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1" ace " it is female to exceeding 6 years that the 5th season has first phase theme undertake nostalgic, won't do want to also be gone up to heat up search by the top accordingly, become netizens to heat up the topic that discuss.
How to return a responsibility? Ace of this first phase arrived please in those days exceed female champion Shang Wenjie, asked the contestant of other the corresponding period at the same time, have among them in those days the 6th Xu Fei.
Saw oneself exceed several times of the corresponding period in those days female appearance, champion Shang Wenjie was opened affective valve, shed hot tear. This one stirs begin pretty good. But did not think of straight intestines Xu Fei speaks of in those days the relation of the everybody after the match, say small gain illicit believes Shang Wenjie to be not answered, basically did not interact.
The spot for a time awkward, have make impromptu comic gestures and remarks of Shen Teng, Gu Ling fortunately. After the program broadcasts, xu Fei sends long article to defend for oneself in small gain, misdirect of effect of program film editing audience, be not oneself make trouble out of nothing is intended " anger rancor " Shang Wenjie.
However Shang Wenjie says first other exceed female party not to call her, xu Fei just says in that way to explain ability is met. Similar nostalgic put together attends after saying art, must be the friend just can go really.
The meaning below character, she still thinks Shang Wenjie and they are not true friend, say to break big day namely the player of the corresponding period when the match.
" ace " do this laugh impose stirred groovy pattern, encounter to turn over of slippery iron Lu, it is awkward very.
The netizen comments on cent to be two cliques:
One group power holds out Shang Wenjie. Feel like Shang Wenjie this kind learns bully coronal soldier to set, because want dedicated the professional domain at oneself, introversion is dissociable do not have what blunder.
One clique feels to make flying honest and frank. It is truth fact says nevertheless, whose regulation wants only it is the corresponding period passes a work in all, must the boat of friendship brave the wind and waves certainly hoist the sails Yuan Hang? Friendship also is managed seriously.
I feel, the key is strange still " ace " assemble this bureau is blind and self-confident, twisted duty field friendship by force this melon, not sweet also be in reason.
This actually 06 exceed female reunion, saying with its is in all appraise friendship, be inferior to saying is the colleague ten years ago encounters.
" ace " this program had arrived the 5th season, once had gone out a lot of classical nostalgic stir extract. For instance Yao Chen, Sha Yi " pass outside Wu Lin " ginseng perform personnel to be in in the program when reunion, chorally thematic song.
Occasion is touching, yao Chen and sanded excessive shed next hot tears for a time, once audience merchant Ling also when it is the most difficult that north bleachs him sigh with regret, see this play very solution is pressed and encourage to oneself. I also am touched as the audience unceasingly.
You look, stir the resonance that going up at affection well, everybody is synchronous. Because patted a drama to cooperate, became a friend very quickly from colleague place, ability of this kind of deep friendly feelings as time accumulate over a long period. Once reunion, affection valve is opened quickly, if resonance flows into like flood discharge come out.
" ace " was to have this sweet taste for certain, often just engineer these plan. But they forgot, not be all duty field people, OK ground of follow a rational line to do some work well develops Cheng Youyi. For instance 06 exceed female people do not have.
Compare field of these two duty and friendship development sequence of thought, I explore a few postulate that gave duty field to be able to develop a friendship:
The first, everybody is compared from development each balanced. Yao Chen, Sha Yi even Yan Ni ginseng acts " pass outside Wu Lin " when, when belonging to acquaintance Yu Wei, also be red because of this drama. Everybody is hit severally later go all out, although seldom meet, but before belonging to line of just a little basically to lean such getting on drama, pat put together art, although development has difference but differ without huge wide gap.
Exceed 6 years female can not be such, besides champion everybody has bit of impression a little, other player basically concealed is done not have at the crowd.
The 2nd, respective disposition joins great master quite. No matter duty field knows you, other still circumstance knows, make friend or get disposition in time.
Shang Wenjie is to learn as a child bully, the match is champion, dedicated force is extremely powerful, achievement also is brilliant, case of this kind of human nature does not love inherently to make friend also not be good at making friend. Make flying and so on have overmuch be mixed without bonze Wen Jie, not be whose fault, however real nature shoulds not, without friend predestined relationship.
So, should make friend in duty field, how should make friend?
The first, duty field the first important or urgent business is major and personal growth, just be to make friend next.
