Last month, the daughter that is adopting nearly 5 years old to young parent comes outpatient service, the daughter tells mother, oneself will be plastic bead Tibet arrived in small wind fart, after mom is heard extraordinary tension, 2 people of husband and wife are taking the child to go straight towards a hospital continuously.
Immediately urgent colour exceeds an examination, the result shows: Vaginal upside all does not pledge echo, suspect the vagina the eyewinker. Consideration operation is easy create Hymen burst, injury and vaginal wall, and plastic bead take out not easily directly with appliance, next lens of antrum of decision make imperial palace for short stays away from the capital is orthoptic extraction eyewinker.
Be in clinical on vaginal eyewinker young female, female child not scarce, a lot of when seeing a doctor, expression is vaginal secretion grow in quantity, peculiar smell, the vagina gives the case such as blood, of discovery is not very seasonable. Eyewinker: Hair of appearance of plastic young toy, button, plastic group is acted the role of, slide fastener head, the cap of a pen, crayon, bloodsucker, corn.
Young female development crudely, genital official development is diseased, the skin is thin on the vagina, knit folds in a garment little, natural defense ability is poor, precaution and the ability that resistance affects are poor. Normally shade vaginitis symptom sees a doctor beyond child foreign body be in the majority. the foreign body a place of strategic importance enters the vagina inside, long-term meeting brings about secretion of appearance of vaginal sample, pus, infection, long chronic inflammation appears the vagina is sticky even, closedown, go up infection, even the complication such as reproductive path fistula. Because the girl is conveyed not clear, or fear and conceal intentionally, those who bring about eyewinker Tibet is very long, cure of incur loss through delay, miss optimal cure period.
Dot has these special activity, because be opposite,be body aperture organ, and the curiosity to the gender, for instance the eyewinker such as path of nostril, rectum, ear is in clinical also interview, have what what other little girl is a place of strategic importance, also oneself fill in.
Here, want to mention child sex to teach popular science again, want as soon as possible to tell the child the men and women has not, privacy place, know oneself reproductive organ, should stress the behavior dividing line related to sexual organs more, church child protects him, "Private parts must not make a person optional lay a finger on " , once by person lay a finger on, answer to tell the parent instantly. Want to make the child diligent change briefs at the same time, diligent bathe, use towel, tub alone, as far as possible as a child normative and wholesome consciousness and habit; Mom also should pay close attention to inner world of the child at ordinary times, communicate more, guide the child's curiosity correctly, make child body and mind healthy.
Here, I say next my daughters, 6 years old many, beyond the mark " early " , " sensible " , the child that is now probably gets information way too much, thinking means, experience, chang Chao my expect.
About protecting oneself, the daughter's vigilance is very tall, bathe besides me, grandma, grandmother can help besides, male entirely is evasive, connect " ball ball " (her companionate dog) forbidden also into inside. Have second she bathes in toilet, forget take bath towel; I am cooking, two tactics is oily, bother her father to do sth for sb, result, the daughter refused at that time, the hesitation after a few seconds, acquiesce lets father send, but premise is picked the eye (my husband is myopic many degrees 500) , go in bath towel a place of strategic importance in bathroom doorway.
Husband likes to view animal world, knowing is time long be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears; Have second downstair the cat of 3 buildings cries in the evening rip a heart to crack lung, the daughter came suddenly sentence, "This is small good gracious in courtship " . My arris, show awkwardness slightly. Subsequently I ask her, how you know. She says: "I know of course, male lion, monkey is come to occupational ground through fighting, get female; Do really do not understand, so bite what can die. Still be peacock spread its tail this kind of courtship is good, already beautiful, draw opposite sex attention again. " I more astonishment, it is probably in the child's eye, courtship is copulatory multiply offspring is very normal, produce the puppy below very lovely; But because of copulatory the animal of the price that pays life, the daughter cannot bear however heart, probably she knows life, body it is important to have many.
My individual teachs a fundamental to the daughter's sex: Encourage her curiosity, what to ask, basic not evasive, reply as far as possible. At ordinary times I also explain next knowledge that prevent a gender to encroach education to the daughter innocently of purpose, basically be the front, active education. Anyhow, hope every child health grows.
