Near future heat sows a New Year film, " holiday warm complacently " , of Chen Bin Bin " before cummer " Tang Xuan, with " ex-wife " Song Xiaoke, in engage in a battle of front of the 20th market.
Performed " before cummer " anger rancor " ex-wife " big play code.
Rival in love meets, especially jealous.
The darling daughter-in-law in adult eye, song Xiaoke actually " spill " Tang Xuan two.
But between the lover, grab on imposing manner the more one-up, the more the bottom of the heart makes empty.
The onlookers see most clearly
Tang Xuan's word, sentence a jab is medium small but crucial point, aroused not only small but crisis feeling, and, also the ground in one language was spoken, she concerns in marriage medium oneself problem.
Give oneself too great pressure, cannot get release, the melt into outside be being met instead everybody's pressure, this kind gets along mode, very insalubrious.
Between the family member, should amiable, but cannot cautiousWe come to this world, be each independence is individual. Who are we who, also do not have obligation to include forever who.
The ancients says:
The person does not make me, I not convict,
If the person makes me, although far put to death surely.
This that is to say, we need not get angry in disorder at will, but somebody gets angry to us, we do not need to depress our indeed.
Release oneself, spread out the problem in the desktop, ability is OK suit the remedy to the case.
The favorite in marriage
Song Xiaoke is lucky, marry Chen Bin Bin, the mother-in-law is fond of her when the girl, the grandma loves her when granddaughter.
Family person and she talks light tone delicate language, cautious, know she is the child of front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage, scruple everywhere constantly her feeling.
This brought enormous pressure to Bin of marital Chen Bin.
Husband and wife is troubled by contradiction, the family member points to spearhead Chen Bin Bin, small but so good, how can be you bullied small but?
The problem of husband and wife, always not be the fault of one party, should consider sth as it stands, is not to come up subjective conviction, this is inequitable.
I very get hurt
Husband and wife, it is we are among lifetime, the mainest human concern. As " partner " , association is the most frequent, feeling is the closest also. If, the closest relationship, need us to be guarded cautiously every day, in that way life simply too tired, among them one party can break down one day necessarily, life is too long.
So, between the family member, should amiable, because love.
But, we always cannot be cautious, because, do not make them too tired, ability can make love longer.
Do not think quarrelling is feeling bad, one kind quarrels is to deepen emotiveIn the domestic concern of older generation, it is not certain to have completely correct domestic contradiction processing technique, that is borne namely.
Especially appeal female should be patient the male, if the female is not done, not be able and virtuous so the woman of kind and gentle heart.
Such woman should suffer critically.
Bearing is not best method
In our life, also see a few elder member of family, they were borne all one's life, complained all one's life, still did not get along good after all however this all one's life. Song Xiaoke is accuse also, oneself bear, did not change her of Lai Chenbin Bin love, did not make marriage happier.
Have more very person, bearing bearing, condense complaint into a tremendous atom bomb finally, abrupt one day, bear no less than going to really, exploded, the person that affects, blame is dead hurt namely.
Visible, this " bear " word cannot enough treat as the same, when should be being released, still want to release.
An appear person in feeling
In drama, tang Xuan blesses Chen Bin Bin and Song Xiaoke, "Often quarrel " .
Because, release only, ability is quiet; Quiet, ability long period of order and stability.
Common saying says: "Husband and wife quarrels not of the previous night, the head of a bed quarrels bed end and. The head of a bed quarrels bed end and..
Best settlement means, it is now the thing finishs now, ten million cannot bear grudges.
Quarrel, with respect to the thing sodden millet of old sesame seed, where is why bother?
This also tells a few married husband and wife, not unripe fuggy, be opposite not only the body is bad, still affect feeling of husband and wife, if things go on like this, did not get be settlemented effectively, final result, can be to be patted only two medicinal powder.
Make a row is more healthy
Fasten the husband and wife that feels total to quarrel, feeling is bad.
Quarrel, also be the flavor enhancement of the life occasionally, can let both sides, each other feel the disposition that shows the other side, such, ability does not touch the bottom line that comes up against the other side truly quite, let everything, still can redeem.
If Chen Bin Bin is mixed Song Xiaoke, did not erupt, without brawl, so, they also cannot find the problem that exists in marriage, solve finally, satisfactory become reconciled.
Must not when noisy came loose, again regretful, went, also answer again really did not comeA paragraph of emotive ends, the incident of mark sex, it is another paragraph of emotive begin.
And another paragraph of feeling, once begin, old feeling, also end thoroughly really, cannot redeem.
Stubborn
Resembling is Tang Xuan and Chen Bin Bin, in the day that because be troubled by in that paragraph,parts company, small in the heart that can walk into Chen Bin Bin, they entered marriage, so Tang Xuan evermore, do not have an opportunity again.
In drama, tang Xuan is very good " before cummer " , she is generous, help Chen Bin Bin and Song Xiaoke become reconciled.
Song Xiaoke first time " wine " spill Tang Xuan, forced smile move says Tang Xuan, oneself are well-known big lawyer, young and beautiful, still be afraid of marry do not go out, but after face about, the audience saw her tear, she is to love Chen Bin Bin really.
Tang Xuan and Song Xiaoke remove misunderstanding, chen Bin Bin and Song Xiaoke send Tang Xuan to go out, that one instant that the door shuts, tang Xuan's alone desolate lets popular feeling ache, she a person goes a seaside, him untangle sad.
Not when lose regret again
So, cherish eye forefathers, be in he or she, still be beside when, can quarrel, but, if love, must not make a noise came loose, go again afterthought.
Feeling opens bend to did not turn round arrow, if go, also answer again really did not come.
Do not say forever, it is the biggest lie in feeling forever.
Become a wife, also be cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine
How to let oneself repair refine to become a good wife, it is a special cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine.
Not be a good woman, can become a good wife certainly. Especially those look gentle and quiet, indrawn, dissocial woman, just gets along in marriage in, existing to not be good at the hard injury that communicate. If wake up to reality not in time to be corrected, can postpone marriage abyss so.
If, chen Bin Bin is right of Song Xiaoke include, let you can understand the significance of family; The back with Tang Xuan lonely desolate, still can make you faint pain;
So, you should know, it is really good to have the home. Also be willing to spend idea to had managed a paragraph of marriage more.
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