Jiao Enjun says with Lin Qianyu peace parts: The divorce still is a friend, it is an occasion word o

# Jiao Enjun weighs as apart as Lin Qianyu peace #

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The person arrives middleaged husband and wife, live apart for long, still meet to each other sentient?

The fact proves, two people wanted apart time to grow only, final metropolis moves toward a divorce. Who don't have to be able to can bear long cold force, if we are nominal husband and wife only, why should subdue oneself to maintain an empty shell again so child marriage?

Can pass too, cannot come loose early prematurely, two individual put up with are patchy, do not have the meaning of too much and actual sex.

Recently, lin Qianyu is in Jiao Enjun's wife the marriage of the refer in the program and Jiao Enjun, say everything is estate block, "Turned over regular occupation barrier to return automatical Bye Bye this appearance " .

Jiao Enjun maybe also saw what Lin Qianyu says, to this he sends small gain to respond to: "Estate block? Either say after peace is separate: Can you still be all one's life friend? Hum, do not have a thing, bless your happiness, restful, happy. Happy..

After the divorce, can two people still continue become a friend?

Has experienced person knows, the friend still is after alleged divorce, it is an occasion word only after all just. Two people once had loved greatly, married next, the result did not handle the relation between each other good in marriage, arrived to want departure as a last resort, can have more resentment only to the other side, where to return can calm become a friend.

Jiao Enjun and Lin Qianyu married 2014, was exposed to the sun to give cold war 2 years 2019, in these two years them two be equal to maintain an empty shell then child marriage, break couplet full two years. Two people are husband and wife, can be more unfamiliar than common friend, can incorrect is each other heart unripe complain?

Pardonable also Lin Qianyu the marital assimilate to them is " estate block " , look this paragraph of marriage to her, indeed too painful.

Jiao Enjun says with Lin Qianyu peace parts: The divorce still is a friend, it is an occasion word only after all.

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Jiao Enjun follows Lin Qianyu is 2 marriage.

We know Jiao Enjun, also know his daughter Jiao Manting, but understand very less to his matrimony. The age that this also follows him and play the style has some of concern, some earlier year a Jiao Enjun fire when, also nobody has fun at go gathering up his privacy, he is a relatively low-key man originally.

Jiao Enjun goes out 90 years, just began him to act likely fine jade precious jade drama, begin theatrical work of a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct of practise traditional martial arts again later. We are impressive to him also is knight-errant drama, for example " knife of small Li Fei " , " flying knife asks feeling " , still have later " Bao Lian lamp " , again later feel he acts in a play rarely, some are downfallen, we also see his sign rarely.

1994, jiao Enjun of 27 years old and Fendi marry, have two daughters.

But 2005, he divorced with ex-wife when progress of Jiao Enjun career is good, because his ex-wife is off the rails,someone says is. Jiao Enjun arrives to get of two daughters bring up authority to choose to go out personally completely door. From this bit for, feel his pretty is conscientious, it is a good father, to get a daughter bring up powers and functions to go out personally completely door man but not much.

Said again, a man takes two daughters to be brought up, a lot of painstaking effort also should be given during this.

Arrive 14 years from 5 years, about the same fast time of 10 years, jiao Enjun just remarries, also knowing is the reason because of the daughter.

Last year when, lin Qianyu ever exposed to the sun oneself and husband Jiao Enjun has broken couplet 2 years, it is repeatedly during epidemic situation, both sides also does not have contact. She describes 2 people to concern is only " conjugal name still is in " . Lin Qianyu still says, "He may be the turn of life arrived, should see him more is long " .

Jiao Enjun still had 2017 with small gain of Lin Qianyu interactive 2018 quite frequent still, do not have any interacting two this years really. Although 2 people delivered the small gain related person following the home, but the form that does not have each other.

Once they return pretty to have love, present they let a person hold out really for it sad.

