Write Luo Zhenyu to be in last " strange flower says " the expression in " Luo Zhenyu, you are made " , a few readers leave a message those who say to cause allergy most still is the phenomenon embracing a group in the program.
They are not the first batch is mentioned " embrace a group " person, frequent also Cue reachs this term in program barrage.
OneCan say, be in early the 34th season begins, "Embrace a group " had become it seems that " strange flower says " a label.
Not only somebody mentions old strange flower to hold a group in the arms to elbow out fancy flower, still include to often surprise there also is the circumstance that embrace a group to elbow out Jiangsaida and Chen Ming between flower.
For instance someone leaves Jiangsaida rice not, unscramble Ma Weiwei, Huang Zhizhong and Qiu Chen to did not hold the position of important post in rice, won't give Jiangsaida too much resource so, jiang Saida develops suffocate suffocate to just leave;
And someone says the program fluctuates a few old strange flower are in all the time Diss Chen Ming " the station calls love in cosmic center " also have dozen of suspicion that press and elbows out.
Who has not called love, which argue hand is done not have had gone up value, is what the name with love won an audience voting?
Still have the group group disturbance of newest first phase, yan Rujing and Pang Ying rejected an adviser to invite, face about throws the bosom of old strange flower of acquaintanceship.
Pang Ying should aid a Zhan Qingyun to take BBKing, yan Rujing also became the reservation team member that Huang Zhizhong selects surely, the battle group that final Xue Jiao gives harvested an old strange flower only, also became everybody's accepted the youngest group.
From this, the comment that holds a group in the arms to elbow out again stage a come back.
As " strange flower says " the senior audience of this file program, I admit the program has up and down likewise " embrace a group " phenomenon, it is I do not feel embracing a group is a mistake only, it is allergy making a person. "Embrace a group " it is the world instead true.
" strange flower says " an epitome that is real life nevertheless stopped.
2As the social animal, embracing a group is human instinct actually.
From be born to accept lactation, we rely on a mother make offerings to, form a family jointly with the person that basically bring up, also be the rock-bottom foundation that begins to establish all human relationships from now on -- attaching concerns;
Be brought up a little a bit, we go to school, with good friends an amuse oneself learns together, no matter be intended,still be innocently, small group because between a few people interact closely to be formed naturally;
When enter a society, embracing a group is not new issue more, however a kind inevitable.
The group that you are in, be a natural presence " round " , when wanting to compete with other group, you should be hit together namely go all out, orphean appearance calls cohesive affinity, still hold round fight the enemy in the arms substantially.
The nowhere that embrace a group is absent, it is it only often by block hood other names.
A day that when the university reports, mention home town native place, you are close to more very easily with fellow-townsman a bit, so later had a fellow villager to meet, just do not cry " the meeting that embrace a group " ;
Study abroad abroad, a lot of people can join group of Chinese student studying abroad, they became the first batch of groups that should embrace;
And enter duty field, if there is alumnus in the colleague,learn to grow, you also draw close not can self-consciously with them;
If was in same home company to work a few years, the associate beside also happens to did not change, you became a small group naturally also.
Opposite Yu Gang enters the fresh blood of duty, you also follow old colleague certainly closer more stand by, look even if embracing a group.
" strange flower says " in embracing a group also is same.
Everybody is mixed through the collaboration of a few season give aid to, old strange flower becomes close together in the coupling on affection, should not carry some players to there is old source before entering a program more.
Unless discovery is not one passerby really, that wants fight the enemy one case to hit strange state of mind not to pass normally again.
3Tell from psychological angle, embracing a group is the need that satisfies safe feeling, also can let person extend ego more at the same time.
Because each other are familiar, need not establish trust afresh, but if face, is not ripe teammate, everybody should break nervous feeling first, get used to each other, very difficult flabby project oneself.
Professor Xue often discusses an issue from economics theory, and one of the mainest ideas in economics are " cost " .
The person of acquaintanceship holds round cost is lowest actually in the arms.
Need not spend time understanding, familiar, establish tacit agreement, can use time on mutual cooperation, complement however, this is brushstroke clearly delimits the Zhang that come.
Be like,so Professor Xue makes auspicious in make choice of when, he should realize more than who actually, the cost of their group group is the biggest.
She serves as a new personality, want to find group of powerful group of old strange flower, do not have emotional foundation.
Popular feeling is fond of Xue Jiao to award, really, twice choice team member is rejected, cause the actual strength inside the team the weakest, it is to hold out let a person sympathize with.
