed in another kind of anguish.
More active more advanced face betray, it is to excuse, excuse oneself, excuse them. Excuse mean the right that abandons making reprisals to their treason. Although very difficult, although period of time will be extremely provoking recently, but you can thank yourself certainly in the future.