Had seen play of frequency of a nearsightedness, the corresponding period joins the Xiaozhang of the company and Xiaoli, ability of qualifications and record of service is about the same. Treat a colleague to concern to have different processing kind however.
Volubility of pieces of small person, feel to serve as new personality must with wide the state of mind that make friend and colleague do well relation. So, no matter the colleague puts forward what sundry to let her help, she does not reject an agree to come down.
As time passes, she reduces the role that field of a duty chares. Oneself own job otherwise was not finished, the otherwise quality that finish is not high, be scolded by the boss, the friend also did not hand in a few.
And small Li Ze differs completely. Always with preferential finish oneself own job to be the first important or urgent business. The bagatelle that treats a fellow worker appeals, him own job does not have the courteous and determined rejection when finishing, when he has leisure, frank actively is helped but also can work in the same place to also help oneself please now and then.
Time grew, the boss is affirmative, the colleague also knew sense of property, also did not delay the friend that meets a few have a common goal.
The friend is expensive in match each other in strength. Which have the reason that cat and mice make friend? We conduct oneself in society to want to pay attention to predestined relationship of knot be apt to of course for the person, but actual strength is no good and do not know key him deposit ability, promote oneself value, the friendship of what high quality can you harvest again?
The 2nd, duty field makes friend should both sides is willing, had better arrange its nature.
Duty field is like all corners of the country, all sorts of people have, not be everybody suits to become a friend.
Treat wicked person, they handle good relationship and importune oneself to mix why?
" the strategy that delay happiness " palace is entered at the beginning of Zhong Weiying Luo, because protected the lady-in-waiting that is bullied, and be retaliated, those people sprinkle water on her quilt, she is spilled immediately go back, and said a paragraph of classical actor's lines: "I, wei Ying Luo, inherent disposition explodes. I enter Gong Ye do not make friend, you had better not offend me. You had better not offend me..
Of course in duty field, our may not wants and this kind of person rips turn against skin so, but cannot hand in a friend to also need not be importuned.
To the person that disposition sees eye to eye, not too exorbitant cold. A few people once had made our the corresponding period together a project. An elder takes us, he also is a group leader. Always work overtime at that time very painstaking.
Professional ability of group leader job is strong, also very be good at starting group construction. Work overtime to often call everybody to have a meal together constantly, when resting, also can sing to with a bang bend over. Authority is single at that time, working each other closes suitably, off hours is much also. In the course of contacts, became very good friend, maintaining very good relationship all the time.
Below this kind of circumstance, need not very Gao Leng, participate in more interactive. Sometimes others yo-yo you, sometimes your yo-yo others, maintain a kind of open association state of mind, bie Taiduan is worn, have profit very much.
The 3rd, it is OK that duty field makes friend between the competitor, but abstain from deliver shallow speech deep.
Once had seen composition of a new idea, those who tell is 3 tall the good friend is between the classmate, but face recommend when university choose competes, everybody feels friendship got a few influences.
The author made a figure of speech: Friendship is just like is a beautiful and brittle glass artwork, we although exterior keep on good terms with everyone at the expense of principle, baobuqineili is early cross the top of head with lifting this artwork high, prepare to throw friendship on the ground for future at any time.
Very does figure have have? The tendency that develops when preexistence bound is win-win, duty field is more such, combat of win-win feel well. But if you are mixed,your duty field friend becomes a competitor very likely, you speak all to the family, the family is withheld somewhat to you, this is very passive.
And instantly friend this appellation is very optional, as if had met a few, eating a meal a few times can be a friend. The Yu Baiya that says in rare literary quotation and Zhong Zi period the state of the sort of bosom friend. So, I suggest everybody, making friend still is expensive be absent in quality amount, if the friend is little, also might as well and oneself make friend.
Must not to cater to so called intimate, one-sided delivers shallow speech deep, others wishs to not be willing to listen to secondarily, by the name with the friend used the person to the loss outweights the gain.
What is the friend's final good a home to return to? I think nothing is more... than two kinds: Or of gentleman hand in weak like water, although do not heat up subsidiary channels in the human body through which vital energy but expensive in intimate; Or classics year long forget at all corners of the country, but once got together since memory, still be deeply grateful at the heart. As to " ace " this plants the duty field friendship that must importune, I look or calculated!
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