No matter be field of body department office, official circles or bazaar, no matter your body manages what position, should understand a criterion that humanness conducts oneself in society, that does not uncover person weak point in public namely! Only the society is known how to go respecting others, make allowances for others, safeguard the proper pride of other, such ability win good relations with people!
Uncover person weak point in public, although this is not the most important facet in humanness philosophy of life, but, this is a side that allows negligence least of all. A person, no matter be an upright person,work want to succeed, the likelihood has a lot of factors, among them an element is more outstanding, for instance Le Shanhao is applied, he may succeed. But, a person is an upright person work failure, support of the people is a the mainest factor. And should safeguard support of the people, do not offend a person above all, do not uncover person weak point in public. The brief inevitable meeting that exposes a person hurts the pride of the other side, light the feeling that affects both sides, cause the rupture of friendship again, have the risk of poll be born even. There is such case on the history.
The poor of one's previous experience of Zhu Yuanzhang of emperor of found a state of Ming Dynasty, year young when often play with a few associate amuse oneself, accordingly they became very good friend. And after becoming an emperor when Zhu Yuanzhang, those friends when run to the capital, try to demand an an unimportant official post with Zhu Yuanzhang. But, zhu Yuanzhang lets them however to their manner to one's great diappointment. These and the friend that bright red Yuan Zhang is brought up together, after seeing Zhu Yuanzhang the mouth does not have block, do not know the image that maintains a monarch, because they are right Zhu Yuanzhang in one's childhood thing know sth like the palm of one's hand, so, between the way one speaks or what he says, divulge gives concerned Zhu Yuanzhang in one's childhood thing, especially Zhu Yuanzhang has done in one's childhood the thing that a few have caustic face, the Zhu Yuanzhang of the gentleman that this lets had become one state necessarily feels very embarrassed.
Especially a person is in after seeing Zhu Yuanzhang, before civil and military the face of 100 officials is blusterous arrive: "Zhu Laosi, you became an emperor can be extremely awe-inspiring really, do you still remember me not? But I wear what the buttock is brought up solely with you as a child. But we had done bad thing together, disclose crosses Lou Zi ah! " the Zhu Yuanzhang of this moment is expensive for 949 honour, already classics is aflame with passion, read aloud reach young when on the portion of playmate already somewhat self-surrender, but, this fellow-townsman still says in that not was over. Then the Zhu Yuanzhang under choler gives orders this fellow-townsman behead.
Although this fellow-townsman of Zhu Yuanzhang must be a little undeserved to death, but, his fault is in with respect to the fault did not realize, sit in the Zhu Yuanzhang on dragon chair right now, not be that with him young associate ten years ago already people play the Zhu Laosi of amuse oneself, he present is already expensive the gentleman that is one country. So, natural intolerable others what before a lot of civil and military the face of 100 officials uncovers him is short. If this person can be in,civil and military safeguards Zhu Yuanzhang's self-respect before 100 officials, so, he also won't draw on a fatal disaster.
"The person that send other weak point is defeated easily die " , we must understand a such reasons, otherwise, his route can go narrower more only! In conducting oneself in society for the person, should be good at choose be apt to abandoning evil, praise more the advantage of others, as far as possible the defect of evasive the other side and mistake. Everybody has self-esteem, be willing to allude without the person the one side of own dishonour, ancient today sages and men of virtue, have no exception.
