Author | Wu Xi
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Chen Reyi cried in the program.
Be in before first phase " mother-in-law and mom " in, chen Reyi exposes to the sun oneself, this 10 come for years all the time pressure is very great, break down very easily, because be being atttacked by public opinion all the time:
"Say I am long get ugly, big bucktooth, it is you next by what, you have what ability, be together with Lin Zhiying, all sorts of assault and battery, 10 thousand arrows wear a heart! 10 thousand arrows wear a heart!!
Till these a few years, she just goes gradually.
However, in the program of new first phase, she was done to cry again.
The honey of a gang boudoir that the reason is a mother-in-law comes over, chen Reyi is busy in busy outside, accost aunt people, however by all sorts of cold-shouldering. Those friends still speak a few words, doubt is like alluding Chen Reyi.
Somebody thinks, chen Reyi cries is program effect only.
This has the reason of sedulous editing and rearrangement, production topic really, but Chen Reyi is before camera lens, shed next tear for many times, very difficult outfit comes out.
Because serve as the wife of star, knowing such doing for certain is what consequence. Sufferred greatest grievance only, ability can cannot help crying loudly before the public, this is real grievance.
Actually this kind is subdued, what depend on the outside not just is critically, more returning is the manner that depends on the husband.
Chen Reyi and mother-in-law live apart, she goes visitting a grandmother. Meet, the knickers that the mother-in-law points out daughter-in-law too dew, the face shows vinegary scene:
"Come to our home in, still do not wear this shorts, not courteous! Not courteous!!
"Our home " this word, you are tasted, you are fine article, always feel flavour is a little incorrect.
The netizen sobs: Gave birth to 3 children, still be an alien...
When having a meal, chen Reyi says " should learn to make food with mom more " , forest mom says immediately " you are early those who be about to learn! Forest mom says immediately " you are early those who be about to learn!!
Eat a meal, call daughter-in-law to brush the ground rapidly.
"A bit lower " , " crooked still " , " are you left hand or right hand? " , " this is whole circle should arrive on the ground " ...
The mother-in-law keeps teaching daughter-in-law how to pull the land.
Chen Reyi expresses: "I can not do chore so, the likelihood is done so that do not have very good, but I can learn hard. But I can learn hard..
Get along with the mother-in-law, she always is very careful, "I am afraid that I speak a fault quite, perhaps say the demand of short of mom, be afraid that those who do is bad namely. Be afraid that those who do is bad namely..
Preparing to want to eat pineapple, the mother-in-law calls daughter-in-law to come over to brush a window again, lin Zhiying puts forward to help, forest mom says to the son instantly " you had rested " , then Lin Zhiying with respect to give u, one house person has Chen Reyi only a person brushs a window in that.
In program of newest first phase, chen Reyi is subdued again weep, lin Zhiying cannot help challenging: "Why should be you done cry her? "Why should be you done cry her??
Forest mom is a female strong person, and forest after father leaves other, oneself do the business, make friend extensive. Reside alone at ordinary times, be free to like to chat with friend party.
The mother-in-law's boudoir is sweet people, treat Chen Reyi's manner, it seems that unlike is advocate the esteem between the guest is harmonious, instead resembles a bit is to replace forest mom gives a daughter-in-law severity hsown by an official on assuming post.
Notable is, as a result of before be said by the mother-in-law " cannot wear shorts " , chen Reyi had changed the bull-puncher trousers of severe tight fact, jacket also is medium sleeve, accord with the mother-in-law's requirement completely.
These friends are gross 7, 8 people, it is Chen Reyi completely a person is taken care of in accost.
Their a bit is impolite, say a little while " Ba is happy too chunk " , say a little while " want coffee, do not add candy " , chen Reyi runs to run busy ceaseless, still be cold-shouldered to say " take a glass for ages " ...
A few netizens are furious very: The friend of these mother-in-laws, be to take Chen Reyi to handle when servant?
Mother-in-law among them a friend says: "She (another friend) won't pare orange, be daughter-in-law helps inside the home pare orange. Be daughter-in-law helps inside the home pare orange..
This word is very delicate, be to alluding Chen Reyi to be done not quite still?
Although the other side is the friend's daughter-in-law, but anyhow also is master, so much requirement, so much is cold-shouldered, true feeling is not quite appropriate.
Actually, the manner of mother-in-law friend, implied the mother-in-law's attitude.
If the mother-in-law is to daughter-in-law all along care has,add, most propbably friends also dare not breathe out greatly to Chen Reyi small cry.
Finally, lin Zhiying sees cannot help asking: "Why to do cry she? "Why to do cry she??
Actually, mother-in-law and mother-in-law friend are right Chen Reyi's manner, we do not grant to cross much buy to judge.
Because be in a paragraph of marriage, the manner of other in part, just be crucial.
In the program, we have see Lin Zhiying talks for wife, but should say " actual strength is protected wife " , still do not calculate on.
