As the development with ceaseless Internet, finance killed newborn Internet to come out in Cong Mojun clump, these a few years since, consumptive idea of the youth the osmosis as Internet finance even more deformation, borrow money not easily before to carry id card on Internet now, mobile phone number can lend money simply.
The consumptive outlook of praise highly is previously
(1) keep expenditures within the limits of income, moderate consumption;
(2) avoid implicit, reason is consumed;
(3) protect an environment, green consumption;
(4) economize, struggle difficultly.
But the consumptive outlook of major now youth is short of grew excessive consumption, consume blindly, enjoy the life, a lot of people can have the money of beautiful future to enjoy present life, also multiplied so a lot of nets borrow appear, provide the fund that consumes ahead of schedule for everybody, bring advantage alive for a lot of life, borrow the behavior of money less also, some people hinder to lend money at face problem is a very bad thing, but the net is borrowed different, want when to spending money, be taken at any time, a lot of less the way of the world, but is the fact such? Not be to most person apparently very. According to concerning data statistic, up to by January 2019, p2P net borrows industry accumulative total to clinch a deal the quantity is 8.13 trillion yuan. This is very bloodcurdling data.
I talk about your experience and gives you proposal that deep-set net borrows below.
I know at the moment you are each days, each second is one kind suffers, struggling heart, those who oppress is actual, get up in the morning think of one buttock net to borrow, work involuntarily at all, go to work seek time, a person secretly taking id card, credit card, of many a cut search, the Lu of many a cut, write message, test and verify, await examine and verify. Had been illogical, continue Lu next cut, fluky that is passed, accrual does not look, borrow first before return. It is everyday so circulate. To do not let him exceed the time limit, to do not explode address book, all channel that can lend money try. Raise in order to borrow namely to this borrow. How should we cast off this kind of current situation after all then?
1: Honest.
Also be a heart at the same time directly most most the method of torment. I had seen too much and too much not dare honest person.
Is or the end in the home (the condition in whose home that rents a net to borrow is good? Wealthy person can borrow a net borrow? Individual except)
Or is the situation in the home said to also do not solve a problem (right, said you think to solve not bird problem, but it is to think merely! ! ! If it were not for do you think you can owe so much money? The solution in your home anything but can be bird yourself solved? ? )
Or is the pride in the home all the time before me namely, did not think of oneself made so big mistake (who is the pride in the home? Who thinks this lets does so big consequence bear in the home? But the thing happened you to continue the fault goes down, you is this to disrelish your present consequence to be deepened not badly again a bit? )
Or is me courage is smaller, am I true not dare (is your courage small dare you still lend so much money? You have the courage that make a mistake, did not assume wrong courage however? ? ? ? )
Or is a family the relation is disharmonious (excuse me you, domestic concern is disharmonious, can you help you without the person so why you should lend money? Know perfectly well still be done without a way of escape? I also had seen too much say the relation in the home is disharmonious, they still were helped in final home! ! )
Or has passed a few times candidly namely, true cannot again honest, be afraid that they are acedia! ! (here above all I want to abuse this kind of person, do you harm parents insufficient? Why must harm the 2nd one after another 3 one after another 4? ? ? ? Are you a person? ? Myself also scolds myself is not a person! ! ! But this kind of thing had happened, how can you do? ? ? You know to do not have method, do you have only homeward in is seeking a help? )
Or is gamble was defeated, borrow a net to borrow dare not say (to this kind of person, I want to say only, buddhist monastic discipline is betted far more important than everything! ! Not what does Buddhist monastic discipline bet to use do not have! ! ! ! )
Still have a variety of cases very complex, I am differ one expatiatory, but what I want to say is, you now is to do not have ability to return money, yourself is solved not the bird is returned to time money not bird, can be you still exploded address book? Family member or meeting know! You think 100 reason and 100 excuse cheat them, but your money is done not have,still can expose sooner or later. You feel is to admit your mistake actively, think idea has been solved together? Or so do not say to continue the fault goes down, it is good to perhaps cheat them? ? ? A person that has bit of head a little can know how to should be done! ! !
It is the most important to still have is, do not wear a tail candidly, do not wear a tail! ! ! ! ! ! ! Look for me to say to had talked with me last to the 2nd adieu later but the person that oneself kept a tail, I am pulled directly black, you conduct well! ! !
2: ? Fear?
What makes enforce? Are there two kinds of understandings?
1 do not return money compulsively!
Do not return money compulsively this kind I am not recommended, unless what be without giving thought to person, I think to be in debt return money, perfectly justified, the key is the problem that how much returns! ! The likelihood is planted with this beside you person, what also pass all the same is very good, but what I want to say is, when waiting for that one day to have Nemesis, never mention it regret to go! !
2 talk things over compulsively return money!
A lot of people ask me, already honest, but doesn't help give in the home on how? ?
? So be about to adopt negotiate the way that returns money compulsively, what the letter signs on is best return first! To moment otherwise loan buys a room to buy a car to approve no less than coming, do not go up to be able to talk things over what sign a letter to be returned slowly, it is OK also to negotiate gold of repayment of capital to have bit of interest a little, but won't the accrual according to them is give (the except with legal interest) ! ! Big data did not receive a dot to sign a letter now, but now this society, protect forbid to be able to be received that day sign a letter, do not do Laolai so! Urge close call to not be afraid of, address book was exploded also not be afraid of, above all, without money, there also is money in the home, you are faced with with respect to affirmative meeting urge close, need not think! ! The phone came, the attitude is bit tougher, do not have money now, still not bird, etc Qian Man is returned slow, never mention it do not return money! ! Still have urge close threaten phone and short message have reservation, in case called the police that day can occupy when attest! ! Once come,force is urged close, call the police! ! ! Compulsive person should make the preparation in good intention, likelihood this is not thing, may last in about a year is longer perhaps! ! Hold to, with friend and family come to an agreement or understanding, have this kind of telephone call or short message, do not want a canal, I am sorry first they, let them suffer embroil together! ! !
? The thing has happened, the mistake has been caused, because,do not want this temporarily bank, destroyed you all one's life, should not choose commit suicide because of this kind of thing more, commit suicide is solved not bird everything, can give only beside man-made is become bigger on kill! ! ! The way is long still after you, what doesn't this bit of thing calculate, money was done not have can earn again, the person was done not have can do not have with respect to what! ! Let us be cheered together, do not let a net borrow torment again you, let a net borrow the assistant that becomes us, is not to become the murderer that kills us. ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?
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