Civil / bitter fleabane of underpants beans day
Eventually, accompany 10 years superabundant " fashionable family " , in official now close. See last act, fasten as seeing tenderness of some close kin: Good, I should go, you also were brought up, the following life, be about to rely on yourself completely.
Then, I couldn't help crying.
10 years, what to happen outside the play in play?
At the outset little baby Lily had become Li of poisonous tongue trailing plants, grow in laugh, is stopping again her?
Learn bully Alex of 2 elder sister all the way mug university graduates, resemble just stepping a society from the tower of ivory at the outset we, also experienced about the same perplexed and alarmed, final dodder along goes pursueing his passion.
Foolish accident of Haley of Bai Tian eldest sister is pregnant and act according to child get married, those who be born is twin still. The man that she picks, the life that she lives, the lay level that uses the main trend can be called simply " broken jar is broken fall " . But, join with her these 10 years, we were experienced together peripheral, next we learn together adjacent and happy.
Dear Dede left authority forever, turned daughter courtyard into a tree in, even if once most let you most headaching family, also can make you be in a certain be like what break somewhat afternoon, say to a leaf: I am how the ground misses you.
Jay is old really, he is softer and softer, amiable, like every old person, zealous reunite, like to yearn for. But, this lovely old man still wisdom, august, he is the sort of father that we yearn for: Irratable also, overbearing also, but, he is carried build up, know love more.
Mix as to Mitchell Cameron, or Claire and Phil, even Gloria, these a few middleaged people, with reality medium we are same, the predicament of field of the repetition of the consenescence that experiencing the body ceaselessly, life, duty, but fortunately they are in, make us see, face change ceaselessly and lose: Besides angst and funeral, still can choose hopeful He Yong.
Why do we love " fashionable family " ?
Is because love to view old husband and young wife, same sex,such blame tradition family just produced to make domestic joke in marriage, 3 child? Teleplay of photograph comparing our country every collect is gallinaceous flying dog jumps one ground chicken feather, child worries about the domestic set that husband holds an egg, " fashionable family " warmth gets can to compare a fairy tale, our majority person does not go up too among them the domesticity of a kind of any fashionable, but we are right however 100 see not tire of, be in probably this not very " ground connection is angry " " fashionable family " in, the strange flower family that we are not encountered, also we are like the trouble that ever was acquainted and warmth, more those who make us envy get along mode... and among them the most important, it is to make us be in mirth and hot tear, understood the reason that why is the home deeply: Understand, include, esteem.
The Manny understanding of an old head on young shoulders does not wish to wear the Alex of skirt: Want to let me abandon doing myself, even if one second is no good.
Be proud the Mitchell of charming says to antipathetic Manny: Not be gregarious it doesn't matter is terrible, sooner or later everybody thinks extraordinary. You should wait patiently, when when everybody thinks extraordinary.
Affectionate Cameron says the reason of love to the child: The rational on the world thinks the person that the home also has pessimism. We always think the fish looks for piscine shrimp to look for shrimp, but actually rather. The person that the idealist needs a pessimism will drag them, and pessimistic person beside if neither one idealist, then he does not know to come forever this is worldly time ought to watch the sun.
Still have whole and familial big parent Jay, say to Gloria of young Colombian book wife: I never consider you to get all the time English-speaking is experienced, I came back the teacher please, let him teach me spanish -- every kinds of language that I think to know with you, say to you " I love you " .
He still says: A lot of years ago, I ever was imagined henceforth domestic appearance, have perfect wife and perfect child. As a result I am done not have so in good luck, on booth so a flock of lardy-dardy fellow -- but I am full of to this everyday appreciate.
And, complete a 11 season are the most touching to a late word: We often the person for deep love does curious and strange thing. We lie to them, we lie for them. The each one in the life has the twist of each one, and we hope their live well is good only. Resembling is bear the burden with the heaviest move, but it is the sweetest burden on the world however.
The extract of these Ceng Lingren recall with emotion and actor's lines, write down insensibly before New Year more, old hind still remember naturally.
Because of this family, in associate with in 10 years, inspire us in order to love ceaselessly, guide us, invigorate us, make us feel eventually: Perhaps " former unripe family " , can be a very good word at all.
There is too much love to recall the friend of this drama beside me, they are in " fashionable family " in the certain sign that found oneself to give birth to a family formerly -- good to those, appreciate deeply; Pass to harm, learn to put down.
A friend says: "When theatrical work just was being sought 10 years ago, my home has parents that to have sororal home namely, so I see sororal each other rancors, mother and daughter is stronger entered oneself with respect to easily generation; After 10 years? Myself became need to guide the sheet that the daughter develops bravely ahead to kiss mom, strong self-discipline takes jumpy Claire slightly again, it is the inverted image of myself, also be my hero. Also be my hero..
Most at the beginning, we see play is for killtime.
Look at however look at, in the life that we saw this family. The vivid education of relation of copy Buddhist front courtyard and ego keep an eye on, be in those crying to cry laugh at laugh instant, make what we learn to admit the other side of our ordinary, understanding pungent, and the family that loves you more -- before coming from them, after leaving to them.
