1 give up: Quarrel before alien
Husband and wife stumbles in the hard to avoid in the life, but want to notice, do not quarrel before a public occasion. Some problems quarrel before everybody, not only insoluble, meet instead add fuel to the flames. Bilateral keen on face-saving, quarrel before everybody, affirm unwilling give the impression of weakness, often bring about final phase to be cleared away hard.
Good husband and wife wants to remember: Before friend and family, want to take ample outer part to the sweetheart. Your manner to the sweetheart, decided other people is right he (she) esteem degree. If you do not care about him (she) , others is met look down on him (she) . Common saying says " a hand is patted not noisy " . Want each other to acknowledge a mistake, each other are condonable.
2 give up: Quarrel before children
The beard when quarrelling avoids reach children, the child is innocent. Husband and wife quarrels is the thing of two people. Let children see parents quarrels, it is light in little heart shading, after affecting study to be brought up even again, be opposite marital manner.
Parental relation is the place that children safety feels, any corporeal life place cannot be replaced, if the child cannot enjoy the atmosphere of love and feeling in the home, parental behavior is in imperceptible calumniatory killed next generation.
Good husband and wife wants to remember: Want to make model to the child.
3 give up: In the brawl when the other side falls ill
Quarrel to also have certain timeliness. If the other side is falling ill, if mood of the other side low, if lie to Founder in the adversity with not suitable job, if squabble lays in these circumstances, can deepen the contradiction between husband and wife only.
Good husband and wife wants to remember: Loving the other side is him love actually.
4 give up: Turn over the old Zhang of the other side
When some husband and wife quarrel, like to turn over the old debt of the other side, what had made before the other side for instance is wrong, or the lover before the other side, such meetings raise affray intense rate, bring about contradiction deeper and deeper. This also is husband and wife quarrels the most ignorant behavior. One is, cannot quarrel, shake off sodden millet of old sesame seed come out. It is a bit bagatelle originally, the result makes a noise more complex more.
Bygone affection lets it make the history, do not want bring up again. Good husband and wife should learn to include, care, considerate with concession.
5 give up: The disaster when quarrelling reachs parents of the other side and family
Disaster and parents of the other side and family do not want when husband and wife quarrels. Quarrel cannot mutual and abuse, more cannot old person of drag in both sides. Family of abuse the other side is most serious, want Buddhist monastic discipline to drop absolutely. Respect conjugal family, compare the heart the heart, the parents with coequal bilateral esteem, love my loves love. You treat the dear one of the other side sincerely, he can appreciate you from the heart, can love you more.
Quarrelling between husband and wife is constant some thing, not too put on the heart, also need not let parents know, many a little bit are communicated and understand, the time is long still, what opposite party misses more when life is good.
6 give up: The thing breaks when quarrelling
The thing does not break in disorder when quarrelling, quarrel original voice is loud, deserve to go up again the disintegrate sound of implements, this is too Thespian also, can disturb neighbour, psych out the child. Throw the money that broken is him what is more,the rather that, that one ground ins disorder to still get his to clean, rational is absent voice is loud, demeanour also should be told when quarrelling. Cannot help falling really throw a pillow, not be in harsh collision tone, let two loving hearts also follow die the most cruel death.
Husband and wife sulks is a Shuang Renjian, good husband and wife must dispute on any account why, remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging.
7 give up: Say to harm the word of the other side
When quarrelling often mouth not choose character, also the wife that regular meeting takes him / the contrast of the husband and others, the man that you see others is much abler, you, can be a good-for-nothing really! The wife that you see a someone is much more virtuous, you whats are no good! These words can destroy the self-confident heart of the other side only.
Good husband and wife rejects to harm!
8 give up: With dead photograph coerce
Some husband and wife quarrel, say easily " dead " . "Am I living what meaning to still have? " , "I did not want to live! " , "I look to you to death! " etc, with " dead " will browbeat the other side. This is very foolish practice.
Good husband and wife does not say the word that feels wronged and act rashly so.
9 give up: Start work dozen of person
The ten million when quarrelling should have run his hand, even if is also should have in in a fit of anger most the control force of at least, a hand goes up, what perhaps destroy is old loving-kindness, those who bring is bilateral extremely. Start work those who touch is flesh, of the injury is the heart however, flesh injury is good treat, the crack on the heart is made up for hard however.
Good husband and wife wants to remember well: Impulse is a devil!
10 give up: Small talk divorces
Two people go to family of a composition not easy, "Divorce " two words do not speak a mouth easily. Say to divorce when quarrel especially, as a result of impulse, hard to avoid can make the choice that gives a mistake, let oneself regret all one's life. "Divorce " it is very sensitive word, imprudent ground alludes these words are very dangerous, tear off the emotional ligament between husband and wife very easily, become acute family is contradictory.
Good husband and wife wants to know: Husband and wife is two people no longer, however a whole, do not say to abandon easily.
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