Actually, lin Zhiying has exploded early oneself marital detail, from these 1 detail, can see two people get along, that kind of happiness that appear and does not imagine like the outside is immaculate.
(already added small order here, examine to end of client of today's top headlines please) 02"I quarrel, do not fool wife. " Lin Zhiying says.
Lin Zhiying says in interview, chen Reyi's individual character is very straight, what says, want to make a noise to disturb an end certainly, but the problem is, lin Zhiying does not want to make a noise namely, because he feels, quarrel tell so much, it doesn't matter is used, it is gas word.
He says: "Quarrel, I am dumb forever, I put clearing to listening, perhaps choose to leave. Perhaps choose to leave..
At this moment, compere Lu Yu is a bit amazed, all over the face doubt: "I feel female, can be overcome you leave in this moment. After then she gets angry, you can fool her again? You can fool her again??
Lin Zhiying says immediately: "Won't hey! I say really, I am not the person that can fool a girl very much. I am not the person that can fool a girl very much..
First no matter to who who is wrong, when quarrelling, one party is talking, other one party is silent not language, perhaps left the scene directly, that one party of conversation is met commonly special catch mad.
After all, this kind is not received completely of action " cold treatment " , be just like a heavy fist, hit on cotton however, or gunpowder swallowed abdomen again in, metropolis more heart a place of strategic importance is added...
Some men are not talktive, this is understandable.
But if after the event, also do not have any views, express, expectation the other side enrages rehabilitate of disappear, ego automatically, the endurance of that the other side also errors strong!
Bear one, two, can bear of course come down, but be as long as a few years, it is the word of such mode, that does not give an issue very hard, after all the grievance in the heart and lopsided, always should have an export.
I feel: Communicate well, it is the simplest way of repair marriage crack.
A lot of netizens say: If change others, estimation passed early without method, they two can go down too, also be a miracle!
Must say, this Chen Reyi did not keep back weep on the program, with ferial having nothing to do to oneself manner is li of husband.
Actually, the individual feels such processing means, although avoided apparently intense brawl, but the accumulated rancor in probable heart will be deeper and deeper.
And, if be fault of the other side really, still avoid and do not apologize, very incorrect really.
Since know wife is " disturb an end " straight intestines disposition, know the other side wants to clear up, do clear, solve a problem, why cannot be after the event, chat well, fool, answer dish, lest quarrel because of this problem again next time?
Use word of Lu Yu, "It is very important to communicate, the person that can communicate is easier and happy. The person that can communicate is easier and happy..
Look in me, have love, can be willing to include, can be willing to communicate. It is reasonable range of course inside include.
And in marriage, love gets much that individual, often be the person that is willing to solve a problem more.
Occasionally, a little detail, also can see the problem of the existence in a paragraph of relation.
In the program, netizen discovery, lin Zhiying accompanies a wife to shop scarcely, will had not seen a wife dance for years. Later, lin Zhiying sends small gain to explain program problem, however @ became wrong the small gain name of wife, next ability remind to mend one's ways in vermicelli made from bean starch come.
Two people are together already 16 years, chen Reyi is delivered of 3 sons, be asked by the mother-in-law " who is discharged in the home " , her speak bluntly " husband the first " .
We cannot be denied, lin Zhiying and Chen Reyi love each other. But loves whose more, apparent still.
love wife is protected wife this on one hand, yuan Hong is completely different.
Zhang Xin art since unripe child later, very long did not go out to work, look after children in the home all the time, expended too much painstaking effort, figure also Ceng Yi spends get fat. As female actor for, sacrifice is very great.
Zhang Xin art does not have safe feeling particularly, say frankly want to reappear rapidly the job, the son that plans 6 months so ablactations.
But the idea that she ablactations, sufferred the mother-in-law's rejection.
On dining table, of two people of wife and mother confront each other, let atmosphere become nervous, yuan Hong immediately actual strength protects wife:
"Cannot drink mother milk all the time, milk of the mother after 6 months does not have nutrition. Milk of the mother after 6 months does not have nutrition..
This word is to replace wife rescue sb from a siege apparently, although the view is incorrect.
But the mother-in-law does not agree from beginning to end release what is held.
Later, yuan Hong takes a divorce to come directly " frighten " him mother, the mother-in-law just loosened eventually mouth.
Yuan Hong expresses to want 2 embryoes, want a close small cotton-padded jacket, zhang Xin art says he does not have too much energy really, this child had made her enough headache.
Yuan Hong did not resent, tell a wife however: "If you do not want to be born really, that is not unripe. That is not unripe..
Can saying is pair of Zhang Xin art are full feel distressed and protective desire.
Yuan great esteem is uxorious, be brave in to express oneself opinion before mom, the netizen says: 2 elder sister are to marry pair of people really!
Actually, want to love a person really only, meet those who consider the other side naturally experience, not give the heart to sees the other side be upset by unkindness.
If a man, can handle the relation of good wife and mother, feeling that takes care of two women, that is worth to nod assist really.
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Now topic:
After you feel two people quarrel, be necessary to be communicated well?
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