A harmonious family, be not do not quarrel, make a noise again badly however, also can dissolve in time, do not let family taking bad mood to fall asleep.
The home, it is the place that we should cherish most; Family, it is the most serious person in our life.
The family is together, house, car, paper money is not serious, smooth smooth An An, harmonious the most important, family make concerted effort is too good the day, again poor can get rich.
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The home, it is the place that life begins everybody, also be everybody inevitable a home to return to. To the Chinese, the home is the place that settle down and get on with one's pursuit. Neat home, ability manage state affairs makes the same score the world.
The family is together, what is just the most important? Be to living lofty and luxuriant house? Be the life that lives luxurious luxury? Be to have useful incessant money?
Not be. The family is together, make the same score smooth An An, harmonious, than what important.
If quarrel everyday in the home ceaseless, although have again much money, also let a person wait for no less than going to.
If family everyday board move a piece of face, cool detachment is opposite, although not anxious food and clothing, also be to be without joy of life.
The family is harmonious, the hand is involving the family hand, carry again hard again painstakingly together, going straight towards wedding day to try hard together, again poor also can get rich.
" The Book of Rites " in say: "Earnest of father and son, brotherly harmonious, husband and wife and, domestic fertilizer also. Domestic fertilizer also..
Emotional earnest is mutual and deep, trustful between means father and son, between brother be of one heart and one mind, make concerted effort, conjugal love and beauty, photograph immerses between husband and wife with foam, family be of one mind, fortune just is met billow and come, property gift is healthy.Tall home courtyard is brilliant period is rich but enemy state, and of tall home courtyard healthy, the family as a result of Qiao Jiaren harmonious, make concerted effort.
When family Qiao Zhiyong puts forward " housekeeping of hardworking and thrifty, home He Shunqi, home Shi Shuxing, send the home meekly " the concept that manage the home, condensing family solidarity of one mind, a work energetically promotes family property.
And be in " red Lou Meng " in, when garden of the grand sight that copy check, explore spring says:
"Home of knowable so big clansman, if be killed from out,come, it is to kill amaranthine temporarily, this is the ' that the ancients ever said 100 sufficient bug, dead and not deadlocked ' , must destroy oneself from the suicide in the home first rise, ability suffering a crushing defeat! Ability suffering a crushing defeat!!The home is fought in person nest, do not support each other, who also not to be exposed to who is good, again wealthy family, also will surely decline.
Family, fund much money is little not important, the family is harmonious just be the most important, a lot of families because monetary brawl, even fall out, money uses joy of dimension housekeeping front courtyard originally, because of,became domestic cat-and-dog instead, be to take the branch for the root?
Actually, as long as the family is harmonious, unitive of one mind, doesn't He Chou money come? So, how can you just make a family harmonious?
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Leave family best disposition
Parents gives birth to you to raise you, bit better to parents, we can accompany the day beside parents less and less, do not get angry to parental chaos, your what doesn't parents owe, you owe parents however a lot of.
Spouse, child is to accompany you to arrive all one's life old person, our hardship works, it is to make family happy, spend superior time, do not take the branch for the root, bring family the bad mood outside.
We an issue that this lays to should be done most, make the family happiness that loves us happy namely.
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Make allowances for family, do not censure when anything crops up
Live on this world, neither one person lives easily, everybody can encounter troublesome issue, sad thing, indignant trouble.
The family is together, want to learn to compare the heart the heart, what understand and make allowances for family is not easy, show consideration for family more, break up for family with warmth cold cool.
The family is the place that tells love, not be to tell dispute to be opposite wrong place.
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Do not quarrel pass the night
In a family, everybody has different temper, different be fond of, different habit, live below same eave every day, hard to avoid can have contradictory attrition.
Occasionally, the bagatelle of a few trifles, if processing is undeserved, cause a family possibly even to conflict.
Handle such household issue, it is extremely difficult to say difficult, it is easy to say easy also, need to accomplish only: Communicate more when anything crops up, contradiction does not pass night, again big conflict also can the important matter is changed small, bagatelle was changed.
The everything in the family can be opened wide will tell, even if is to quarrel, also be close friends than chill, cold war.
