Every parent loves his child, but not be the love that every parents knows it how give the child is better to how give the child. Nurturance of child disposition, behavior, habit, 80% it is to come from the influence at domestic element.
Want the child also becomes outstanding, above all parents more should set oneself an example to others. The child is a new student, parents is new student parents, the child is in grow so parents also should be in grow.
Loving the child is the nature of the world parents, but light relies on to love, still be no good. Master scientific Yo even path, ability can give the child better consideration! Educational child is a very important thing, concern child lifetime.
Here small make up the Yo that sums up father mother experience shares everybody, the hope can help great master!
One, the road that come off work should be the way home
The road that come off work should be the way home, the child that has a meal together with parents is more outstanding. Can enjoy dinner happily together with parents, can obtain better nutrition, higher study grade, can very few occurrence smoking, drink, fight wait for bad behavior. Do not have education when the child has a meal and sleeping; Not with the child chat, become the say to the child.
2, parents learns well, the child every day up
Parental change, criterion child change. The child's problem is parents mostly education is undeserved cause. The child " fall ill " , parents must " take medicine " . Good parents is a good school. Parents is the child is best " model for painting " . Explain in words of overweight of teaching by one's own example, those who do father and mother must grow together with the child.
3, the premise that teachs the child is understanding child
Become the child person, know growing rule of the child. Did not cross famous education to teach Dewey to say " children is not the adult that has not blossom, the intrinsic value that children period has its oneself " . After the child enters junior high school, close oneself extremely easily rise, do father and mother, must understand the child, find the language code that communicates with the child, the ammo notices cherish " character " like gold. Mature parents, study paedeutics, should psychological, see books and periodicals of a few family education more, the characteristic of different growing level mixes understanding child the rule, often communicate with the child, what is clear child thinking, what doing.
4, must be in charge of the child, the key is how to be in charge of
The education of the most primary purpose of education " normal person " . "A hand " , " an eye " , " a muscle " education all cannot be taken, change a kind of train of thought to teach the child, abound oneself educational method hard.
5, the parent that does love of a meeting knowing love
What many parents love is muddleheaded, the amlposition of love, what love again sometimes is beyond the mark, do not foster " super baby " . Love is an art. Love needs expression to also need the action. Sometimes a hug surpasses thousands of words. Love wants measurable, do not let your love overrun. Doting result is harm.
6, the child that does not teach you in public
Although the child did bad business, you should teach him to also should come home his belt first, scold in public, bad effect is caused in the heart that often meets the child. To child education, the safest and effectively means, be should undertaking under the counter. Praise OK and open, criticism should be accomplished furtive. Although your jumping-off place is right, but if means is undeserved, not only without the effect, may be just the opposite to what one wished even.
Oh people no matter be criticism,the volition arrives or should be being praised is a kind of affection interactive, parents is too strong, often bring about the child to do not have prospect; Parents is too crude, the child often disposition is likewise manic. Have the father and mother of wisdom, hour can realize educational child cannot seek the result of get effect instantly.
Education is the most important is the character sanctity that respects a person, protect the child's heart, do not do this, do not have true education but character.
7, give elder or baby-sitter not completely the child
Anybody needs to obtain two main essential factor: It is love, 2 it is safe. Happy person happy, because he has love to have safe feeling again already,be. To the child, his exceeding longing loves, long for safe feeling exceedingly again. Feel in love and safety between two element, of any element be short of break, will form harm to the child. Safe feeling of the child comes from the company of his parents. Where is parents, where be his home.
8, teacher of much before the child praise
The society goes with the eye of appreciate look upon teacher. The parent and teacher are the comrade-in-arms of same entrenchment, must form an allied forces with the teacher. If the parent is in always be garrulous long-winded be favored with before the child,say a teacher " either " , critical teacher. Quarrel with the teacher even, can raise the child only the repellent psychology to the teacher. As time passes, those who suffer harm is the child, those who be in an unfavorable situation is the parent.
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