Be in cold war period now, now and then the word wants to say also is hair small letter, call not to exceed a minute! He goes out not to come back in the evening I also do not manage, whole winter outside sofa is building two pieces thin thin quilt, cold to the cold I also do not have a feeling! My exclusive now wish brings up namely two children, ministrant parents hundred years put in birthday 's charge!
I arrived dead not to overlook his harm to me, took my dotal hock gamble, because suck K pink to allow birth of my a child,die in the abdomen! To his son 10 years old, all along not what does the burden cross? Take even opening charge do not come out, term begins did not go to the school! Enthusiastic to friend of his own pig friend dog, to oneself wife and child follow ice cube in that way! It is I communicate the problem between husband and wife actively every time, and he always is not communicated as excuse with not good at one's words! So old, my heart is cool also, just maintaining this paragraph of unfortunate marriage half-deadly for the child, kill however sufferred from oneself and child! I always pray hope reincarnation of all one's life below two my children does not look for me again, also do not want again reincarnation has a rough time to such family be put into trouble!
I do not know I am the heart that went not to come out in the past alive or loves originally had died! I pass very depressively in cold war everyday, but hate to part with two children and choose not to divorce! I just am returned so young, all one's life so long, how should I step down!
Cold war, cold to harmed oneself, harmed the child, harmed two families! How don't I also know to should do? Do not talk besides cold war, I do not want to give me what to still settles way really!
Affection order programme: The love of new era of Mr. Ke Yuanyuan, marriage seeks advice from division
Hello. One paragraph immerses to concern mediumly in glacial water, can let a person begin to send out from the bottom of the heart really chill. From begin to think method to add lukewarm, struggle to be shown a bit repeatedly to now faint.
Treat your condition now first. Because of such advisory means, and the finite sex of the data, I can make partial deduction from possible way only. I am not quite clear the reason that you marry your gentleman at the outset, not quite clear also the relation quality before your marriage, just see your amid respecting: "I do not know I am the heart that went not to come out in the past alive or loves originally had died " . I guess, this paragraph of concern ever had had temperature, you once had seen his good one side, right? From temperature arrives between cold war, a few what to produce after all? The turning point with most marriage is similar perhaps, after having the child the not know what to do of two people, household quantity is cruel added trifling be agitated, in fuel more and more can say nothing, perhaps sufferred a setback outside again, mood nowhere abreacts. Gradually, shed drifting love in the relation originally, do not know when to begin to cool, formed ice. I guess, you also once wanted to be paid with your with temperature, go dissolving of the other side cold, it is such effort is not accepted it seems that only.
The face is put in two kinds of possibility here, the first kind, your pay melt, look in him, he experienced his border to be encroached only, the care is a kind of requirement to him at that time. The 2nd kind, he is experienced much the pressure that cannot assume again, because he loads even his anguish,do not rise. Say like you: "He always is not communicated as excuse with not good at one's words. " and not good at one's words is the truth likely very, a person can be mixed of unrestrained and far -ranging of a gang of scoundries a little, but touch the mood feeling that touchs depth, most moment can choose hold one's tongue only not character. That kind is touched with respect to be agitated, touch want to escape, touch lift in the heart dark emerging feeling, do not know whether you can understand.
Regard cold war as another medium person, he depresses himself outside, carry a person however between border approbate those who bring is delighted will win compensation; Interiorly serves family with inhospitality, balance him pay. If do psycho to your gentleman, so the person that I consider to he is a safe without the society feeling, his adolescence and manhood are inchoate whether had sufferred concussion, or the psychological difficult position that Ceng Youlai lays a family formerly oneself. From pink of his suck K, indulge in light of the behavior of gamble, he answers painful way to be given priority to in order to escape normally. If so, so you are the person that the gentleman feels the safest, abreacting the mood to people on one's own side is safe.
Those who need an attention is, when cold war is medium, if regard the other side as,turn that individual that you enter the water, what can hamper you have yourself is happy. We need to a bit see the thing is other the ability that face, go seeing the reason of the gentleman's evildoing and chill backside. He occasionally excessive emphasize individual space, divide space of not clear individual again occasionally, oneself are not happy can make everybody not happy, him uneasiness can make everybody disturbed. To such spouse, we need to do, it is clear ego border, the attention is not immersed in victim perspective. In putting water on the ice, criticise the other side can not let each other be rescued actually. Let oneself warm oneself, it is the most important that at least has the courage that leaves glacial water. In this process, much derive a few knowledge that grow about ego, much attention ego is experienced, it is the most important thing that instantly can do. Include the child, you can ask them first, in instantly you in relation of this paragraph of marriage, what is their feeling? They wish to not be willing to stay in putting water on the ice. If they are not willing, so does your reason have tarry to whether hold water?
Finally, about communicating, have a few principles that we can learn, do not be willing to convey more immanent experienced person, need somebody to see their feeling more, change and of character, the person that not to be pooh-poohed communicates, need to communicate most, the premise of all these happening, the other side feels be being communicated with you is enough security, won't 2 degrees get hurt, won't be censured, won't be experienced by oversight. Those who become us is immanent get ready, when those who face each other is flimsy, communication ability can begin truly.
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