Before before long, female star should be collected went up because of a word small gain heats up search.
She is before camera lens, to old old friend Qin Lan lies between empty propaganda to the enemy at the front line:
"Married oneself before it is too late, now is female star of a gleam of, enraged too again a little while, enrage female star too bad to was married. Enrage female star too bad to was married..
Listen suddenly, this word is the care that old boudoir honey just can say export really.
But use a kind of such means to tell, still went up to heat up search, is the meeting with true the other side happy?
In the life, total meeting has such person, they most be good at, use namely see the pain spot of others of means stand sth on end that is like sincerity.
Should say " true " , it is plain truth really, should say " sincere " , the manner is very cordial also.
But they had not thought, sincerity should be judged not only with jumping-off place, also want to be measured with the feedback of the other side.
What satisfy for ego only is genuine, won't let a person feel warm not only, can become the nightmare of others instead.
This kind is genuine, actually most injure a person.
Do not let your sincerity, lay a finger on the privacy of others
Some people, the privacy that an another person likes between utterance is hanged on the mouth.
They will be so exculpatory: What I say is a fact, do not have bullshit again.
However they are not clear, be a fact it is OK to be equal to does clear tell the world?
Uncover person privacy, just is to use a fact to let occasion become embarrassed, saying person temporarily delighted, audition person cannot choose not to listen however, must not replace addresser less to clear away remaining pieces even.
Before before long, I attended party of a classmate.
Graduate more than 10 years, besides often come and go with a few old friend, major classmate has been old did not see.
Once little male girl, nowadays the person arrives middleaged, topic nature of everybody also is around the job, housework thing, child spreads out.
And before homecoming, I hear of, in those days a quite beautiful girl divorce is old, also be meet a person not kind and gentle. These year, she one individual sheet passes.
Look reach, everybody is right the know exactly about sth in this thing heart, with her chatting time base does not involve a family originally, occasion also be in harmony of its Le Rong.
Result, a male fellow student does not have hint given with the eyes unluckily, carrying a goblet to go to the classmate before, the about mouth say of eldest brother of a pair of intimate:
"I say the class is spent, hear you divorce? It is that man does not have eye, the man on the world is much is, I search to you again better. I search to you again better..
Talk at the same time, smacking chest at the same time a pair " the bag is on my body " appearance.
Occasion has some of awkwardness immediately, classmates answer and also not be, install hearing also is not.
Fortunately old squad leader came over to make a fork, " intimate eldest brother " be worn.
Regrettablly, the person is to go, one's voice in speech still is in.
Complexion of female classmate instantly is not quite good-looking, originally sweet atmosphere, hard raw uncultivated land was destroyed.
Not salty not weak ground had everybody a few, also leave hastily, lest that female classmate is more embarrassed.
Yalishiduode says: "The privacy that talks about others is the biggest injustice, realizing him error is the biggest ailment. Realizing him error is the biggest ailment..
Some people, you and he talks about privacy, he and you say a fact; You and he talks about awkwardness, he and you say sincerity.
In their world, wanting jumping-off place only is good, everything is good.
Actually, for temporarily on the mouth delighted, let other be immersed in awkward condition, this kind " the privacy that expose a person " not be genuine, it is selfish.
Malapropos sincerity, can kill a person
In the life, conversation of how many person is defeated was in " malapropos " on these 4 words.
Humanness conducts oneself in society, action the way one speaks or what he says, all stresses an opportunity.
Once malapropos, although jumping-off place is genuine care, the other side also cannot experience your kindness, contrary, still can help busy.
Ever saw a such stories on small gain:
Ablaze be reading big the girl of 2, have second go out to take food taken late at night together with the classmate, of the person of the same trade still have ablaze dark the male god that love.
A flock of people arrived barbecue inn, not a little while, all sorts of baking string, wing of gristle, chicken came up ceaselessly with respect to in a steady stream.
Ablaze heart thinks, oneself are at ordinary times take money, but male god is in before, so certain that note figure,
Then, she is whole evening is special exercise restraint, whole journey leisurely, eat acupuncture needle mushroom fast an one root number is worn ate.
Although exercise restraint very hard, but pay or have get one's own back.
One in the evening, she discovers male god took aim secretly oneself are several, still smile toward oneself from time to time even.
Proper and ablaze secretly happy when, abandon friend to did not have ground of hint given with the eyes to ask very much sentence:
"Ablaze, your fighting capacity is no good! You wrap a circle eat barbecue at ordinary times, is intestines and stomach uncomfortable today? Is intestines and stomach uncomfortable today??
