The person in interlining
"Aunt mother " the person that lives in interlining namely, live in husband and wife's interlining, of the husband and wife among, listening at odds, especially with today the person's angle watchs, it is embarrassed very, always let a person have good impression hard. Not only such, be in especially old-style everybody a group of things with common features in, they or life are in advocate the person in fall forward interlining, of host and lackey among, a what kind of awkward position is this after all? Also advocate Yi Pu, be not again however advocate blame fall forward, did not know how to should be described. This really old age persecutes to female huge, be in especially mental level, make a woman avowed be with respect to this such lowliness, with thought of this I young woman. " red Lou Meng " the model that regards depict as old-style noble life, the nature in the book is little not this subhuman form. And Cao Xueqin is right of their figure, psychology model with depict, also be extremely use up wonderful writing.
Do, still do not do, this is a problem
" red Lou Meng " in mention not to become aunt woman stoutly, everybody is impressive, that is an affectionate couple. An affectionate couple to aunt mother this position is having extremely intense revolt consciousness. An affectionate couple is not done stoutly, because she looks clear to become aunt woman,be, do especially merchant the end of the aunt mother of condone:
Home of strange way the whole day envied the family's girl to do concubine, child battling of his tyrannize, child became concubine! The be jealous that look, also send me in the heated kang. If I get a face, your out tyrannize, oneself are sealed oneself are mother's brother father; When the face defeated my no good, you forget 8 necks shrink, life and death goes by me!
Humanness of an affectionate couple very upright and outspoken, live in Gu Fu as a child, battling to those family is concubine the people with respect to tyrannize is to cannot bear the sight of very. "Child became concubine " , this word is described very reach the designated position, special figure. Still have a reason that rejects stoutly, compare namely child servile is more pitiful -- in case cannot get favorite, that is in charge of without the person absolutely, life and death by the day! An affectionate couple knows, of aunt mother favorite, it is male host nevertheless temporarily fresh, life and death by the day be sooner or later thing. Be based on this at 2 o'clock reason, an affectionate couple objects stoutly to doing the thing of aunt mother, its defend way also is quite intense and definitely absolutely. such, because she knows,be, this kind of thing in Gu Fu such other people is not what thing, girl can take do favors at no great cost to oneself and business casually, as an article, she is accordingly right merchant the mother has hope not completely also. So she took the kind of burn one's boats, she has thought, if merchant the mother forces she, she becomes a monk or nun or go dead. An affectionate couple does not become aunt woman, be abandoned sadly by person humiliate and die, if one knives is wiped,still did not die to have honor.
To becoming aunt woman, having disparate attitude with an affectionate couple, be blame 2 elder sister. Blame 2 elder sister choose to do, it is the ignorance because of her. Blame though 2 elder sister are boss on name, far however without an affectionate couple this girl has experience. The home that an affectionate couple is Gu Fu is parturient, be brought up in Gu Fu as a child, the experience to aunt mother is to see more. And blame 2 elder sister, it is the daughter of an Everyman home nevertheless originally, father dies early, do not have what society experience originally. There is a word to say in the book " the boss of about the same other people also cannot catch up with the servant girl in government office " , this is to say corporeal condition not only, also have the problem with whether open horizon certainly actually. Blame itself of 2 elder sister does not have these experience, together with was climbed with Gu Fu later close, after be being insulted at will by Gu Zhen, see Gu Lian, resembled capturing help straw, do not consider at all so going up is wife it is concubine, it is bright intermediary it is to be married secretly, want to be able to have a v/arc a person's status rapidly only, it is settled down and get on with his pursuit. Blame 2 elder sister did not think have a skyrocketing rise, she is the Gu Rong that be mixed by hypothesis of Gu Lian completely is fair-spoken to fooled, think phoenix elder sister is a the disease is not curable, wait for her to die only, oneself can go up for wife. Little imagine, gu Lian to make especially old woman glad, exaggerated the fact that phoenix elder sister falls ill. Blame 2 elder sister are too be eager to hope for success, her the disposition be caused by that be eager to hope for success is not her itself, however she was cheated by Gu Lian. To phoenix elder sister, blame 2 elder sister were to harm her really. Blame 2 elder sister and blame 3 elder sister want to cast off with Chengdu of Gu Zhen merchant the sort of troubled dirty concern, but adopts method is different however. Blame 2 elder sister think he found a wonderful way to be able to change a destiny, the destiny is a change, just final result is more miserable however.
