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Today, " the life of Ding Ke a group of things with common features will be happy " if problem, was introduced to hot search, cause a netizen to discuss extensively. Discuss in these in, we there is no lack of the life current situation that sees the first batch of man of our country overcome a family, caused deeper reflection thereby.
On August 28, korea statistic hall is released " was born 2018 statistic (affirmatory edition) " , at present Korea becomes the state of on the world first 0 birthrate. For this, the netizen leaves a message in succession below news: "Before long in the future, our country also meets the likelihood. Our country also meets the likelihood..
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Be in our country, do not lack the presence of Ding Ke a group of things with common features.
Feel like a lot of people " this life must give birth to the child " , life calculates go up to be mixed satisfactorily complete and same, also a lot of people think: "Do not give birth to the child, footloose spend lifetime, just be satisfactory really and complete. Just be satisfactory really and complete..
This world is multivariate from beginning to end, everybody is not identical to defining each happily, our even if does not understand, also should choose esteem.
Bypass for the pursuit of these individuals, we will talk, why more and more people can choose Ding Ke? The philosophy besides oneself, viewpoint of value and marital view differ at most person beyond, also cannot take off implication with real factor actually.
For instance, foster the child to need to expend time and energy not only, need to expend money more. And oneself corporeal foundation, may not is caught up with, after letting the child be born with its, grown below a so not good environment, be inferior to considering oneself life first.
Resemble be aimed at " Korea becomes state of on the world first 0 birthrate " this one topic, a lot of netizens say in that way: Raise do not rise, it is too difficult to after giving birth to the child, apply for a job.
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No matter be what kind of reason, bring about you to choose Ding Ke, a when become Ding Ke a group of things with common features, you need to understand a reason, that is: Should fall only the chess does not have regret, it is the choice with best life.
How can you just accomplish fall doesn't the chess have regret? The result often cannot accuse, but we can be in before making a choice, a few more discreet, again a few more discreet.
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It is before reforming and opening, the thought of a lot of people stays in as before " raise prevent old " level, feeling to give birth to the child is to pass ancestor receive era, it is prospective safeguard, have more " disobedient have 3, after notting have, be big " this one conversation.
But now, as people life quality rise, and the change of the thought, most husband and wife already no longer " the child " regard as the safeguard of provide for the aged, regard as however of an independence individual, let them be brave in to pursue the life that belongs to them.
But even if such, as before a lot of people can feel " Ding Ke " it is selfish actually, considering oneself to enjoy life only, disregard however reach birthday 10 thousand generation.
Actually, "Ding Ke " it is a kind of choice nevertheless. The profession that can choose us like us and spouse are same, "Ding Ke " also be a kind of lifestyle nevertheless. No matter who be, on the commanding elevation that should not stand in morality, go condemning the family that chooses Ding Ke.
The word says, those are choosing Ding Ke before New Year more 60 hind, the life live well nowadays? I once had been done a few interview, summed up the following more typical life current situations.
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One: Have unripe year take care of good parents, oneself old age puts bit of money more
Neat gentleman is fourth gram of a choice 60 hind, these year he lives footloosely all the time, when working, endeavor to had done each thing, of leisure grind turn at global each district, go travelling, go exploring sealed, go experiencing life multiple meaning.
Such life is wonderful, also be alone at the same time, he also can envy those families that have the child now and then.
But become you to stand on the bridge to see a landscape, the person that sees a landscape is upstair also see you, different choice is different view, need not admire another person, had crossed oneself, should be best life.
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2: Find the Ding Ke with 3 unanimous view to encircle, hand in hand annulus swims the world, wine has the flesh to have a friend, good discomfort is vivid
The man of Mr Yang overcomes a friend, those who have three years old, four years old, five years old, also have six years old at the same time. Everybody although the age is different, but however 3 view are unanimous, be congenial to, it is the friend that can have visited lifetime hand in hand.
These year, they often are being made an appointment with go travelling, do not animal farm to be mixed at lay bias pressure, want to be in only this is only in life, go out alive most want oneself.
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3: Life has pattern of a kind of life not merely, it is before the life with cannot give the child better, do not wish to let the child be born be in distress
Zhao Ting just chooses Ding Ke later in 30 years old, nowadays already she more than 50 years old, not was the be repentant after this feels.
She chooses Ding Ke at that time, because do not have self-confidence completely,be, become a mother. She feels to be before the living conditions with give the child better without ability, informal unripe child is one kind extremely irresponsible reflect.
Zhao Ting says: "We cannot to will come somebody provide for the aged, let the child be born with respect to endure hardships. Let the child be born with respect to endure hardships..
The environment that this may live as a child with her is concerned, her parental feeling is very bad, divorced when she is very small, she feels very self-abased for this. She feels parents never has asked her, reach this world presumably really, let her be born bearing hardships endure hardships, this is inequitable.
If oneself cannot do a good father and mother, offer him good education, good life, can choose Ding Ke only, endeavor to had crossed oneself this lifetime. Such Zhao Ting wanting, also do so nowadays, for this she does not feel to regret, more do not feel to I am sorry who.
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Once had seen a paragraph of such words on the net, special touch me: "Do not mind alone, had done a person to prepare often eventually, the wife that who must I become without obligation natively or mother, marry and parturient not be our life surely option, be born and be a person, in this society already very painstaking, wish only parents is in good health, oneself are easy. Oneself are easy..
What is happy? Everybody is having different definition and level to this.
If you feel to marry happy, that goes after love with respect to effort, enter marriage with other in part; If you feel not marriage is happy, that talks about a love that does not marry, perhaps keep lone; If you feel unripe the child is happy, ability considers the family complete, then you bear children; If you feel, ding Ke is happy, then you talk about love all one's life with the sweetheart, do a Ding Ke a group of things with common features well.
Life once, we are not natively to denounce whose satisfaction, want you to feel happy only, you step down bravely. The track ten million of life, suit oneself, just be best, how does people look, not important.
Say like winter of actor Xu winter: "A person can pass happily, do not depend on whether does he have a partner, whether to have the child, depend on however the life that he likes to oneself too, enjoy oneself life.
Some life darling, can feel happy; The dog that somebody adopted to roam about only, can experience happiness; Also somebody just lives footloose single life all the time, still can experience happiness.
Do not have the standard that unites absolutely happily, can have 1000 to happy road 10 thousand. Choose to suit his most, step down, enough good. Enough good..
So, no matter you are not marriage creed, still be fourth gram gens, hope you can remember: In every case falls the chess does not have regret, already was the choice with best life.
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