So, when somebody criticizes Yan Rujing and Pang Ying to embrace a group, obtain self-identity very easily.
This kind of self-identity results from actually sympathize with to what Xue Jiao gives a group, perhaps saying is the compassion to the weak.
The netizen says Yan Rujing and Pang Ying are promiscuous the life and match, their feeling is good, that furtive be on friendly terms.
Why cannot be particular about is fair, make fancy flower average distribute each lines, let a program have strange feeling more, allow authority is development more balanced?
Those who say is quite good, of sacred perspective the sort of good.
In reality, everybody won't cut apart the life and match.
If change,do us to enter a program, be afraid of is also can choose to be close friends and the friend group group with powerful actual strength.
Get along comfortable, without striking a blowing, more what is more,the rather that this is an agonistic program, core is competition.
Yan Rujing and Pang Ying attend a program to not be in charge of so called fairness perhaps making a program good-looking, they are had a plenty of think oneself win, some wanting that let teammate win, gaining ability is sole aim.
So when choosing teammate, feeling is a dimension only degree, actual strength just is choice foundation.
How to choose win a range bigger?
Of course first selection often surprises flower.
They have solid audience base, have richer match experience.
Some speciality that explain logic, some speciality that go up value, return some more be good at facing camera lens to tease a mood, every old strange flower is equivalent to a sth capable of comforting sb.
Xue Jiao is awarded and Xujiru also is not not to want to follow old strange flower " embrace a group " , it is congenital inadequacy stopped only.
4I can understand the jumping-off place that cannot bear the sight of the netizen that embraces a group actually, coming is us sympathize with the weak more easily what a moment ago mentioned.
But not be who loses who is justifiable, agonistic program, have have by force weak this is inevitable, and if you do not think " weak " , that also has an opportunity to avoid at the beginning, the directest method is Xue the professor picks an old strange flower when captain.
I remember " economics teaching materials of Xue Zhaofeng " in mention, who avoids accident cost lowest, whose liability is bigger, that is apparent, the responsibility that Xue Jiao gives is the biggest.
2 come, everybody more and more praise highly " independent aesthetic " , like to see Gu bravery heroine, do not like to look hold a group in the arms to warm oneself, always feel strong to powerful combination is gotten the better of namely not fierce.
But this is the match hey, the issue passes the achievement of everybody and increase.
Below match first premise, you see Professor Xue also be not held in the arms with Luo Zhenyu went up round, unless make game,change individual Battle entirely, perhaps go out left-hand rotation goes seeing compere contest became good.
Although everybody despises all the time, is " embrace a group " this thing, but real pain spot is absent " embrace a group " , and depend on " elbow out " .
Just " elbow out " this thing, define very hard really.
Official definition is " use force or method penalize to lose position or interest at his person " .
But " strange flower says " , should hold positive and negative each only square, the other side goes against his person namely, and so called force or method, point to controversy actual strength and the skill that cooperate namely in this program.
Do then this calculate do not calculate elbow out?
Substantially, this program should be elbowed out namely cannot attendant on stand to person of last minutes.
Of course, if be to be used under the counter,hold a group in the arms to hit press rival, then I do not support 10 thousand times.
5Said what adopt round view or hold out adventure so much is right, someone may say I am being washed white, someone may say my issue does not close oneself the guest in acting manage.
This program has nothing to do with me really, do not talk to go up really so washing still is to chair justice in vain.
I also am not to be aimed at " strange flower says " , I feel we are done not have instead necessary a focusing go up in this program.
Embracing a group is not " strange flower says " characteristic.
In the life hold a group in the arms to be able to be found everywhere, when you not self-conscious generation was entered " weak force " part, certainly meeting bitterly attack embraces a group, because you feel,others hurt your profit.
But in real life, our everybody is " embrace a group " embrace wholesale, seeking the seat in the organization self-conscious or not self-consciously.
Inferior position just is in in the PK that you are in this by chance, also happen you hit the person that likes not to rise again nevertheless to comprise posse.
Natural resources is limited, competitive hard to avoid, this temporarily those temporarily, everybody won't be in weak force forever.
Must not be used to weak perspective so, of this education is overmatch perspective.
No matter encounter,elbow out, endeavor to develop acme.
After all, we cannot change the mankind to be happy to embrace a group this fact, before the instinct that seeks asylum, so called object calculating a fart!
Total somebody can hold a group in the arms to warm oneself, but we do not do that to be met only the weak that dark rub rub condemns a woman. Refuse to obey dry! Cannot bear the sight of go dissolve a partnership ah! # strange flower says #
