More or less can the circumstance of cold war appear between most sweethearts, can can cold war solve the problem between sweethearts really? My answer is negative, perhaps it makes the thing is done not have between sweethearts temporarily, but won't from solve a problem at all, and the feeling between sweethearts can be hurt during cold war.
We can see beside have a lot of we very valued sweethearts, they did not have sequel in cold war. Contrary once the has a lot of problems sweethearts that we do not value they are together however very good, and better and better. Are they how do?
The first, wrong should change, no matter size
Two people in love should be promoted each other together, progress jointly, be faced jointly and correct oneself error, a trend is better oneself. Have that one party of small fault so, what should realise oneself in time is wrong, after apologize with the other side and assuring won't recommit. Perhaps play no less than outer part occasionally, the two people in lovely affection are the closest person, derisive without the person, making gift so instead is to you emotive bears the blame one kind.
The 2nd, stop cold war, communicate in time
Because lack communicates strike end,have how many feeling, how many sweethearts departs gradually in cold war. Cold war come to an agreement or understanding listened is to give both sides a sober chance, but feeling is fervent originally, sober good still go, sober and bad it is put an end to of a paragraph of emotive. Was to reduce brawl calmly, what can hurt is the feeling between each other. One party has little small error, that is communicated together with respect to two people, communication ability is the kingcraft that the problem solves between sweethearts.
The 3rd, without the person of perfect, both sides wants to include each other
Just was together to close with respect to disposition photograph to sweethearts without which, opinion is unanimous, without brawl. It is in the process two people include each other, adjust each other those who come out is long. Both sides is to did not want go very long together of very long way, did not include, nagging blindly do not have future then, everybody can make a bit mistake, the most important is how you process this error.
Later one party says to want sober and sober, or direct cold war, ten million of so other one party cannot let this plants nurturance between you habit, must pull him in time (she) communicate. I am together two years with the boy friend, I also had had the case that wants to follow his cold war in the process, but he conducts every time I am communicated with him, speak oneself think of a way, he is wrong I tell him, he is corrected later. If do not have,I believe at the outset he is extortionary pulling me to communicate, if we always are cold war, can have far from present we. So communication ability is the method that solves a problem, it is the method that allows promotion of the feeling between sweethearts more, cold war of and rather than.
What idea does everybody have?
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