So, does the family have after all to the influence of a person how old? See 22 family education that next psychologist sum up admonitions together.
1, relation connection of Mu Ying is very close, very far-reaching also to the person's influence, so that be in we in the years later, cannot pointing out clearly after all forever is which kinds of disposition comes from at heredity, what is.
2, for Mu Zhidao, do not have the force with mysterious what actually. All skill that rear the child, it is long attention and the result that train daily.
3, make a human society, be opposite with the female humanness mother the manner be closely bound up of this respect, be in a lot of places of world, people underestimated a female the action between the life, especially those are heavy male light in female society.
4, if a female function can let household regard as one kind what he generates life interest is artistic, the life that thinks she can let a spouse because of this becomes more relaxed, more rich and colorful, then she can turn chore into a kind of comparable world other the mission of any jobs.
5, numerous case tells us, loser of a lot of life fails, result from the breeding of his mother, their mother from the duty that did not walk on him be merciful appropriately at the beginning, the life that did not give the child good germinant. These life losers from exist with maternal relation at the beginning problem, did not get the love with due mother and attention.
6, once the female's action is debased, the integral harmony of matrimony can be destroyed. If thinks attention child is the thing of an inferior to others, such female or mother are impossible to let his fall in love with the child, review those who get the skill, attentive, understanding, ability that sympathizes with the respect such as the heart, the child to them, it is a kind of trouble and interference only.
7, in the course that teachs the child, the practice of some mothers is wrong, their try every means makes the child complete depend on his, and intentional palm dominates the child's life, make thereby the child cannot leave her from beginning to end, missed the optimal period of the education of independent character thereby.
8, all by the child with bad be used to, have maleficence mentality. Fear through this kind just about psychology, they just can draw parental attention, obtain be very fond of. Look from this bit, recreant child, was to get actually exceeding is doting.
9, in domesticity, the effect of father's action and mother is likewise main, at first, the relationship of father and child may be very not close, but to later, the father influence to child life and action can be shown gradually.
10, the matrimony between if parents is not happy, the child's place is met jeopardy is heavy, the education that the society of his oneself feels and marital view will get in the following life serious obstacle, appear even marital dread disease, because the child reachs the first impression of opposite sex spouse to marriage, be from what obtain over there parents.
11, the joint efforts to the family progresses between parents, crucial to the child's influence. The synergic sex that the child experiences between other first, it is the cooperation between parents. In this respect, the parents of family of a lot of China was not accomplished fulfil one's duty responsible, did not establish a very good model to the child.
12, marriage is a kind of companionate relation, husband and wife any one party not a cut above others, also not under the other side. In domesticity, do not need authority, once appear authority or suppress, bilateral affection can appear problem.
13, father's mission: Prove to wife, child and society oneself are a good person, a responsible to the family man, solve the 3 big problems among good life with proper way thereby, namely profession, society and sex, or job, friendship and love. The man cannot use him to be in the position of economic respect or advantage, suppress wife, influence family.
14, every child expects a kind of action that reachs since his father explicitly most, it is father can put forward a kind to settle way for professional problem, namely he can support oneself and family.
15, in matrimony, both sides wants more feeling that pay close attention to each other, the life that invites opposite party hard becomes relaxed and rich, is not depressing and barren.
16, explaining with the child or impart when sexual knowledge, parental both sides should maintain cautious attitude, take care to treat, provide the knowledge of this respect not prematurely, and need to explain only or impart to want to understand to the child, and be in the problem that the child's located that growth phase can understand. If overmuch or the explanation is premature, exceeded the range that the child understands, with respect to the interest that can arouse a few children to did not serve as preparation and affection, such, sexual knowledge not only cannot give help the child is better grow, instead became a kind of harm and thought burden.
17, in the home, do not answer to emphasize the issue of money overly, cannot let money become the subject that husband and wife quarrels more. Handle domestic property issue, ought to take the kind with consultative cooperation.
18, of childhood period almost setback of avery kind of is experienced, result from we think others more suffer love, look from this bit, the preference is very dangerous, especially the child's much family and heavy male light female family. On road of the following life, the child thinks he got desolate, may be on full of prunes road. And the family in healthy equality, the child won't produce this kind of feeling.
19, the disposition of two children that are in same family also can differ completely, because every child is in his life manner, can present the result that gives to endeavor to get used to located distinctive environment severally, his whole life manner is around wear what be taken seriously and be risen by the sensory establish of care, especially cornstalk firstborn daughter, in this respect appreciate more will deep, because he was used to his central position already.
20, it is only in the family of equality of a solidarity, everybody, mutual cooperation, do not have competition to feel in children only, did not feel oneself have the enemy and in the family that spends time on all sorts of combat, just avoid the child to appear likely great life problem.
21, lazy, be the psychological mark that great ambition lofty or bottomless and brokenhearted dismay interweave together, because aspiration is too tall, often make the hope that children cannot see implementation aspiration or likelihood. And this kind of circumstance, the youngest son in the home appears the most easily.
22, in the position in the family, the life manner that meets a person leaves a kind of graven print, each problem in growing process, bring about. Look around the social life that leaves oneself when us, we can discover, no matter people is in which domain personally, realize the sort of letting in pursuit oneself obtain the victory, goal that suffer a defeat and surmounts other. In those elite families, this kind of situation is most general.
