One, 3 view should not, do not be friend " The Book of Changes " : " with sound corresponding, beg with gas phase. " the person can become a friend, those who lean is same interest, namely the footing of look upon thing and viewpoint are adjacent. True friend should have common interest interest and even ideal pursuit, perhaps say, the friend should be fellow. Opposite situation, of ancient person for " the method is different, do not be seek " , with present word for, be called " 3 view should not, do not be friend " . 3 view are world outlook, viewpoint of value, philosophy, this " 3 view " the person of disagreement is unlikely to become a friend, do not come constrainedly.
Things of one kind come together, person with group cent. 3 view, just be the biggest obstacle between person and person! The person that 3 view should not, says word has be mixed hard, more do not talk to go up touch a scintilla, greet a short while and passable, get along time is a bit long, tell with duck like chicken, each other feel dull insipidity, harm likely even each other. A allegory say, frog and mice became a good friend, want to be together momently. Then, they bind the foot in together. Just began, it is normal that they walk on the ground, still can have unhusked rice. When they come to the side of the pond, frog jump into water, also pull mice unloaded water. Frog plays gladly in water, and pitiful mice won't swim, drowned. Finally, the surface on the body float of mice, its foot still is bound together with frog. An eagle discovered rat, bear down on surface, grab mice, and frog also is put forward accordingly surface, became the cate of eagle. The person with 3 different view comes and go closely, resemble the frog in allegory and mice, can bring harm to both sides only. Felt the heart that does not appear to calculate, need not be fathommed painfully; See not clear person far hide, need not bother goes guessing. Life is brief, energy is finite. The person that we should love all pour into at place, get along happy person. To the friend that those annals differ to should not, we can leave stealthily with the choice. After all, a person also won't was short of to be no good in whose life. Alleged contact with, hand in secondarily, important is to have same way, namely " 3 view " should close.
2, day of the highroad day, each go to understand each other between person and person at the same time and not allow easy, the person with ideal big difference is more difficult. How cannot cormorant also understand some people to inspect gold to be like cloud drift, how won't ritzy person also believe some people treat others to be able to accomplish treat equally without discrimination. The person is a standard easily with what him heart institute thinks, will analyse and judge another person with this. If the words and deeds of somebody follows him inner standard is abhorrent, think other is mincing, hypocritical in the extreme, this is self-righteous really! On this world, always having a few people is to see you not of pleasing to the eye. Irrespective, you take your broad road, I cross my difficult path, live in peace with each other good. Friend, not was necessary to importune, personal feeling agree with each other gets along with respect to sincerity, those who cannot bear the sight of with respect to go off in a huff, day of the highroad day, each go at the same time. Need not too much person, take life please in. If they cannot walk into your heart, meet only the life annoy you gets one ground chicken feather. The life need not cross much foil, friend of 3 view cat-and-dog is much, more lively let a person feel cold and cheerless more instead.
3, circle is different, need not person of strong be in harmony is a social animal, leave how possibly gregarious and live alone? This is the necessity that circle exists. For ordinary to us common people, social means close, 3 view are relatively unanimous, be in naturally same a circle, mutual help, enter together retreat together. If we travel together all the way, that stand together regardless of situation; If we are each other passing traveller only, that light laugh, need not wordy. Intersect with benefit, benefit all comes loose; With situation intersect, situation defeat a bend; Intersect in order to counterpoise, authority is broken abandon; Intersect with affection, affection breaks an injury; Intersect with the heart only, fang Nengcheng its are ages ago.
The friend is absent much, and be in whether can fellow, whether can intimate. Fellow can go in all, intimate criterion can each other letter. Of course, what have a common goal points to is not just the same, however seek common points while reserving difference, include each other. Life resembles the train of a travel, the car on somebody of add of midway land add, also somebody gets off. You can encounter mixed person, somebody just brushs a shoulder and pass, can brief halt takes someone, also somebody accompanies you to arrive all the time terminal. When somebody should get off, you are OK watch sb go away his back disappears gradually, but need not chase after. Because, part, won't let you go gradually gradually far; And 3 view, just be furthest is apart from between you.
