Recently, the teleplay that acts the leading role by Zhong Hanliang and Tan Songyun " bright and beautiful heart is like jade " heat is sowed, everybody is loose to Tan the tack of Luo Shiyi's woman of charm personate is intelligent, have definite idea. Get everybody's jubilation. " bright and beautiful heart is like jade " the story happens in Ming Dynasty year, although Luo Shiyi's woman is female one's previous experience of be the concubine, but the unrestrained life that she hopes to be able to depend on her inwrought craft to strive for his to want. But however of a strange combination of circumstances marry always make the same score Hou imperatorial Xu Lingyi, after entering Hou Fu, she treats everybody with active state of mind, obtained Xu Jia's credit eventually, the make a present of in new in control of. Xu Lingyi also is attracted deeply by 11 women, admire for it. Two people are in experience a variety of later the sincere feeling is dark unripe, love after marriage first, bosom friend photograph is made. Also fall in the support of marital Xu Lingyi at the same time, 11 women try hard inheritance embroidery craft, relief refugee, fame is outer. And across always makes the same score Hou Xu Lingyi, to defend a country long period of order and stability, force holds out open ban on maritime trade, after experiencing heavy difficulty again, facilitate finally open ban on maritime trade, so far maritime commerce is prosperous, coastal common people lives and work in peace and contentment, wrote the legend life that belongs to them. And in this drama, most the gut that lets me feel fascinating is the mother when Xu Lingyi a variety of embarrassing Luo Shiyi's woman when, very good have the buffer between mother and wife. Can weighs example.
So in actual life, we often also encounter such and such wife and mother concerns. So we might as well learn to learn Xu Lingyi. Believe to meet pair of everybody be helped somewhat.
In domestic concern, be in the first is not parentage, however husband and wife concerns, spouse concern is a family medium thematic, in any family, we should put spouse concern in above all the first, be the same as the family of hall in sansei especially in, if spouse concern is domestic core, master the first right to speak, so the order of this family can compare stability relatively, do like Xu Lingyi in that way, comply with collect the choice of 11 women, take care of Luo Shiyi's woman very well experience. Dare block for a short while between mother and Luo Shiyi's woman, the harmonic agent of appropriative both. But be in reality, rather, family of a lot of China is overbalance, because they regarded parentage as the position of the first first place in the family, spouse concern became appear with anther leading player instead, fall in this kind of mode so, mother child relation husband and wife of almost inevitable overweight concerns, relation of a lot of wife and mother gets along this hard, a deep-seated psychology is secret, then we change an angle to look, if say the most serious person in maternal memory is not his son, however the husband, so this kind of mother that confronts a son child the depart of certainly will won't have so much hard give up. The life that the person that she sees can gladly the son finds him to love most goes building him himself and his little family, the mother also is met very set one's mind at, this moment, such grandmothers get along well more easily relatively with daughter-in-law, the husband that she can bless daughter-in-law daughter-in-law and son to be about to be on she and her once took the sort of happy route that cross.
Regard wife and mother as the focus of contention so, marital processing is crucial actually, if this man is only blindly play truant, the hope does one who tries not to offend anyone, satisfy bilateral requirement as far as possible, so this conflict can continue certainly.