Make the way of aunt mother
Becoming aunt woman on this road, with blame 2 elder sister go some are similarly, it is sweet water chestnut. They two same by wife place is mistreated deadly, different is, sweet water chestnut has not come to Xue Jia in Xia Jingui when, still spent a paragraph of relatively better time. Blame 2 elder sister are to serve as a successor to want shake Wang Xifeng completely this impregnable fortress, the result bumps head broken and bleedingly however. Sweet water chestnut to Xia Jingui, come first however. Still do not have the very long period of time of wive in Xue Pan, to sweet water chestnut or justifiable. Plus the care of Xue maternal aunt and Bao Chai, sweet water chestnut does not have any complaint to becoming aunt woman of Xue Pan at first. Sweet water chestnut also is a dicey person, if say blame because living conditions place is restricted,2 elder sister are, do not have sober understanding to aunt mother, so sweet water chestnut, be known at all without there's still time, be being returned from oneself is a dot when, had been bought Xue Jia, became preliminary aunt woman. Can imagine, in Xue Jia, the aunt mother that fluctuation person waits to all know this girl is met in the future is Xue Pan, and Xue Pan is again and again is ground with Xue maternal aunt more, hope mother gives him become the aunt woman of be perfectly justifiable sweet water chestnut quickly. Below this kind of circumstance, xue Jia won't let sweet water chestnut naturally from most basic level is made, it is to give Xue maternal aunt to do close-fitting and ministrant person directly for certain, and Xue maternal aunt also is to have originally be fond of together, with expensive of two close-fitting servant girl, so sweet water chestnut from it is preliminary aunt mother at the beginning. When Home Xue enters Gu Fu, sweet water chestnut has him sedan, sweet water chestnut also has his servant girl. In Xue Jia, sweet water chestnut was to be enjoyed actually really " half boss " of pay.
In the consciousness of sweet water chestnut, him likelihood is aunt mother of Xue Pan natively, this is a life. She is right oneself identity from without the least bit suspicion, be in so Xue Pan by Liu Xianglian after going-over, she still feels distressed the ground drops tear, she is ready even with virtuous kind and gentle, the standard of devoir, compliant perfect aunt mother will receive Xue Pan wife summer Jin Gui, the young lady of a thousand pieces of gold that sweet water chestnut sees as a child is Bao Chai, she thinks young lady of a thousand pieces of gold should be Bao Chai of that appearance, she imagines Xia Jingui to should be mixed Bao Chai is same, did a someone wife, having good-tempered and gentle attitude, can get along with her peace, be in even dull when, still can mix she this good looking and talented aunt mother makes poetic play chess, the sister is proportional. Sweet water chestnut is going on the road of aunt mother with qualification and perfect way, she thinks she has accomplished aunt mother best, should be to be able to get corresponding of good outcome. But Xia Jingui's place unawares to make her astonied, everything what what prepare before her is not used went up, xia Jingui cannot be like Bao Chai to give her the solace on spirit euqally not only, the body that joins her instead also should destroy. The Xue Pan that likes her before repeatedly also begins to be beaten and scold at every turn to her, xue maternal aunt and treasure hairpin cannot the little family that excessive intervention becomes this already, of sweet water chestnut perfect also flow as the life of her die medicinal powder.
Qiu Tong is having another kind of different explanatory note to the devoir of aunt mother. Chinese the ancients always is told " virtuous wife beauty concubine " , this is to domestic room an optimal standard. The wife wants able and virtuous, wife virtuous husband disaster is little. The wife is so fine-looking, not be particularly important, wife, important is " virtuous " . The first month of period of the Eastern Han Dynasty is for instance smooth, zhuge's for instance bright wife Huang Yueying. Concubine, do not need to know too much, but should fine-looking. Because of concubine, it is a kind of ornamental originally, she need not is opposite marital future or the thought produces an effect, need dress the facade of a shop only can. The guest came, see the concubine beside host, speak highly of at will, it is the good vision that praises host, good good luck actually, it is to be used even foil master brilliant. In addition, do not use without him. Qiu Tong belongs to this kind namely " adornment " .
