Name, it is the title that accompanies person lifetime.
As one the individual's mark, everybody hopes he has the name with a significant, good message, want not only Orphean, even impressive, have intention.
because of such, in a lot of popular feeling, the name was gifted a kind distinctive and mysterious attribute -- it seems that the stand or fall of the name, the movement power; that can affect a person directly and the change of the name, enough brings the change of the destiny.
But a child learning Buddha raised a such question: 3 bank were experienced after his child is born, what child name considers as to rise after consulting a few rabbi is bad, can you make to this problem rabbi what kind of solve? Whether can the stand or fall of the name affect the person's lifetime really?
Rabbi tells us, this issue can look from two respects:
From look after the flesh, the name is representing the person's mitzvah and import, be just like Buddhist child people Chang Nian's Amitayus, also be a renown date, but hold for a long time read aloud to be able to get however satisfactory after all merits and virtues. Look so, case have well-intentioned head and the name of energy is very be necessary!
So, if take a name seriously very much really, can consider the name of an everyone is happy well well most, lest produces trouble because of this. As long as inside the home unanimous, think one has the implied meaning, have the name of energy goes.
On the other hand, from Buddha manage is told, the name is merely gifted the anonym of expectation, ideal and care, as long as satisfactory went. Cultured of power of Buddha is heart law, alleged everything is Platonic go to. If produce trouble at the stand or fall of the name because of kink, the loss outweights the gain with respect to some.
We should hold common heart, not too persistent these things, after all whats are a holiday, more what is more,the rather that a little name. Put down a few persistence when you actually, what the persistence that you can discover to the wisdom on pursuit heart sex compares pair of names should jubilate is much, such itself also are the predestined relationship of a kind of wisdom.
To the bank that the child experiences, rabbi thinks to place a hope with its at incognito come have a change of luck, be inferior to sending accumulate virtue of the benevolence, much work that make kind more, answer merits and virtues again to to the child, health of invocatory child body and mind, Fuhui grows, such more significant.
Everybody is be born undisguisedly, go undisguisedly, be born to be not brought absolutely refuse to to be taken. No matter the oneself in lifetime is accessary any number of attribute, value, name, fortune is waited a moment, will change as transient as a fleeting cloud eventually. So need not too the thing of too persistent surface, do some of business that has a sense more more.
Incognito disappear calamity, from of old this kind has blind faith in deep already print in people heart.
When Buddha is alive, one is mixed as a child the youth that is brought up together to alone better. The financial capacity that gives alone better is very rich and generous, kingly, prince comes on very revere he, other person, farming, the person of labour, business is admire more he, can be him this friend however all the time very tired out is rough, his name cries " unfortunate " .
See him to alone better so be frustrated looks for this friend, ask him to help arrange housework, but if want to call him,give loneliness the family of better, friend have to whatever one speaks is " unfortunate " ─ ─ for instance: "Come unfortunately! " , " sit unfortunately! " , " eat unfortunately! " accordingly, the family member relatives and friends of better likes him not quite, follow alone better to say: "You drop his decline! Had better be far from him. " indissoluble to alone better the ground asks: "This person is very good! Why to want demit to drop him, be far from him? " everybody says: "Because his name is called misfortune, see misfortune every day, hear misfortune, there is misfortune again in the mouth, it is not quite good that this is like to us! It is not quite good that this is like to us!!
Better says: "You are wrong, the destiny stand or fall that Buddha ever drove person of the ─ that show ─ is come from course of study, life is alive it is favour or misfortune, want to see unripe in the past doing, if have benefit,was born in the past, what face now is blessing predestined relationship; If do not have benefit,was born in the past, the experience of this life is met very rough. If taking blessing job and come, although his name is called ' unfortunate ' , still also be the person that has great good fortune. If do not have blessing heart, although his name is called ' a person of virtue ' , also not likely has virtuous mind, more not likely will be lucky! So we do not have blind faith in a name, important is the reason that sees what was born in the past be born now because of mixing! " often listen to Buddha because of better show, so he knows the industry strength principal and subsidiary cause of misfortune good fortune. Better since so say, everybody also did not have a word to say.
Through a paragraph of time, give alone better occupied taking family to go out. A flock of robber know better is taking domestic man to go out, then the plan should take the chance to rob. They decide good time, one day in the evening, robber ambuscades the home at better all around, await the helper's opportunity. And this " unfortunate " very responsible, because he knows better gives him very old debt, although so much person repels he, but better still shelters he, let him can stay, he is so right this family, no matter be time or force,go up, it is double effort, every did not shine to rise every day perambulatory, still also be in attentively till dark all around patrol...
There was ghost of a few people outside his discovery that day very doubtful, the likelihood has undesirable purpose, call other person to take the without exception such as gong, beat rapidly, everybody the feel uncertain of feel uncertain, strike gong strike gong. that, day of noisy of gong and drum, robber of that group of thief each is frightened decamp, between haste all of their weapon, block, stick abandons park land.
The servant of the better that lie between a day comes out to look, everybody is very amazed, because see ground of those weapon in any case scatter one ground, good risk! If robber of that group of thief enters dacoity word, all treasure in the home are certain by loot one sky! Better after coming back, everybody tells him rapidly, and gasp in admiration say: "' unfortunate ' it is one has wisdom person, this home if it were not for has him so of the intention look consider, regular meeting is disastrous. Regular meeting is disastrous..
Listened to very happy ground to alone better to " unfortunate " thank, head for Dai to cultivate the thing that alone garden reports to happen in the home to Buddha again. Buddha says: "Right! This has wisdom because of you namely, can persuade family friend suspicious, stay so nice person; If you are as superstitious as them also, so you this one disaster escaped hard. Because you can know a person, know to plant so because of, so if really and do not take a person with the name, have this kind of good luck so. " this is Buddha of alone to giving better gasp in admiration.
Some people encounter a bit twist now with respect to blame everyone and everything but not oneself, think oneself destiny is bad, look for a person to make the conduct of a few superstition hurriedly, extravagant hopes with this have a change of luck. And in fact, incognito or the action with similar other, not be the way with disappear calamity is avoided hard absolutely; Life ego stands, accurate of cause and effect, only heart of much benefit Xiu Hui, blessing provides enough talent trun ill luck into good, die Cheng Xiang.
