Common saying says: "Gentle and graceful fair maiden, gentleman good Qiu " . A male produces good opinion to a female, wanting to go after her is very normal, however, whether pursuit has the kind that should see you go after partly greatly very much successfully.
Recently, have a Singapore trader because go after the belle of a China advocate sow too mad, and be called by the woman " bedlamite " ! How is this to return a responsibility after all? Know-all takes everybody to see ~ together
The first gear program in home -- " round-table clique " in, compere Dou Wentao told about the personal experience of his female friend.
This his friend is a famous female compere of domestic, once, she goes Singapore, the result knew a rich business. Chair home of National People's Congress to understand, that is grows the United States, figure is well belle, wealthy businessman falls in love at first sight to this compere immediately, spread out violent offensive ~
This female compere did not want the meaning that with this Singapore wealthy businessman is together, but this wealthy businessman keeps contacting this female chair. At the beginning, complaisant still, female later compere does not want to go down so again, begin to hang his phone then.
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Later, when Dou Wentao chats with this female compere once, female chair received a telephone call, this Singapore wealthy businessman is hit. Those who make a person open-eyed is, this female compere also does not hang a phone, also do not scold him, just put the telephone call in at the same time, chat with Dou Wentao then.
Dou Wentao is very curious, ask her: "Why don't you call up? " female compere says: "This person is a bedlamite, I was hanged, he must be called again, often hit often hit. " so she lets this wealthy him businessman say her, she did not listen. Singapore wealthy businessman follows mad like oneself say there, and here listen without the person.
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After Dou Wentao tells the story of this female compere, inquiry expert: "Did you say this calculates morbid state? " the expert expresses, this affirmation is clammy!
The expert expresses, character development has 3 level, the first is " this I " , want to work namely work, happy principle; The 2nd phase is " ego " , want a foundation that is to say external situation consider the situation, be called so " actual principle " . And some people are in moment by the family member " doting " , the standard with good neither one goes restraining him, accordingly, after he is grown, he feels I want to do, I conceivable want to get, I just without any consideration, must want to achieve a goal. Do not have in his eye other, have conceivable thing only, even he still can feel others Is am sorry he!
Such person, do not have in the eye " ego " , the 3rd level that also won't reach character, exceed me, won't surmount ego to review his, and the person is the most serious is " think over " .
Macaroni people, if you are article is medium this " Singapore wealthy businessman " , how can be you done court this girl? Fast " write leave a message " the idea that talks about you ~