Qiu Tong won't be ugly on appearance, just meet so by merchant condone settle on, when and be in giving Gu Lian, already with her filthy. Qiu Tong is having complete lay idea, she is cold-shouldered merchant condone is aged, gave oneself early to place an end so, should seduce seduce young and brilliant Gu Lian. Her only capital are him is coquettish, she knows, undemonstrative be no good, must want " style bold and unconstrained " , ability lets Gu Lian have her pirate ship on bravery. Qiu Tong has no ambition at all, look from whole book, she is not the sort of true scheming daughter, the of lineal descent that wanted to seize Wang Xifeng. In her thought world, can do between the woman can make oneself quarrel from jealousy namely not without the thing that chat, " carry 3 broods 4 " , " chatter root " , even if Gu Lian is to be personally beside Wang Xifeng, but the eyes that gives her a tease, she also feels is he won. Qiu Tong is the sort of not stir up trouble makes urticant person all over, and stir up trouble should be offended be in in the open, will conquer with oneself Biao Han the enemy. Of this and Wang Xifeng fierce it is different, wang Xifeng is fierce, but still be somebody likes her however, be afraid of her, or respect from the heart take her. Qiu Tong does not have this method, clever without this, without this brains, be in so face blame 2 elder sister when, she very be given easily to use by Wang Xifeng, became Wang Xifeng's gunman still does not know oneself, think Wang Xifeng also is mixed oneself are same, it is a blockhead that shallow-brained limb develops, still battling Wang Xifeng's force makes do blame 2 elder sister. When blame after 2 elder sister are dead, she realizes she also is Wang Xifeng's eyesore eventually, just also can do growl " me but unlike blame 2 elder sister are so good bully " stopped, do not have truly fierce way.
From arrive unconsciously subconscious
Smooth regard this as ministry book male the woman of 2 back, do not escape naturally about " aunt mother " if problem. The road of her aunt mother is from arrive unconsciously a subconscious process. Most when beginning, she is common servant girl, smooth follow Wang Xifeng to be married when Gu Fu comes, did not become the consciousness of mother of male master aunt, slave girl because of archaic dowry and do not want to become the aunt woman of male host surely, because male host is before marriage,had had very likely " the person in house " , follow him young lady to marry the dowry that come over slaves girl, also be servant girl all the time likely. Smooth can be in unexpectedly later the serve concubine that Wang Xifeng became Gu Lian below eyelid of this vinegar jar, because,be Wang Xifeng " compel is worn did the person in house " , him young lady asks actively. Because Wang Xifeng does not want to let Gu Lian have other woman, be afraid of those who have him damage again however virtuous name, so she feels to let a wife that does not tell ins and outs share the husband with oneself with its, be inferior to letting make the same score come. Smooth it is a best choice, oneself know her disposition nature as a child, what is more,the rather that " Hua Rongyu appearance " , let her do serve concubine of Gu Lian, be too perfect simply.
"Compel " 2 words are used well, this makes clear smooth most beginning a possibility is not willing, because slave girl people the way that also one may change him destiny, waiting namely " hire outside " , this is the word of an affectionate couple, can mix that is to say common person is same, wait for an age with arrived certain, employer puts a person, or proper motion hair coming home is married, perhaps await advocate the home looks for an age profession about the same groom person is as suitable as its. Although " hire outside " this way may cause poverty, but do a pair of harmonious husband and wife like common person, also be first-rate ending. These girls people know, young this capital is slippery, meet one day eventually aged color declines, once was broken,bestow favor on, oneself all one's life with respect to indulge in abyss, also do not have redeemed likelihood again. What is more,the rather that, aunt mother is originally not by the part of person think much of sb, although be in that time, aunt mother also can denounce by the person, otherwise an affectionate couple why intense revolt! Smooth should most the psychology that begins to also have an affectionate couple, but smooth have a disadvantage, make the same score namely without family, smooth if want " hire outside " , must wait for Gu Fu host to arrange, and cannot come home to choose by oneself. This is made the same score namely hard, so Bao Yuyou sighs:
Sai Ping do not have parental brother sister, alone, supply Gu Lian's couple 2 people, gu Lian's common, of phoenix elder sister power, he can help somebody attain his aim unexpectedly appropriate.
