" taking father to study abroad " , see from the name, this drama focusing is in " study abroad accompany read " on this one group, told about study abroad American parents and child are mixed in exotic and mutual company the story that grows jointly.

Leave since sowing, the distinctive person that depends on it is set reach the real problem such as parentage, caused countless popular topics.

In above word (C á O) problem (Di ǎ N) in numerous gut, in no matter be drama,discovering not hard, deceptive behavior never is lacked in still living.

So chat with everybody today: The parentage of these 4 groups of families in drama, in the daily family education that derives a few kinds common " puzzle behavior " .

Puzzle behavior 1 excessive and doting

Huang Chengdong of the leading role in drama (Sun Gonglei is acted the role of) , from ridicule " the Loser with 49 cities the truest alley " . His life is very simple, son Huang Xiaodong is him is all, if have,close everything at the son only, his metropolis do one's best.

In the meantime, he expressed extremely tall hope to small again, wish to abandon everything for the son, but dare not let go again. Below this kind of overprotection, oversight the child's feeling, huang Xiaodong feels to do not have face very much. The first concentration he begins to spit groove by every means to old father in the airport, even the way one speaks or what he says because of malcontent father, oneself a person is exotic the late night abandons a place far away form home the car leaves.

This kind of deed that realizes him slowly when father has made oneself and son go gradually gradually far, what kind of change can he make?

Hit jointly in grow with the son strange, is not to replace a son to face. Want to know, grow to be faced mediumly " demons and ghosts " cannot avoid. In the meantime, in accompanying the child to grow, parents cannot abandon pursueing oneself value as much. Such parents, not only the image that can make child respect adore, after the both hands that still can discover former child broke away from parents to grasp can assistant gradually abundant.

Puzzle behavior 2 come loose blindly raise

With Huang Chengdong completely contrary, wu Dandan's father, wu Hanxiang, be swing palmar ark dye-in-the-woodly. Lose oneself daughter to Lin Feng (stepmother) after taking care of without any consideration, think to should give a daughter money only, was equal to a daughter everything.

Be short of the Wudandan of love as a child, the disposition in drama " make " can mix " Dou Ting is good " the Su Dajiang Pk in. Fortunately she encountered the stepmother of reasonable, mother and daughter of this half-and-half road, from at the beginning give tit for tat gets along to the peace after twists and turns of all previous classics.

In this process, the family that having similar problem people what inspiration can you get?

Communicate, it is effective domestic conditioning agent, no matter be to give birth to a family to still recombine a family formerly, good communication is to surpass straight face certainly all cruelty. Good communication loves truly to communicate only.

Puzzle behavior 3 lose ego

The Liu Reyu of the 3rd group of families (mother) the thought that often engrafts to the child is: Mom everything is for you. Liu Mintao also loses ego model maternal explanation gets written in a forceful hand.

This mother is some surgical doctor of famous hospital originally, read to accompany a son to go to abroad, abandoned work smooth and steadily originally and living, this is accompanied is 8 years. 8 years, operating-table changed the top of a kitchen range of the kitchen, the husband that is very fond of oneself repeatedly is final also and off the rails had an illegitimate child.

The child's disposition also becomes traitorous and angst, because talked about love to cause a series of farce, fortunately, experienced a series of after incident, the decision after the mother thinks over searchs original oneself, renascence lives for oneself.

In this process, what inspiration can the parents that are having similar anxiety feeling get?

You hope the child is outstanding, yourself is about above all outstanding; You hope the child is happy, oneself are about above all happy. Live oneself life richly and happy, the child can experience this to plant as a child energy. is not to lose ego, send hope and son. Sacrifice blindly like ascetic practices monk, education does not go truly happy child, ask parents to live his life into an example!

This drama brings, be at one's leisure not just absolutely talk endowment, more it is to guide us to ponder over the child and parents between get along mode, hope we can be in with the child in getting along, find fit respective photograph prescription pattern most.