Someone says, of adult break down, it is soundless.
"Look very normal, meeting josh, meeting fights noisely, the meeting is social, actually vexed thing has accumulated certain level. They cannot cry hysterically, also cannot ground of act as if there is no one else present cries. After all, will go to work even tomorrow, pretend even what thing had not happened. Pretend even what thing had not happened..This is real world, cruelty is merciless, but also have touch and hope.
Today, we chose 6 adult " break down the instant " , share you. They are us among them " " , not distant, hope they are spent " break down the instant " experience, can bring you force.
1, " the child, you must not take things too hard "
2015, bai Ya of CEO having support by flicker of orgnaization of a venture capital investment.
At that time, investment of this orgnaization plan has support 100 million U.S. dollors. At that time assist is needing many capital complement, all flow went, but sign in the last moment clappers when, investor went back on his word.
Most those who let support group indissolubles is, they did not tell when investor goes back on their word at first, go them prettily like the model still about survey.
By flicker later, having assist CEO Bai Ya think so in the heart, "Go of your uncle! Father makes money well, the LP that does you later torments your bifurcation. The LP that does you later torments your bifurcation..
By flicker later, cash having support flows very be critical, half an year of operation of only enough company. The group is forced to seek old partner ask for help, interior did financing one round.
This financing be thwarted makes Bai Ya very stricken.
Once, ying Hangyan of CHO having support sees Bai Ya did not have a meal all day long, on sofa lie low is worn. She realizes Bai Ya out of order, but can go away stealthily only. "What we can do is the affair that attends him hand has been done. "What we can do is the affair that attends him hand has been done..
White crow mood is bad, family also has a feeling.
One day in the evening, after Bai Ya drinks, come home, family is asleep to did not hear him to knock, chance white crow mobile phone does not have report, also did not take the key, his decision is clear-cut answer a company to sleep.
Just opened a mobile phone at 8 o'clock in the morning, received the telephone call of the wife, the wife cries greatly directly in the phone, "We looked for you full one in the evening, think you. . . ..
Original, wife before dawn awoke at 3 o'clock discover Bai Ya to had not come back, call to cannot find a person again, call to partner of firm having support, the other side tells her Bai Ya came home.
Because of Bai Ya pressure of that paragraph of time is very great, a gang person is very afraid. Before dawn at 3 o'clock, two farther-in-law of copartner, white crow, wives begin to look for Bai Ya in the village, monitoring kinescope sends existing Bai Ya to enter the picture of the village, without the picture that go out. At that time walk along Bai Ya from subterranean garage, just did not pat.
They think Bai Ya is likely take things too hard, still run to building top to search, the result was not searching. Search in the pond near the village again, still did not find, everybody is urgent bad.
Farther-in-law says to Bai Ya later: "The child, you must not take things too hard. The business that you do now, your grandfather, your father, my father, still I fail to accomplish, you should very content with one's lot. You should very content with one's lot..
Bai Ya replies: "I do not have take things too hard, just have a bit depressed just. The likelihood resembles me can be being fought so without a few people pressure. The likelihood resembles me can be being fought so without a few people pressure..
Of adult break down very difficult somebody helps you partake, great much time needs a person to be fought forcedly, you carry the past, had crossed this bank, you also were become.
2, " he is too alone, he just wants to look for an individual to chat, but do not know to who should contact "
This year in June, domain of online invite applications for a job greeted the 3rd to appear on the market company, the hunt that Dai Kebin founds is hired.
From 2008 abdication does poineering work, to nowadays the company appears on the market, dai Kebin had gone full 10 years. Arrived 2008 2018, this one one end, be Chinese economy " meet 8 demon cuss " two node.
Dai Kebin is recollected, "2008 when I feel life is a bit acedia, at that time is not my gnash one's teeth wants to hold to, it is the circumstance is forcing I hold to. Because of crisis of be in harmony of that one annuity later, all companies do not enrol a person, all companies that I consider to go do not have an opportunity. All companies that I consider to go do not have an opportunity..
"Can him toughen one's scalp-brace oneself works then, be bungled sell Tiedegan. It is that year the most painful. It is that year the most painful..
2010, dai Kebin took brushstroke money eventually, come from classics abb to achieve cast. But Dai Kebin feels easily, because he grows far development for the company, chopped at that time most business of head of the hunt below profitable line -- the profit of this business can be achieved 3 million / year.
When those, dai Kebin is bearing to come from the pressure with company enormous inside and outside.
