Civil | Good pregnant elder sister
A few years ago, I and my husband marry, that moment has a room to borrow manacling, the car that still has two years is borrowed want to return. We two the individual's salary, still can go up constrainedly loan, having a meal and shop above appear very overcautious, every month needs to overdraw with credit card. What pass as a result of that moment is not rich, want to want the child two years late, but the support that did not get a family member.
Marry 3 many months when, the aunt of husband is taking small granddaughter to come over to play, when be being faced very straight let us in vain give birth to rapidly, I did not talk, husband laugh has said two years to be born. Later, when I understand a telephone call with my Mom, she is in phone there ask we plan when to want the child. When the mother-in-law calls to husband, also be unavoidable to want to ask on two more, but was gone by husband prevaricate.
I can feel apparently, because did not want the child, one this year the mother-in-law is opposite I already very malcontent, I hold my position as far as possible, do not have conflict with the mother-in-law. Spend the New Year come home, the mother-in-law will be born again this thing takes the child to say to dining table, let us make the best of time. First 5 when, the mother-in-law says the hospital has a relative, take us to pay a New Year call together, then the individual is the mother-in-law's kin really, but also be a kin of department of gynaecology and obstetrics, force to let me made an inspection. Come home in the evening, I am driven beyond forbearance really, before the face of husband's father and mother, quarrel greatly with husband one, turn over him the lock to be outside the door next, the mother-in-law says I am not sensible all the time outside.
When opening a door the following day, husband walks over to me, we talked about this thing in the room. Husband says: "I chatted with my Mom yesterday a lot of, us but tell her, and tell her, the little sister has not married a person, if be married,fasten a family, her mother-in-law is so right her, how can you think? We do not give birth to the child to be not represented now do not want the child, I two like a child very much, just be to want when economic condition a little a bit better want again. " husband says this word, I do not have disposition, tear does not stop flow.
The relation between I and mother-in-law is done not have later so nervous, I like in that way when she still resembles just marrying, postnuptial the 3rd year, we greeted lovely darling.
Relationship of wife and mother is strained harmonious still, with sensible old centimeter does not leave. So, how should be husband done, does ability become a sensible husband?
Communicate in time. When occurrence problem, husband should be communicated in time, a lot of contradiction arise in jealousy, bilateral think of a way knows when communicate, make in time answer, just won't become acute is contradictory.
Not easily stand in line. No matter be wife or old Mom, both sides is the person of close kin, displease among them, day won't feel well, sensible husband is to stand on bilateral angle to ponder over a problem, won't easily stand in line.
Diligent a bit. Wife of much at ordinary times side does chore, considerate to wife, believe to calculate have contradiction of wife and mother, what wife remembers husband is considerate also can keep back of disposition; If old Mom is not about beside diligent a bit, call more greeting, old Mom won't have " married daughter-in-law to forget a woman " idea.
Does your home have a sensible husband?
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