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Say from psychology, the person is the animal that need praises and affirms, believe each person hopes to be able to hear other to affirm to his, can hear praise, by the person of boast, often the mood is cheerful, gutty even wave wave desire the feeling of celestial being, opposite also can have self-confidence more alive.
Be opposite especially for the lover, if can receive the affirmation that comes from the other side to praise, encourage and praise, so the certainly will in the heart is sweet like eating honey, can feel oneself are more valuable, so that do an individual,metropolis resembling lives in light.
Actually, also can hit moving praise most reliably most, when several lovers' prattle. Because lovers' prattle is right not only,the affirmation of a person is mixed praise, return at the same time accumulate containing unbroken love, want to say appropriately only, so inevitable meeting lets the relation advance rapidly of two people, the concern that can allow each other is more harmonious, also can make the other side more tender to you show consideration for.
But lovers' prattle, how to have the effect again, cannot abuse casually quite, some words cannot say casually, cannot say often more, if says more, won't let the other side care about you not only, can let him feel instead you very " cheap " , undeserved be cherished well and treat.
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" The Book of Songs " have talk, person delay, still all right take off also, female delay, cannot say also. Early deep ground points out ancestor, in every case is immersed in the woman of love, the sun that can feel the man resembles the sky that kind is warm, so dazzling like star, they are willing to use the lovers' prattle with the most beautiful time to praise he.
But, when the wife is saying lovers' prattle with the man, must understand, some words, cannot say, perhaps cannot say a point more, say much, can let a man despise his, can endanger feeling even.
So, what lovers' prattle cannot the wife say to the man at will?
The first, no matter you love not to love me, I love you.
From ancient up to now, in the love paean that is in all passing to sing, do not have an other place to point out, want to accomplish a paragraph of affection of leave a good name forever, two people want certainly will, treasure each other, is not the love solely of one party, it is earthly the love in, what also need each other is interactive, is not one party is pure pay.
If man does not love a woman, is feminine one-sided only pay, so even if woman loves again sincerely, those who pay is again much, it is bamboo basket hits water nevertheless, it is all in vain after all.
After all, love is a dance for two people, those who need each other is two-way and interactive, the collective leap of two hearts. So, if woman misfortune fell in love with a man that does not love his, even if is right man again how affectionate, the love with again termless even if is worn he, the man won't be moved for you probably, even he can feel you are very bored, you are very cheap.
Say so, if misfortune fell in love with a man that ought not to love, must not say with him easily, no matter you love not to love me, I love you, still want seasonable face about, go searching that man that loves oneself truly.
The 2nd, leave us to did not have a law to live.
"Leave you to did not have a law to live " , this word highlighted the other side on one hand the importance in him heart, listen suddenly under the other side is likely understanding is put touch. Can let a person feel on the other hand, this woman does not have the life that she paddles her own canoe, once left a certain person, cannot survive actually, can let a man feel pressure hill is big.
Say so, resemble this kind of lovers' prattle, it is OK to say twice, say more, can make a man aeriform in have a kind of sense of urgency and pressure feeling, can let a man feel to be together with the woman more, it is to perform duty nevertheless, and did not have relaxed and comfortable feeling
We know, the man is the biology that a kind of conquer feels very strong, they like not quite the sort of easily in one's hand woman, like the sort of sense that jumps over Zhan Yueyong however, if a woman professions to him,say so, if live without him man,emphasize not know clearly, that with respect to as good as at telling a man, oneself belong to this man already completely, no matter the man is right oneself how, female woman can be accepted.
Once the man holds a woman,this is planted idea, perhaps he won't cherish you well again, can do as one wants even, want him to leave you only anyway, you did not have a law to live, so the woman falls in this kind of circumstance, even if man is again abominable to her, want not to leave her only, be afraid she is met enjoy sth bitter as if it were malt sugar.
In fact, on the world no matter who left, can live well, not be him hang by the neck on body of a man, even if your feeling is one day nonexistent, you parted, you still can shine brightly alive beautiful, only you take out this kind of attitude, so the man fears you may leave him one day, he just is met well cherish and care about you.
The 3rd, for you, I am willing do everything.
Equality is between person and person, this is to be on equal foundation, man woman acquaintance, be in love, know each other well and defend, if says one paragraph concerns build, if wanting to facilitate with just doing everything additionally, so this paragraph of relation is be between the beetle and the block actually, not be at least so sincerity letting a person thinks a blessing.
Woman to please a man, to win her favor, and chose to be paid termlessly, do everything even be most willing to, such woman, above all she demoted oneself social status, be equal oneself at brute position, when oneself do not respect oneself, how the man can respect you again?
Next, for the angle from the man, they talk about amative marriage is not to want to look for vassal, perhaps steward, hope to be able to have a lover that have mutual affinity however, can become oneself incorporeal partner, can answer the wind storm rain of the life hand in hand with oneself. So they hope their woman can be mixed more the condition that oneself are match each other in strength, is not the appearance of lacquer of low of a pair of slave colour.
And, so called the attitude that do everything, constant regular meeting lets overbalance of this woman heart, feel oneself are so termless take care of a man, if man is not known cherish, make even I am sorry feminine thing, so this woman will naturally break down, make even very extreme thing.
Say so, the woman must be known in love, love is not your life is all, be being paid to the man is not the responsibility that you should use up more, love man wants measurable love, pay should pay moderately, must not for this man, do everything oneself come living.
The 4th, because love you, I am willing to excuse everything what what you do.
Li Xiaolu's off the rails incident the world all knows, gu Nailiang calms happy life is broken accordingly, be held in both hands to go up from time to time even hot search. A lot of people say, gu Nailiang and Li Xiaolu today's ending, it is Li Xiaolu does not know cherished outcome. Can you be doesn't Gu Nailiang have responsibility?
Remember Gu Nailiang saying a word before marrying with Li Xiaolu, no matter what Li Xiaolu does, off the rails even, he is willing to excuse. This reflected Gu Nailiang's magnanimous and the love to Li Xiaolu naturally on one hand. No matter what the other side does, can be willing assume. But say from another angle, the including that does not have a principle so because of Gu Nailiang just about and bestow favor on be addicted to, it is so beyond the mark to just make Li Xiaolu so capricious, so that off the rails really?
If says, once made a fault really, that once had said to be willing to excuse the person of all mistakes that you make, true can from hit be excused in the heart? Even if was excused, is there a thorn inside god-given heart? Can be the heart balanced?
Manage together, when the woman is in and the man gets along, also cannot make known his position unprincipledly, emphasize oneself be willing to excuse all mistakes of the man. After all, the person is not a sage, some things, always not quite let a person can be accepted.
Say so, when the schoolgirl is in and the schoolboy gets along, must not hang this word in mouth edge easily, cannot say not only, want the principle that follows schoolboy him statement and bottom line instead, if schoolboy offended oneself bottom line, commit extremely big mistake, so feminine ten million cannot be excused, want a schoolboy to pay due price however.
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Foolish woman by man bondage, the 1000 sore that are hurt by so called love 100 aperture, and clever woman can be only in love feel just like a fish in water, be in and freely is answered in the man's association, win the man's esteem and care already, also let oneself pass more happily with joy.
Say love so, the woman loves a man, not only be it is OK to have love, have means and method even, also should have method and chip seek. To the woman, most the thing that relies on chart, when nothing is more... than is encountering a man, can hold sober head, accomplish in love love oneself well, is not for a man and pay termlessly, not hesitate even him lay a finger on principle and bottom line, if such word, of love at the woman, not be sweet candy, however arsenic
Wish each woman, can come up against, , make oneself truly worth while go, pay and have some men.
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