To the farmer, wive is difficult had been a fact that does not dispute, current, of rural one's previous experience 80 hind male youth has one part to still be in single state, among them, most person had generated fear to marriage. And most terrible is, male youth also has the 90 comfortable marriage after very big one part does not marry a young married woman. As we have learned, between the single group of our country, 80 hind occupy than 41% , and 90 hind occupy than 47% , this shows, 90 hind the main force that making single group gradually.
Somebody is forecasted, to 2020, the amount of our country ruffian will be achieved possibly 3000 much, and a major issue that the marital problem of this 3000 much ruffian will become your society to headache. So, increasing to rural ruffian problems of such a society, what reason be after all cause? Where is the fault that who is after all? The explanation that the expert gives out is very reasonable, but also let a farmer express at the same time but.
The first: "Betrothal gifts is expensive " wrong, because do not take the betrothal gifts that gives high specified number,many male youths do not marry a young married woman is
Many farmer friends have most propbably conscious, these two years, marriage betrothal gifts of the country shoots up all the way, betrothal gifts cash is swelled to ten nowadays by tens of thousands of before, it is even hundred thousands of. Without doubt, average to farmer household, do not take the betrothal gifts money that gives so high specified number. So, many male youths often are met by the betrothal gifts money of high specified number close the door on.
Of course, the country also had realized this one problem, many places also came on stage to concern betrothal gifts " be restricted to make high " , for instance betrothal gifts cannot be waited a moment more than 60 thousand yuan. Nevertheless, be restricted to make high is the regulation of a directiveness only, between real life, of betrothal gifts more or less should still inspect a condition and decide, come so, be in charge of very hard accuse, be restricted to make high also effects is quite small.
The 2nd: The girl buys a house in requirement city, but economic condition is finite can not afford
Usually, a room that after the girl marries the man, needs to have oneself lives, and, now nowadays the idea of rural girl is buy flatlet in the city, can let issue generation to accept better education so, at the same time the family also can enjoy more perfect infrastructure and social welfare. Nevertheless, to most farmer family, can not afford the house in the city, family of even if some bought a house in the city, also do not know outside should owe how many money.
The 3rd: Oneself reason be caused by
Previously when, the young men and women of rural one's previous experience marries is earlier, differred now nevertheless, as economic development, many youths had new requirement to life quality, their choose occasionally the standard also rises somewhat, the other in part that they want to search is to bore children only no longer, however can true seek a person that accompanies him lifetime, marry for finish marriage no longer. Accordingly, many youths also delayed marriage because of the reason of oneself, final postpone again and again, and became mature male young person.
Anyhow, in show the country nowadays, ruffian overruns, it is everywhere, and afore-mentioned when is this to cause their lone all the time prime cause. Nevertheless, face these accounts, do not have very good settlement however temporarily method, farmer friends are very helpless also, do not know how to should do. So, to solving the problem with rural youth difficult wive, what kind of tweak do you have? Welcome to be shared together in comment area and everybody.