Smooth celibate one person comes to Gu Fu, the closest have Wang Xifeng only, below this kind of circumstance, smooth be obliged yielding Wang Xifeng and Gu Lian, accept the arrangement of the destiny, did serve concubine to Gu Lian. But why does unidentified move let make the same score become aunt woman? I think the likelihood has at 2 o'clock reason: It is Wang Xifeng is afraid that she became formal aunt woman, nature is not as better as serve concubine control; 2 it is smooth not was delivered of for Gu Lian one male half female, if had the child, then regular meeting elevates a status directly.
Make the same score so from become serve concubine to rise, begin " part-time job " , since slaves girl, it is aunt mother, do not belong to oneself completely to the body from spirit, belong to Gu Lian only 2 people of husband and wife, this " 3 " passing still is pretty harmony. Natural, gu Lian and Wang Xifeng are right smooth pretty good still, because this is in,make the same score in consciousness, this kind of life becomes normalization. Smooth the assistant that becomes Wang Xifeng not only, until Wangxi phoenix body is bad later, became the actual policymaker of certain thing even. She is in this already completely to work very well locally, also very suited. Smooth be in subconscious li of fixed position that had admitted oneself, without what not familiar, work instead feel just like a fish in water. If be made the same score finally it is really be helped up by Gu Lian, that is smooth the road it may be said of aunt mother goes more successfully.
Also be a kind of job
Raid person peace resemble quite. There is a word to say to raid a person in article is " ministrant merchant mother moment, have only in heart merchant mother; Ministrant now Bao Yu, there is a Bao Yu only again in heart " , simple for, namely " devotion " , raiding a person should get this word absolutely. From inside this word, we also can numerate more or less in the disposition that raid a person " dicey " at the same time. Because family circumstances is poor,she is and be sold Gu Fu, be sold Gu Fu when lackey, she should have done this work with respect to the decision. Since be Gu Fu's servant girl, I am about to do servant girl well, had done my one's duty. Those who raid a person is ambitious it is herein. Probably this cannot be called ambitious, this follows fine Wen " ambitious " different. Raid a person to enter Gu Fu, wait upon to later again Bao Yu, this she does not have a series of processes what purpose, it is obedient arrangement only. But want when Bao Yu and her " try making love secretly " when, the thought activity that raids a person is " call oneself merchant the mother already gave Bao Yu him " , promised him so. The likelihood is in the consciousness that raids a person, with male host " making love " also be merchant the job that the mother gives him, it is oneself job. From this, bao Yu waits for a person and others to differ even more, a person is even more responsible also. This that is to say, raided a person to had had knowledge to the real change of own identity. The likelihood also is henceforth, raid a person more and more was used to happy the position that red courtyard stewards, not only oneself are used to, bao Yu is a habit more.
Bao Yu needs to raid a person to satisfy each desire that him psychology depends on, raid a person also Muyi cummer. She can resemble the life daily life that Bao Yu takes care of like the mother already, OK also He Baoyu " Tan Lian loves " . So Cong Baoyu's angle says, raiding a person must be happy the palm door person of red courtyard. Raid a person to be done very well to this job, happy red courtyard calculates be the number is more, the management that raid a person is proper, can be troubled by occasionally besides fine Wen outside be troubled by little sentiment, other servant girl is done not have irreverent take her, raid fierce office of the person it is thus clear that. The aunt mother way that raids a person can say to be in all the time uphill, after having real concern from He Baoyu, mrs. Wang elevated her status in grand sight garden again, get the allowance of aunt mother grade directly. This was equal to bright move to tell to remove the holder beyond Gu Zheng, raiding a person is the person that has picked jade giving treasure. Actually this moment raids a person already very get used to this identity, be decided by silent when her so after aunt mother, the joy that raids a person is clearly, this is the affirmation that works to her. But this job is bad also to do, very tired also, raid a person to hope somebody can partake so, this person selected, best is Bao Chai undoubtedly. If Bao Chai is married,give Bao Yu, raid a person can debus admonish the task, and can get along well with Bao Chai. But if marry,those who come over is black jade, so the heavy burden on the shoulder that raid a person not only cannot discharge, still must instigate double portion. Oneself in the future how gift is nicer brighter, raid popular feeling in early with respect to know exactly about sth. Raid what the person's tragedy depends on Gu Fu to complete collapse, otherwise, her " aunt mother " the job can do better more certainly.
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