Via the Xiao Min of abb China copartner, investor that also is Dai Kebin, ceng Jiang crosses a such stories:
"When Dai Kebin is the most difficult 2010, call to me in the middle of the night once, say he collects fees in high speed doesn't the station have money how to do? " Xiao Min says, "You say how to do, do I send the past to you now? You look for the car behind advocate borrow. " passed to collect fees after the station, dai Kebin and Xiao Min talked about half many hour all the time. Xiao Min just realizes later, "Dai Kebin at that time is not to want what solution, he just wants to look for an individual to talk about meeting day, he is too alone, do not know to who should contact. Do not know to who should contact..Of adult break down, often with " do not have a thing " terminal.
Because they know, oneself remaining pieces him can be cleared away only.
3, " I fear goods arrived nobody wants, aux would rather hope boat sinks so "
This year January, entrepreneur king stone of 67 years old held in water cubic metre the name is " recursive future: To civilized fountainhead the hug did not come " the individual makes a speech, the Wang Shi in the speech bursts into tears for a time.
Wang Shi reviewed his original poineering career infrequently -- " the story of 7000 tons of corn " .
1983, wang Shi of 32 years old will to Shenzhen begin to do poineering work, brushstroke bill is to sell corn feed. 1983, that is one 10 thousand yuan a disastrous period, and a month can have earned the Wang Shi at that time ten, although do poineering work,level passes difficultly, but very happy still.
When king stone gain 30 much when, happened " incident of fat chicken bolus " , gallinaceous feed has the element that cause cancer, nobody wants the chickling of fowl-run, this also brings about feed mill to enter feed no longer, corn also nobody wanted.
Wang Shi is recollected, "At that time 3000 money a ton corn, was sold when piscine feed by 200 my money. Go in the 300 thousand compensate that earn not only, clean still compensate 400 thousand. Clean still compensate 400 thousand..
80 time had a deficit 70 much, wang Shi is bearing at that time enormous pressure. But next he made a bold decision, the corn stockpile stock and barrel of Dalian, Tianjin, Qingdao. Agree at the same time, goods pays to 100 days.
Because of everybody keep long in stock is worn corn stockpile, carry considering use does not go out, agreed so.
"Why do I order these money? Think back to to rise even if be betted now. I bet person of your Hong Kong not to eat chicken impossibly, discover when you want corn everybody is done not have, have with respect to me " , king stone say.But sail from Qingdao when cargoboat when going out, wang Shi hopes the boat is hit to sink by the rainstorm however, "The boat sank I have insurance, still can have bit of safeguard. I fear goods arrived really nobody wants, aux would rather hope boat sinks so. At that time I discover the seamy side of my bottom of the heart. At that time I discover the seamy side of my bottom of the heart..
And be in at this moment, of Hong Kong " big bulletin " , " the letter signs up for " gave an information, hong Kong should eat chicken. And 7000 tons of corn carry on the first boat that arrive, when mouth of prot of arrival was divided by mill of two big feed directly.
"Old hind review, this calculates the first pail of gold of my life. This calculates the first pail of gold of my life..
This is Wang Shi more than 30 years the story before, in the speech, his openness disclosed in those days true opinion: Hope boat is heavy.
We are unthinkable, a person that do poineering work produces the backside of this kind of thought, bearing to break down how oldly.
4, " I do not know to should pour out with who, cannot show even come "
But, be not everybody to carry the past fortunately.
Take an examination of hauling regular bus was 2015 in capital cold winter, the first project that is gobbled up by the tycoon. That year, suffer the stock market to last concussion and influence of big environment of severe heavy poineering foamy, a lot of enterprises close down in succession or be bought.
Held water in March 2015 one's deceased father haul regular bus, having very right result. End in those days by August, day order achieves 5000 sheet, rate of seat of honour is achieved 80% , the user exceeds 50 thousand, regular bus line achieves 130.
In two months before be bought, zhang Min sought all investor that can think of, recommend to each investor insanity one's deceased father haul regular bus, but the Internet with clear with each passing day pattern gives quotations field, dare move without investor.
"At the beginning of September, I arrived almost hopeless situation. Can make worst plan, best preparation and the greatest effort only. " Zhang Min is being accepted when interviewing, say, "I did not let group young associate people know these. "I did not let group young associate people know these..▲ take an examination ofing draws member of share of regular bus group
A person is the most painful and powerful hour, bosom of nothing is more... than is putting a hope to go toward hopeless situation. On September 7, be in the office of a drop Cheng dimension, zhang Min agrees to accept business to incorporate eventually.