See Phil and Claire before Haley commencement plaint, when can thinking of parents sends him to leave home do not abandon: Freedom of 18 years old, the likelihood is lose of 40 years old.
Annual Allhallows has Claire only a person most vigorously, family person not very its are irritated, but because know this festival is particularly main to Claire, then year answer one year the ground cooperates amusement of show prize garment to kiss. Annual October portion sees all saints' day this one collect, I can think of the Spring Festival in spite of oneself, think of to begin to prepare alimental mother desperately early, the desire that although be opposite,has is lower and lower, but still want to spend the New Year come home, say to mom: Think those who do to eat you.
The ashes of the dead of ex-wife is buried into to establish a base, old man Jay says to the tree, "I think me also is not what good spouse in those days " . That momently use a facial expression, because understand,all be: Although most unsuccessful marriage, ever also had had happy share.
Still have Dunphy 5 are opening the hill on lord car nostalgic, make what person recall with deep emotion goes good at the beginning, hind the coming year is long the car condition of disrepair is ceaseless, final oneself slip to below hill, the old father Phil that relies on chart least of all says: Saying good-bye is the part with the hardest life, but affairs of human life is such, the society lets go also is the one class of life.
2009, I am 26 years old. That in September, I begin to chase after two to open sowed beautiful play newly: " lofty and unyielding character virtuous wife " and " fashionable family " .
I 26 years old, still should want to death for love vivid, happy or not happy nocturnal night is bought drunk, those who believe worldly meeting has ideal partner 2 force youth. Of course, want more impossibly to establish a family -- unripe child? Be nocturnal inn not amused? Doesn't KTV have new song? Did not restrict people of a new type?
" lofty and unyielding character virtuous wife " when complete the end, I am 33 years old. 6, 7 years, I had experienced unemployment, betray, break with, leave wait true adult a moment to live. Also do not have be on the tiles of libidinal all day long without energy, fall to have 3 words only gradually to the spouse's requirement: The word chats.
Remember complete theatrical work especially last act, heroine Alicia by Diane fan one a slap on the face, she is in of one instant lachrymal hind, raised a head, arrange good clothes unlined upper garment, loftily, pushed another door creditably to go in, there still is the life over there waiting for her.
I see before the television cry loudly.
Now, I am 37 years old, weep to TV again. And it is this " fashionable family " the tear that sheds, no longer sadness, energized.
Because of this warm drama, I am loving family, love hard to wear from beginning to end all the life, suffering that loving life to give and sweet, even, because of this drama, I feel unripe to the child raises the child eventually also is not too dread.
If can accomplish Dunphy couple include, so, although give birth to not to study the traitorous daughter that attends a college, or the son that brain always is short circuit it seems that, what concern to have again? Want your church only their integrity and goodness.
If can learn the calm of Mitch and Cam, so, oneself become gradually again the mediocre and unambitious and middleaged person of asexuality glamour, also do not have so terrible. Self-love, just be the most precious love on the world.
If can resemble Jay maintaining independent character and cognitive progress euqally, so, had even to aging expect -- the fruit that we gather life all the way, it is for this lifetime in order to love, with years, lead to age beautiful wine.
Former unripe family is not to use the boiler that blame and bears dissatisfaction for you. Give birth to a family formerly, also can be cover of a with the passing of time firm huge rock, a tree that blossom and bear fruit, one is carrying the car that you see through till the scenery, a few although you do not understand them, they also are not had blame the person that loving you without hate.
And, if you feel really parents all damage, hate with its, curse all one's life, be inferior to recalling a painful experience, let oneself become the person that walks out of a shadow to live below sunshine hard, become even can below benefit one former unripe family, not better?
10 years of a snap of the fingers between one brandish
10 years, must want to be opposite this one " fashionable family " path a thank, say good-bye. Review the past, still a lot of deserve a lot part more very much, it cured countless people the hour of heavy curb of bored to death, pessimism, I am only among them one of.
From be born to age, we reach another home from a home, from be caressed by need, arrive heavily from fetter careless arrive again fetter is heavy, the feeling of the most in life with " " about.
So, in your heart, what kind of is the story about the home?
Horrible piece? Picture " ghost inbreaks " in those who discuss in that way, family of the childhood that is ignored, each other alienated concerns, but mutual still finally sacrifice is saved each other;
Cartoon? Resemble " piggy admire is strange " in that way, happy, equal, patient satisfied domesticity, forever the mom He Yongyuan of tender beauty's droll and fatherly father;
Reality piece? Resemble " thief is familial " in that way, not disease not Xu De is told to you " parents does not deserve to do father and mother really certainly " this brutal truth;
Or, scene drama? Resemble " fashionable family " such, take you to think easily those and home are concerned in life, heavy earnest topic.
I feel, it is, also not be.
About domestic story, it is the serials with a much more miscellaneous style, without absolutely main actor, without absolutely ending, always keep only more daily.
Perform this one part, and see next market.
Perform this lifetime, still have a future life.
So Long, my Family!
Wang Xin (@ opposes underpants position)
Writer, already published novel volume " Beijing woman illustrated handbook " , novel " live quietly in disturbed world " , gossip collection " send us always by the life in stamp " .
