What common saying says is good, the home and all things are promoted, if the family is harmonious, no matter do what business metropolis get twice the result with half the effort, because whatever moment has the support of family and company beside your. And if domestic dispute is ceaseless, no matter be,the life still is on the career so go up, what can change is so not gratified flexibly, often what thing is done bad. We have a look to cause 6 accidents of domestic dispute the most easily today, think in the life method goes avoiding.
The issue that 1. poses because of money
The commonnest affray between husband and wife the reason is money probably, the life after marriage is different from amative period, no matter be what to do not to divide a relation with money almost,two people live together. Male people always disrelishs a woman beautiful money is much, buy all sorts of protecting skin tastes cosmetic clothing jewelry to wrap a bag to wait, and what female people always disrelishs men to earn is little, do not have skill. And there is too much place again in the life is to should use fund, small excellent the fuel in, go to school to the child greatly, fall ill, raise an old person, buy a room to buy a car to wait a moment. A lot of money are necessary expenditure, if cannot income and expenses of reasonable arrangement pecuniary, cause a family very easily to contradict so.
The issue that 2. poses because of the opposite sex
The times is different before, old times society after people marriage, feminine majority is waited for in the home, the gate does not give 2 to be not stridden, the woman that awaits in those days is cannot outside of show one's face in public, and now after feminine marriage if do not go out,look for bit of thing to do seem to be despised very easily. Duty field is then medium gregarious perhaps in, we and the number that the opposite sex contacts and machine lead big big heighten, and a lot of husband and wife are in when discovering the other side and opposite sex are contacted, the heart is met jealous, quarrel because of this then be absent a few. Actually modern society counteracts the opposite sex to have the thing that connection is unavoidable already in the process of human association, just must maintain suitable space in gregarious process, must not cross the border lets marriage destroy the hand in oneself in.
3. differs because of the idea the issue that pose
The idea cans be found everywhere differently between husband and wife, because very much issue is faced between the men and women,have different think of a way and view, and the idea that different thing faces to be able to have his between the men and women, when coming out oneself ideal expression when two people, if cannot be reached,agree, that poses contradiction very easily. In real life all husband and wife differ because of the idea and had quarrelled almost, for instance the man feels to spend bit of money to him parents is should, and a lot of women feel since parents still has the capacity that make money as far as possible when for instance male people feels to rest on the weekend, autarky; should be mixed friend contact, enlarge oneself social circle, can feel with the woman the man should accompany him to go out to shop on the weekend, see a movie. If some just can compromise,the course is adjusted between two people that two individual ability avoid issue, if hold to oneself viewpoint, regular meeting is contradictory and then ceaseless between each other.
The issue that 4. poses because of contradiction of wife and mother
Although the metropolis after marriage of most now person buys house and parental departure to come, what can get along between wife and mother is very harmonious after can not representing departure. The contradiction between wife and mother has since ancient times, not be a certain person absolutely two things that can say to be clear about, what mother-in-law majority feels he is experienced is much understand nature some more, so the daughter-in-law is the ability travel that should listen to his for certain, and wife people think the times is different the idea of mother-in-laws is too old, do not follow to go up times, hold to oneself behavior then. When with oneself when women husband complains, between two people pose contradiction easily, male people can feel you should not say my Mom is bad, and female people thinks you and I just am husband and wife you do not help this time actually what I talk to still say me is not, then a new issue spreads out at this point.
Because 5. teachs the issue that the child poses
We hope our child lives into the model that he considers, especially small when whats do not know the child, when whats want us to teach personally, we always want to think our the most correct and best give the child, but because itself experience is different accepted education is different also between husband and wife, when that is teaching the child, hard to avoid can have different opinion, for instance the man feels what the child wants after oneself try hard, should be in he, and the woman becomes aware the child that derives from personal home wants what to bought to cannot suffer from child; for instance the man feels if the child is not obedient urgent rise to be able to hit child bottom, and the woman hits the child with respect to special not happy man, feel the child is the flesh that drops on him body you hit; by what two individual itself are to stem from care child to hope the child's can better point of view that grow sets out, but between each other dissident pose contradiction easily then.
The issue that 6. poses because of each other defect
The person does not have perfect man, everybody has his actor drawback, some defect can include, some defect are about to try to change. In daily life, we are in a lot of places is faulty, for instance a man although very but the wife that is very fond of oneself makes money not much, although a man makes money a lot of but do not have spare time to if a wife goes to work,accompany wife; to compare,make money but won't do chore, but did not go to work,the every kind that housework of a woman makes has a good command of profitable; us a lot of moment hope the other side is a complete person, but this is not actual apparently, the person can be put in his problem, because the demerit of the other side will quarrel with the other side,in the life we often are met, carry the thorn of the other side, if state of mind is bad, so be sure between each other dispute is ceaseless. Two people should be accomplished include each other and understand, accept the other side of a half-baked.