Return a company from Cheng Wei's office, zhang Min eats lunch with work in the same placing together. The repast time former days is when everybody is the most relaxed, zhang Min ever spoke for many times the associate of at hand people " can eat too " .
But this, one knows the person of ending ahead of schedule, the choice escapes instantly the office.
On September 11, 2015 in the evening at 7 o'clock, zhang Min is in the ZhongGuanCun after rain street on, wave leave last sail the regular bus that gives a platform, also sent her off one's deceased father haul regular bus.
Zhang Min says: "Do not have method, my be in harmony is less than a minute of money. My be in harmony is less than a minute of money..
"I am the sort of do not bump south the person that the wall does not turn round, do not destroy oneself last blood won't identify Song absolutely. I had tried all likelihood, without the hope, can merge into only drop. Can merge into only drop..
Actually, one's deceased father pull member of regular bus group to be able to feel the company faces dilemma, but every time Zhang Min is over a little with investor, still should pretend to give Yun Danfeng light.
Just this, this kind of calm that pretends to come out held to an end.
What cannot pour out is pungent, mobile CEO Fu Cheng also has cheetah to be experienced deeply.
2010, golden hill safety and but when bovine company is amalgamative, a few old stuff are not trustful to Fu Cheng. at this moment, backbone of a core made the group resignation letter. From receive resignation letter to begin, fu Cheng's stomach begins to ache, originally Fu Cheng's stomach is very good, but let him that be fond of midnight all the time.
"Do poineering work very alone really, you can face a lot of difficulty.
Most those who break down is you do not know to should pour out with who, cannot show even come. You tell employee, employee can lose fight; You say with family, family can persuade you flat not so tired; You mirror investor, investor is frightened early ran. Investor is frightened early ran..
After all, only dot just breaks down casually, of adult break down should pay attention to " can accuse " . The mood wants to be able to accuse, the life wants to be able to accuse, oneself want to be able to accuse.
5, " wife asks me how insanity drops a hair, because I am clever and zenithal,I tell her "
@ Mi is unconscious ever had written a such stories in public date:
"I this year 35 years old, live in the small town of 45 lines, taking 4000 much salary every months. Although salary is not high, the house is not big also. But parents is healthy, wife happy.
Before two months, go to a hospital having a medical check-up, was informed oneself to contract cancer accidentally.
Up-to-date, I dare not tell anyone this news, be forced oneself change cure secretly.
Work normally as before everyday, funny wife child is happy, come home every week visit father and mother.
One day, wife asks me how insanity drops a hair recently suddenly, I am laughing to tell him, "Because I am clever zenithal. "Because I am clever zenithal..
Say this word, I keep back run to the toilet rapidly, one individual on the sly cries.
Actually, I think time can be nodded slow more, such can all the time for company they.
It is very painful to change cure, but I still hold to the job.
I think, wait for me one day be dead, can give wife with money of parental much stationary point. Can give wife with money of parental much stationary point..
Above information comes from a faceless netizen.
Someone says, after we are grown, lose a lot of rights, include the right that breaks down in public. So, be forced to choose to be in " toilet " this quiet safe place.
The job is all the time " 996 mode " the netizen says, "Everyday the most relaxed it is to insert momently go up the door of the toilet, shut an eye to support the specified number that momently. Shut an eye to support the specified number that momently..
The company commander that army recruit connects says, "I inspect the sentries does not go in the evening toilet, because have very much recruit,cry silently in the toilet. Because have very much recruit,cry silently in the toilet..
Return somebody to say, "Always want to go together in one's childhood toilet, after be brought up, think oneself go only toilet. After be brought up, think oneself go only toilet..
6, the life is not easy, continue hard please
In the world of adult, it is to do not have actually " break down " of this option.
They need to abreact cautiously, ground of careful calculation and strict budgeting alleviates, it is normal to restore inside the shortest time limits. They won't be flat before real major issue, because they know, oneself do not have a person after one's death, or, have too much person after one's death.
If have beside you,lie break down the friend of the brim, did not forget to pull them.
Because beside the warmth that the person passes on, break down to lying for the person of the brim, very important.
" strange flower says " in, bai Bangni ever plainted: Bitter person is completely in the heart, how much to want sweet ability cram ah.
It is easy that the world of adult is done not have 2 words, the life is not easy, continue hard please, on prospective road, wish your pace is sturdy and the heart is tender.
