Show according to national statistic bureau and data of civil administration ministry, from the point of countrywide limits, married 2018 rate it is 7.2 ‰ only, this number achieved nearly 10 years to come new low. From the point of the difference of different province, the marriage that economy amounts to an area even more is led lower, countrywide marriage led lowermost Shanghai to have 4.4 ‰ only 2018, 5.9 ‰ are Zhejiang penult, the marriage of and other places of Guangdong, Beijing, Tianjin is led also on the low side.
Why more and more youths do not want to marry, and what is bringing about the element with this the basiccest idea.
? Some youths speak " poor " , nevertheless this also is the problem that nots allow to ignore when the next really, for the moment does not say the economic atmosphere after marriage, the corporeal foundation of the need before sheet says to marry lets a person flinch, buy a room to buy feast of car betrothal gifts, any not be a decimal eye euqally, a lot of youths go now city of a gleam of develops, what marry below big environment is not early, play together with the friend at ordinary times, pressure of it doesn't matter, want love to talk about a love, do not like to part, the pressure with too great never mind, corporeal defray no more than is appointment, return somebody to feel he still has a lot of thing to was not done, think of to be in one individual journey, know the friend of far apart, want to make a lot of money, consider take a refresher course going abroad, want to abound oneself ceaselessly, and it is so important that marriage seems to do not have before these, him biscuit has, do not need to go put up with a paragraph of feeling.
On the other hand, to a lot of " lone noble " for, fear " after marriage answer deficient " , " lose freedom " , it is a when its choose not to enter marriage to concern main reason. In interview, many females state the reason that does not marry is female independence, live without marriage of necessary leech on to and male.
The netizen says " a choice title that marrying was life only, not be to need answering question, what want to be able to live only is wonderful why kink is denied then marry " " rather go without than have something shoddy-put quality before quantity, after wanting to marry, reduce lone the life quality when, the union of two people is it is better to want one case, if short of does not marry then " also someone says marriage has been requisite no longer.
The times is developing, the society is right of the youth include degree taller and taller, the manner to love already before unlike in that way, some parents or meeting are urged marriage, it is good for the child that the parent feels, take the advantage of young still can be child redo some what, but parents the requirement child of one be ignorant of, very much however time can be just the opposite to what one wished, the child can not be willing to come home, do not be willing to accept this kind of love, also hope to see what these parent can stand in the child consider locally, perhaps was to finish a job to you, perhaps be the child that looks for a person to take care of his, but get along farthest is them, what cannot force so is too close.
Anyhow, hope authority is clear, no matter you are lone love,still marry, the target of the life is not love, however happy.
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