After I marry, it is to discover daughter-in-law is done too hard really, the evil mother-in-law in the teleplay that looks previously, it is true so, below the eyelid of husband's father and mother, I want happiness is more difficult than be raised to the skies simply, such marriage still continues how possibly.
I and husband are high school classmate, what understanding has 10 years is long, the school that becomes year of Laogong and me to take an examination of is not a city, we also do not have connection a lot of years, graduation returns home town, meet with classmates, just begin to know him afresh.
My family circumstances is better, the mother is emeritus be in the home, father is the cadre of above handling level, as a child I also am by parental coddle the child. My oneself condition is medium, figure appearance is passable, the work is steady, disposition also calculates gentle.
The condition of husband home does not calculate good, not poor also. Parents did not work, change is torn open in the home two, the mother-in-law directs the size work in the home, built a building with the money that tears open change, became old woman of v/arc rent land or a house for subletting.
The mother-in-law is a strong person, basically friend of it doesn't matter, concern with grandpa bad also, often quarrel. Young when concern with husband's family very deadlocked, be hit by husband's family, husband and wife comes out sheet passes. Grandpa disposition is not auspicious also, love excessive drinking.
The husband before marriage is very close still to me, at every turn is my consider.
The first time before my marriage goes to mother-in-law home, the mother-in-law expressed the opinion that lives with us later, I am silent object in order to show. After going back, I and husband express clearly, do not want to live together with the mother-in-law later, unless the mother-in-law often arrives,cannot take care of oneself. Husband also promised me, oneself also do not want to live with the old person.
After marrying, we pass very well, after a lot of friends know I and he marries very envy, before saying me, be born repaired blessing to just can marry him. I still do not have real sense it seems that in those days, just thinking this person is right to me, I just can choose him. The life is so flat live, think move and who is not to pass.
Actually I once had had a paragraph of deep-rooted love, so that be mixed from me before after male friend parts company, did not go all the time. I never have in those days had thought meeting and other man get married, had not wanted to be able to begin another paragraph of new life more.
Before I am mixed, male friend is together special happiness, the form that we involve a hand is everywhere in campus. We are college fellow students, in campus acquaintance is in love, sharing happy happy sadness.
Just to future in those days we too looked down upon. Go out together after the graduation such as our come to an agreement or understanding originally dozen go all out, struggle together the easy life of a small family that belongs to oneself.
But still had done not have a year, serious difference appeared between us, let me must face up to such problem. Reality is too brutal to us, I cannot achieve his requirement, he cannot satisfy my expectation. So, parting company is the choice that we can make exclusively.
After parting company, I also had not searched again sweetheart, not be to not be willing, still just have find the person that can bring warmth to me like him. But to love I still am expecting, expecting a new sentiment to be able to save atone for me.
But not bad, I am true when my husband, his occurrence lets me feel my happiness had assured source again.
Since after marrying, I and husband's father and mother all sorts of disaccord, living together always is be difficult with sb. Husband is away on official business outside all the year round, after I am pregnant oneself with respect to occupy his home, know I am pregnant, I call call husband, the mother-in-law blames me, blamed me to delay him to make money, the man comes back it doesn't matter is used.
Want to know, my person lives in husband's family, suffer everywhere elbow out, husband do not come back to encourage to me, to moment I lie on obstetric table, who can see me?
Husband is returned finally is to did not come back, give birth to the child, I am lone lie on the bed, the person of inquire after sb's health is done not have, the mother-in-law's heart also is only on child body. In confinement, I and mother-in-law all sorts of contradiction, husband person did not come back, but always protecting a mother-in-law.
His pet phrase is: You make the younger generation, should let this more my Mom, my Mom is raised big I am not easy, still help us look after children now.
I remembered the mother-in-law in confinement doing a meal to me, chili is in every dishes of dish, my puerpera where can eat hot, blamed a few with the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law becomes angry on the spot: You love not to eat, my family comes may not indulge you. I am the lying-in woman that becomes month of confinement after giving birth to a child, should indulge me?
In that home I cannot find warmth really, taking the child to go out one year, my capital before takes the life. I and Laogong live apart, husband did not say a fair word for me, always protecting him Mom. During, I and husband also quarrel, had had many ultra behavior and utterance, the direct divorce that get card.
Such marriage I am to cannot hold to really, everything is good before marrying obviously, after but written guarantee,getting married, all everything changed, I cannot accept the happening of this kind of thing, still be a divorce!
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