Actually this also is not Jiao Enjun and Lin Qianyu first time the marriage that be passed went, two people were exposed to the sun to because quarrel one year to do not have connection,go out 2019. And daughter Jiao Manting of Jiao Enjun is being accepted no matter what father does to decide,express directly, he can support, the not hopeful attitude of pair of Jiao Enjun marriage is shown fully it seems that between utterance.

What is what middleaged husband and wife is afraid of? Quarrel not contact with respect to cold war. We often say " the enemy that there is of the previous night between husband and wife " , but if truer really rise, is not willing to who fooling, also do not fall to step of the other side, so the marriage between you is be between the beetle and the block. It is to do not have a third party, but such marriage goes down for a long time,also not be method. It is OK to be returned every time, perhaps say every time 10 years again, who is canned bear.

The person arrives middleaged, is how many husband and wife there is to be being defended " empty shell " live?

Even if is feeling weak, also should give each other a whirly room, mutual flattery, is not so deadlocked is worn.

Long cold war does not solve a problem, can have a result only, divorce namely, and the your meeting resentment to each other is very deep.

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The friend is become after the divorce, it is an occasion word only after all just.

Lin Ya makes the same score the marriage that course of study ended them 10 years with her husband before long afore, saying is marriage of 10 years, they had lived apart have 3 years. Live apart in time of these 3 years, they two be unable to call to mind contact each other, what can remind Lin Ya she still has a man is their marriage certificate.

Once, lin Ya cleans the sanitation in the home, accidental turn over a marriage certificate, she is looked at above the photograph that once was familiar with, good a forced smile: "So I have the man, can be us two had lived apart for ages. He does not know I am in busy what, I also do not know he is in some busier what. I also do not know he is in some busier what..

They two because two people often quarrel,living apart is, communicate not free, also nobody is willing to solve a problem, disturb finally, the husband makes the same score course of study to cleared away a thing to be moved. A month, two months, 3 months, arrive gradually one year from half an year, arrive 3 years again. What they contact is less and less also, even half an year never makes a telephone call.

The relation inhospitality of two people arrives pace of this cultivate land, be still husband and wife?

What Lin Yayuan thinks originally is, flat so cold, cold move is perhaps cold he came back. But cold war can let two individual feeling do not have only, won't have the least bit profit.

Forestry plans originally, make do with all one's life with respect to such put up with, discover till her smooth course of study is off the rails. The abode that that she makes the same score course of study looks for him, see a woman that oneself do not meet, she understood everything for an instant. Strange nevertheless is, smooth course of study " Jin Wu hides charming " , she is indignant not at all however, also be from at that time she begins to realize, oneself had not loved early to make the same score course of study.

Stopped, divorced it may not be a bad idea lets off each other.

Want to understand this, lin Ya also goes with smooth course of study civil administration bureau did procedure. They return get over the divorce of a month is sober period. Sober period to them it doesn't matter is used, because " divorce " two words are already deep take root is very long in brain.

When two people walk out of civil administration bureau, smooth course of study is laughing to say to her: "Thank you to let off me, we still are after all one's life friend, have what thing you talk, my within call. My within call..

Lin Ya still believed this word really, have bout convulsion of her midnight stomach calls to smooth course of study, the 2 marriage wife of smooth course of study receives the telephone call, the family came directly sentence: "Divorced to return not disappear stops, how do you still annoy our home to make the same score course of study, you have. If it were not for you, we two early marriage, as to etc so long? The friend is become after the divorce, I tell you to daydream. I tell you to daydream..

After hanging a phone, lin Ya is good one sneers, also be, divorced, how to return can ground of not bat an eyelid becomes a friend.

Two people talk love to must not part company soon, become a friend likely still, but after the divorce, do not do really. Each other are each other once " bedside person " , same a life below eave so long, produced so much unpleasantness, have resentment only to each other, what feeling can you still have?

"Peace is separate " , the likelihood is to do not have what brawl, but the friend still is become after the divorce, it is impossible job, also nobody can so magnanimous.

Now topic: After the divorce, can two people still become a friend? The welcome leaves a message.

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★ author: YIBAO; Affection starts a writer formerly, keep the emotional job of this world warmth.