On Feburary 16, 2016, at the beginning of the first month of the lunar year 9, in this ought in the day of sweet joy, luxuriant name and benefit city produced teenager children one case to meet with each violent and deadly incident. Because consciousness of teenage ego protection and ability are general not strong, experience often leads to massacre when violent incident. Face force, how should adolescent undertake ego is protected?
The enroach on that teenage likelihood gets:
① comes from the enroach on of contingency.
② comes from the enroach on of family, school, society.
What does the protection beside have?
The active protection such as ① family, school, society, judicatory is teenage, the health of stimulative adolescent grows.
② adolescent must strengthen ego protection. Ego protects the instinct that is a person, having ego to protect consciousness is minor what stride to maturity is important one pace.
③ faces a few sudden accidents and enroach on, adolescent should strive for the protection of the respect such as society, school and family actively; If these protection cannot reach the designated position in time, adolescent is about oneself can, protect oneself legitimate rights and interests with wisdom and law.
Be aimed at the children before school age, guardian more should cogent bear a tutelar responsibility.
In a society, children is in weak position undoubtedly, they lack the capacity that ego protects, cannot accurate judgement hidden trouble and dangerous existence, their health, safe, happy even life basically relies on parents and adult society gift and ensure. Build a safety, healthy, happy growing environment for children, can say parents is person of the first responsibility, parents ought to fulfil the obligation of good guardian above all, attend wholeheartedly, careful arrangement, all activities ought to with children interest principle of the biggest melt into, will safe hidden trouble eliminates position of Yu Meng bud. Till answer,the parents of rights and interests of children of not competent to those, unqualified, ignore ought to give punishment lawfully cancel the qualification of its guardian.
Teenage ego protects medium common error:
① had minor to protect a law, OK have nothing worry about.
② engages in a lawsuit is the thing of dishonour, it is humiliating thing, should not engage in a lawsuit.
③ encounters illegal gangster, must make a fight bravely with them, even if give oneself life.
④ road meets bad person, mood insecurity, excessive fear, do not cry for help.
How to enhance ego to protect consciousness and ability?
① is far from danger, reject enroach on, establish safe consciousness and ego protection consciousness, raise vigilance, be far from dangerous environment.
② society ask for help and save oneself, the defend oneself that adopts quick wit is politic, establish intense ego to protect consciousness, notice to apply legal weapon to protect his.
③ be apt to uses legal weapon, should learn a way already, know law, abide by the law, do not do the business of enroach on others, want to apply legal weapon to safeguard his rights and interests again.
How to face gangster do violence to do?
① faces enroach on, do not fear, keep one's hair on, say bravely to trespasser " not " , reject enroach on, revolt enroach on wittily.
② appeals wittily other, clever mix with other people, take the chance to escape dangerous situation.
③ remembers the appearance feature of illegal element and whereaboutldirection.
④ after the event reports a case to the security authorities seasonable, dial 110 phones to call the police.
