To a family, the child says for " mind flesh " had not been, the heavy visual range to the child spends parents to exceed actually the imagination of average person, from the child quack drops that daystart of the ground, what parents began this time of companion to follow a happiness and tear is itinerary.
The child is so small so soft, parental concern hits the child to be born to had not stopped oneself, the child still is a concern when little baby the child falls ill, wait to be brought up to be able to climb a little when be being met, be afraid that the child is met again trip, the child arrived to go up the age that nursery school attends elementary school is afraid that the child can be bullied to wait a moment again, accompanying the child of one pace grow, the parent's concern never also has stopped.
But, this among them most those who make the parent afraid is the child is bullied by the classmate in the school, campus is violent to puny child as good as destroys at destroying a day the blow of the ground, can affect the child all one's life even.
Wu Zhenyu is holding the position of honored guest transcribe " after school " when the program, with the good friend Chen Huilin spoke of him in one's childhood growing experience and oneself son Fei Man, wu Zhenyu is in the school to once was annoyed by the classmate from Fei Man exposing to the sun, when son backstroke by the classmate hit to the face, hit even face already silt became green.
But the campus force event that faces son place to suffer, the educational idea that Wu Zhenyu follows a wife is disparate however.
The face that Wu Zhenyu's wife sees Fei Man is special feel distressed, when telling a son to encounter these children next time, had better not meet with them, it is OK to run away.
But Wu Zhenyu feels the boy is about however a bit braver, these classmates can be encountered in the school everyday, must handle, escape cannot solve any problems, annoy this kind of thing to be able to happen certainly, happening a bit earlier is silt blueness at most. So Wu Zhenyu encourages Fei Man to want brave, want to learn to protect oneself in this age.
Be in " boycott campus is violent " while, the two disparate heat that handled means to cause netizens however discuss Wu Zhenyu's husband and wife, some netizens express " do not bully a person, but also be not bullied, the boy fastens Song when this strike back, hit him to take " , " be bullied in the school only oneself stand up bravely, a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye, just won't be bullied " .
But some netizens also express " if person of the other side is much strike back also can be squelched, get hurt more serious, still be inferior to hiding to nod, look for the parent and teacher to solve " , " the security that I feel or protects oneself first decides to want again not brave, or blind strikes back can make this kind of circumstance more serious only " .
Suffer the person of campus force, far the more in imagining than you
Investigation of China of Chinese people university and data center ever had released a group of data, the whole nation near half (49.6% ) junior high school lays the campus force that has sufferred verbal form, the junior high school of 37.7% gives birth to experience to cross relation ride roughshod over, the junior high school of 19.1% is born in campus to had sufferred the violent harm on the body, the occurence rate of network ride roughshod over also was achieved 14.5% .
Include the Ma Saichun that everybody is familiar with to be in in one's childhood the classmate puts chalk end in water, forcing she is drunk go down; Because father is comic dialogue actor,chair person Mr. Ma Dong, ever was blocked up in the corner to force he says comic dialogue is waited a moment by the classmate, actually campus force is beside us.
Suffer such case to avoid the child, how should do as the parent?
1.Undertake communication with the child more at ordinary times
Because,a lot of parents are in in daily life not self-conscious at the job can ignore the child, the its parent that so child of a lot of moment produces in the school often is to be utterly ignorant, but no matter be,be being communicated to the parent or child actually is very important.
The parent mights as well take out a paragraph of small time to be communicated with the child everyday, enquire the child had the thing with interesting what to a few whats perhaps produce today in the school today, a when can understand a child to be in the school from the parent in the child's language probably circumstance.
Produce what thing when the child, the parent also can understand in time in communicate, go to the lavatory to the parent is handled and be solved.
2.Observe the change of child mood, understand a reason in time
Child age is too small still, too much thing cannot hide actually in the heart, the parent change to child mood is know sth like the palm of one's hand actually, the child is glad, it is sadness, it is grievance differentiates very easily actually.
The child's mood produced change, very big because the child produced certain thing in the school,the reason of one part is, so the parent should observe the change of this kind of mood of the child, after discovering child mood is incorrect, want to understand the reason that the mood changes in time.
3.Church child does not bully others, but when others bullies him, want brave
In daily life the parent wants church child not to bully others, but also want when others bullies him brave, because blindly self-surrender can let this kind of circumstance become aggravated only. But also should tell the child at the same time, the child is brave it is to build the base that can protect oneself in oneself.
On this foundation the parent tells the child even, do not want to be afraid of, father mother can stand beside you forever, when you the strongest prop up! Only such children just can feel fearless, because parents gave child huge safe sense.
In the child year young when the protection that needs the parent, do not want the neglect because of the parent, and let the child suffer needless harm.
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