Good, the lady image that works hard in the evening, in abandon friend before a care crumble.
Unluckily ablaze still have to respond to, be forced to fumble the ground says, appetite of him it doesn't matter.
Originally she still is planning, it is later before male god " brush brush existence to feel " , strive for the small letter that wants male look.
This falls, she was forced to abandon silently planning.
Actually, abandoning friend is joking it may not be a bad idea, care, what she says is not a wrong word, can be only at most malapropos.
But a lot of things, bad bad be in " malapropos " on.
Malapropos sincerity, make those passive bear the person of the result, suffering does not say.
Malapropos sincerity, the person that instead can let bear to care owes favor debt.
True sincerity, conveyed oneself kindness already, also won't cause a worry to the other side.
Under photograph comparing, not be genuine out of turn, can count only at most the cotton-padded clothes of midsummer, the cattail leaf fan of midwinter, not be proper warm heart, it is bring owls to Athens instead, it is the harm that abrupt prevents not as good as even.
Do not let your sincerity, offended courtesy
Alleged courtesy, want Ming Liyi namely, know advance and retreat.
When a person do not know courtesy fault to regard as when genuine frankness, leave others, can be humble only with harum-scarum impression.
The family meets recently, uncle is a convener, the place was in surely leave home not far restaurant.
Because be oneself kin completely, need not push cup change small cup, also need not say occasion word, everybody eats very to loosen however.
When dish when going up almost, the husband's younger sister that does not have utter a word all the time pats table and uncle suddenly however to say:
"Eldest brother, want me to say, the party does not come to this restaurant after, waste money for nothing. Waste money for nothing..
So a word is cast come out, everybody has some questioningly.
Did not wait for somebody to answer, husband's younger sister considers oneself again received oneself go down:
"This fish that goes up today, eat even if refrigerate, not be fresh. Include this big langouste, see a kitchen won't be burned namely... "
Her babble for a long time, husband of husband's younger sister is in pulled her awkwardly aside many times, as a result she still nots comply not forgive:
"This is not people on one's own side, I just say. I just say..
To husband's younger sister, her itself has done meal, this one word also calculates rational to have according to, sound very convincing.
Dan Jiayan is not to use the exquisite conviction, place that analyses ability than going all out.
This feed is uncle entertains guests, guest before host face meal to judge a head to talk sufficient, was deficient in the basiccest courtesy apparently.
Even if be family, even if be close sibling, also cannot lose due courtesy because of so called sincerity.
Husband's younger sister so a word says, originally the uncle instant of buoyant became black face.
On dining table quiet some are terrible, we a few junior dare not give even voice more.
When leaving finally, uncle still is a little downhearted apparently, resemble at ordinary times " old imp " he, silent as the grave that day, mix only everybody is simple brandish wave, count leave.
Meng Desi turtledove says ideologist: Moral character, should some more exalted; Conduct oneself in society, should some candidder; Bearing, should some more courteous.
Humanness conducts oneself in society in, the relation that is close to the more, open his mind more easily, chest of straight express bosom, in the meantime, lose courtesy more easily also.
If our sincerity let the closest person be harmed, this kind is then genuine, everybody beg to be excused.
Do not let your sincerity, injured a person
Jiang Xun ever said: Heart of be in power grows a kind of performance, it is cheat, with respect to the show that can become all sorts of form, the person that can let least morality becomes the person that has morality most.
Treating sincerity also is such.
Should send the sincerity from the bottom of one's heart to grow a kind of performance originally, a variety of show instead profaned genuine and original meaning.
Those who meet a person is genuine, not be genuine, it is defective affection business.
Common saying says, fine character a 3 winters are warm, evil language is cold in June.
True sincerity, it is attentive have an insight into the need of others, the secret that does not wish to know for person place to those is tight-mouthed.
True sincerity, it is to discover another person in time have not the at the mouth worry of announce, the means that uses oneself aids a helping hand.
True sincerity, it is to know when this are silent silent, with be thankful replace captious, with well-meaning redound kindness.
Wish we can say like 3 wool in that way:
In have unripe day, do a genuine person, do not abandon what opposite lives having deep love for with persistence, infinite and broad time spends in limited space.
Become a kind of instinct that helps a person when sincerity, of a kind of be considerate think, the expression of a kind of correctitude, so, well-meaning ability is felt truly, be seen.
Encourage.
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