Most when, liu Xiang can date one day with two people
Mention date, many youths feel to headache. Some people date to avoid, even the home dare be not answered, the Spring Festival goes out technically to travel. Escape with these youths date to be compared, liu Xiang of 32 years old (alias) be fond of very however date.
Land young lady is urged without parents marriage, oneself live alone. If a week does not arrange a few to date, she can feel is in wasteful time, waste is green. "We feel she is ' date addiction ' , she feels very normal however. " Miss Chen finds Liu Xiang's friend reporter, hope affection expert can support a move for Liu Xiang.
Regretful: "If follow him to go other place, had married probably parturient "
7 days, in 5 lis of inn dining-room of a tea, the reporter saw Liu Xiang. Her height 163cm, around a finance company works, live in village of garden of new city of 5 lis of inn China, the skin slants white, dress of a yellow adds dress prevent bask in frock. Besides the figure small fat, liu Xiang calculates going up is a belle.
Date to what the friend says addiction, liu Xiang feels he is a little innocent: "I many years old 30, working circle narrow, understand the opposite sex through dating only, do not date, how to take off sheet? How to take off sheet??
Of Liu Xiang date only then at two years before that parts company, male friend went Changsha develops, she chooses to stay in Chongqing, can move toward only part company ending. "I am thinking occasionally, if that time I follow him,went other place, had married probably parturient. " mention that amour, she is a little regretful.
Part company that year, she is 29 years old. "I do not want to delay my, also do not want to become senile lying-in woman later, accordingly, I must make the best of time, breakfast marriage. " did not think of this dates, two years many.
Hard: "Must go down, how to come up against otherwise appropriate that "
This week had crossed one most, from last week quarto only then, liu Xiang says, oneself had dated 3 times, still have two, because timeline does not come over, her " water " .
"If no hurry, a week dates 4 times almost. " Liu Xiang says, arrangement gets the word that come over, occasionally one day is about to see two. Last weekend, she briefed an official in the morning, made an appointment with teacher of a college afternoon.
"Officeholder feels too strong primely, after he knows my job is general, begin to engraft to me the domestic ability with rich what breeds outstanding child, these words let my some accurate. " and that college teacher, liu Xiang criterion feels, style of conversation of the other side is pure, also did not show more active meaning to her, be forced give u.
Even if do not date, liu Xiang also can sign up attend date activity, "One dates the activity can be known 4 to 5 men, added small letter, contact slowly again. " from lone to now, liu Xiang says, oneself do not remember how many dating.
Date come down, liu Xiang accumulated a few experience. Parental elder introduces, rely on chart quite, but appearance is general. Know on the net, appearance is good, but the feeling after the contact does not rely on chart. "Majority is improper. " here, she comforts herself again: "But must go down, how to come up against a appropriate that otherwise. How to come up against a appropriate that otherwise..
Friend: "The biggest reason of failure, it is to date the frequency is too much "
Date so frequent, had encountered appropriate? Liu Xiang says, also had come up against two more appropriate. One is bigger than her officeholder of a year old, saw parents, but he puts forward to part company later. The 2nd is programmer, opposite party is smaller than Liu Xiang, fall in love at first sight to her. The two people after a month part company, "He may be to feel I have a place ' hate is married ' , can be him ability is 27 years old, still want to play. Still want to play..
Two paragraphs follow the failure of amour, also did not break the determination that Liu Xiang continues to date. Ke Liuxiang's friend, groom in Miss Chen that the orgnaization becomes recruit students to work thinks, "Land Hunan disposition is candid, date the reason with the biggest failure, be her date the frequency is too much. Be her date the frequency is too much..
"Occasionally, light chats I can feel give her to follow that male improper, she or meeting insist to come out meet, say in case meet feel OK still? " often can be things go contrary to one's wishes. Miss Chen says, liu Xiang wants to look for a job to stabilize, the man that goes up in appearance, want to satisfy these two requirements only, she can meet.
After the situation that understands Liu Xiang, the compartment that heat up a newspaper encountered atelier and Liu Xiang to acquire connection. The staff member will encounter platform of single men and women to go up to recommend suitable man for her in compartment. In the meantime, snow of every of hot newspaper small soubrette will continue the circumstance of follow-up land Hunan, in the light of her " date addiction " the circumstance undertakes affection and psychological dredge, hope for her pull wires has predestined relationship person.
Expert: Ground hate marries feeling terribly hot to be frightened easily run the other side
Psychology of Chongqing Normal University teachs Zhou Xiaoyan to say, liu Xiang's circumstance is to date excessive model angst, this is a kind new-style " lone dog virus " . This kind of female is opposite normally date " plain code marks a price " , apt colour accuse, also can have particular demand to career of the other side. If be opposite,colour of the other side is worth or style of conversation is disappointed, she is met out of control, hurry off to below one to date immediately. There are many female hates to marry after 30 years old, wish to meet calm lifelong, hate of ground of this kind of feeling terribly hot is married, scare opposite party very easily run.
If why be handled? If be to date excessive model angst, you should first slow come down to undertake thinking over mixing calm, review oneself to date the difference between standard and reality, have a soberer knowledge to reality and oneself, choose 3 view to match again, communication is cheerful, mutual understanding and included object.
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