Manuscript | Confucianism wind gentleman is achieved formerly
The home, it is the place that we should cherish most;
Family, it is the most serious person in our life.
To a home, it is deficient it is rich not important, money much Qian Shaoye is not important.
The family gathers, the day must be mixed too and beautiful, it is worldly the most precious fortune.
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In a family, everybody has his temper.
Different be fond of, different habit, live below same eave, hard to avoid can have contradiction.
Even if be the bagatelle of some of trifles, processing is undeserved also can cause a family to conflict.
A harmonious family, be not do not quarrel, make a noise again badly however, can dissolve in time, do not let insignificant brawl fritter away drop the lot of close affection.
Qian Zhongshu evaluates Yang Jiang is " most virtuous wife, most of ability female " .
2 people once had produced a such petty thing in domesticity:
During Yang Jiang gives birth to child be in hospital, money Zhong Shuyi's individual lives.
He often visits Yang Jiang to the hospital, often sufferring from a face to say to the madam however: "I maleficent. "I maleficent..
Scattered ink today, caught the antependium of landlord home.
Yang Jiang says: "Never mind, I can be washed. " Qian Zhongshu is at ease went back.
Will give the light not carefully again tomorrow was bungled.
Yang Jiang inquire is what lamp, say: "Never mind, I can be repaired. " he is at ease again go back.
No matter produced what job, want a madam to say only sentence " never mind " , qian Zhongshu can believe thoroughly, and be full of appreciate.
After Yang Jiang leaves hospital, if really become gentleman place " evildoing " stake stake arrange is appropriate.
And before marrying 10 show the Qian Zhongshu that does not touch spring water also prepares food personally, stew the chicken broth of filling body for the madam.
A lot of people envy the matrimony of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, envy the atmosphere of this family.
A bit the most important, envy them to include each other from beginning to end namely, show sympathy.
Yang Jiang ever was coming loose collected works " our three " in write:
"We this home, very simple; We 3 people, very pure. Our stand aloof from the worldly affairs, do not have with the person contend for, beg only gather, defend together, do the thing of in one's power severally.
Our photograph companion is aided, come up against difficulty to be assumed together, difficult also not answer difficult; No matter what is agonized the thing of hardships, can become sweet embellish; Have a bit joy a bit, also can become very happy. Also can become very happy..
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" The Book of Rites " in say: "Earnest of father and son, brotherly harmonious, husband and wife and, domestic fertilizer also. Domestic fertilizer also..
Means, emotional earnest is mutual and deep, trustful between father and son, between brother be of one heart and one mind, make concerted effort, conjugal love and beauty, photograph immerses between husband and wife with foam, family be of one mind, fortune just is met billow and come, property gift is healthy.
The family is fought in the nest, do not support each other, who also not to be exposed to who is good, again wealthy family, sure also decline.
The hand is involving the family hand, carry again hard again painstakingly together, going straight towards wedding day to try hard together, again poor also can get rich.
On this world, only family can be without reservation to loving us.
No matter our err what, family is met from beginning to end not plan past grudge ground includes we;
No matter we moved toward He Fang, family always is rearward is supporting us silently.
Family, it is the most serious person in our life, also be the person that should is kind to by us most.
Always have in the life so a kind of person: Treat stranger courtesy polite, return the home to begin tousle disposition however.
Go out outer when receiving the telephone call in the home, the tone is impatient completely: "I this is frame-up busy move, busy be over to be answered. Busy be over to be answered..
Said to do not have two, hang hurriedly.
Busy what should you ask him?
Busy move drinks, busy dinner party, busy move accompanies alien to say some of occasion word, polite formula, however divide evenly does not give patience half minutes, listen to the entrust with ardent family.
We are right beside the closest person always is too too slashing.
Be only too anxious to parents, sweetheart, children, become the ascarid in him abdomen, the place that can consider us thinks, urgent our place is urgent, can keep out wind and rain for us, eliminate all difficulties, do not know the loving-kindness that passes on them from beginning to end however.
A truly mature person, should accomplish feel no regret above all at not parents, negative at the sweetheart, not owing child.
Parents is the person that lays you to raise you, the spouse is to accompany you to arrive old person, the child is the continuance of your life.
Had made this 3 appearance, natural meeting benefit reachs oneself;
If is not done, also do not talk to go up successful.
