Husband's father and mother does not give look after children, also do not give money. As daughter-in-law, affirmative meeting has an opinion, and still be very big to the opinion of husband's father and mother.
Young now husband and wife, knowing is life pressing muscularity, perhaps can't bear loading? Give birth to a child occasionally or two children, feel raise did not rise, feel it is very difficult to look after children.
But that times of mother-in-law of former husband's father, 5 3 children, children also are common phenomenon, also have the appearance with raise the child difficult without discovery.
Present daughter-in-law, following is different really so. Pay attention to oneself everywhere comfortable, pay attention to him at leisure, gave birth to the child to throw all general affairs to husband's father and mother later. If husband's father and mother is considered really,look after children not as good as, with respect to requirement husband's father and mother money giving a flower looks for a baby-sitter to look after children.
Such matter also can say is a common phenomenon, and most husband's father and mother is willing also such. Only the husband's father and mother of a few does not allow as a result of the condition of oneself or itself of husband's father and mother likes to play, do not help daughter-in-law look after children so, and also not be willing give money.
Although this kind of circumstance is minority, but as husband's father and mother, also do not have what fault. Grandfather grandma does not have what duty to rear originally to grandchildren, ask grandfather grandma takes care of the child again and the child that spends money to raise a son, be some cannot be justified or explained away apparently.
So to such phenomenon, daughter-in-law ought to think a bit. Grandpa mother-in-law can help you look after children is meddlesome admittedly, do not help the right that you also are them, without what right bad component, also not was necessary too pass plan.
Of course, be in as husband's father and mother as far as possible below the circumstance, also ought to look after children for daughter-in-law, reduce the life burden of daughter-in-law. Such families talent is enough be in harmony of its Le Rong, get along happily.
Is you say?