Wu Xiubo is exposed to the sun: "Not active, do not refuse, not responsible "

- 1-

The biggest mid-autumn this year melon, nothing is more... than an actress of 25 years old, with Wu Xiubo small the identity of 3, in the friend circle hair parts company statement.

Be in small in the narration of 3, oneself by Wu Xiubo brainwashing, abandon a career, company takes care of Wu Xiubo to be as long as 7 years, wash the dress for soup of Bao of his congee that boil even, hide in the hotel 333 days.

And Wu Xiubo is hiding the truth from her however, and small 4, small 5 do, small 4 annoy to her even ceaseless, brought about her to get depressed disease.

Did not gain v/arc a person's status, also did not get the real situation, small 3 regret having done sth, claim: "I saw through your selfishness and cold blood, I am impossible to put down, next all one's life excuse you impossibly, hate you forever! Hate you forever!!

"Wu Xiubo is off the rails, uncle person sets collapse " , "Small 3 by small 4 gas arrive depressed " , such gut, make small gain lively rise.

Although the story has not gained real weight, but attentive netizen or very fast couplet think of, wu Xiubo the beginning of the year enters interview program of Gao Xiaosong, ever made clear oneself the manner to love.

He says: "I am one won't say not man. Not active, do not refuse, not responsible. Not responsible..

At the same time he still exposes to the sun oneself, there was first time in 16 years old.

All along proud Gao Xiaosong listened to be inferior to from ashamed, express again and again: "Enrage me dead. " and from ridicule: "Resembling me is active so, also can be rejected. Also can be rejected..

Wu Xiubo does not need active, to this bit, my make no doubt of.

It is a man so, as long as " not active " " do not refuse " , OK " not responsible " ?

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Colleague small Wen talked about love last year, bask in an appointment photograph in friend circle again and again, with geminate and didymous movie ticket.

Think in everybody she is meddlesome near when, she asks me stealthily however: "Be willing maly to accompany you to shop, have a meal, can make an appointment with you to see a movie even, but what to say, what problem to have so? What problem to have so??

I did not listen temporarily clear, comfort small Wen: "A few people are unaccustomed affection ah love, hang in mouth edge every day, this is very normal also. This is very normal also..

"Had if be done not have,said then? "Had if be done not have,said then??

She tells me, although she and boy friend often date, but had never listened to him to say " I love you " .

Once, her encouraged, profession actively to him, cannot think of, the other side just answered: "Thank you. "Thank you..

Then small Wen tries desolate him.

And when small Wen desolate him when, he however ground of as if nothing happened appears come, inquire after sb's health, tell a few cold joke, amuse her happy.

Small Wen also raises beyond the mark hand.

And carry when small Wen when parting company, he however eyeful is not abandoned, even eye socket one red cried, but even if weeps bitterly, also do not start to talk absolutely.

Small Wen asks me: "What kind of love is this? "What kind of love is this??

I say: "This is not love, this is ambiguous. This is ambiguous..

Having an affair with is a good thing, can enjoy love already, do not need to be in charge of again.

In the final analysis, he wants, it is your love, is not you.

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Actually, believe in " 3 not principle " , no matter be a man, still be a woman, increasing.

Compare once upon a time, people goes appointment again after affirmatory relation, modern prefers tacit.

The class hour on the friend meets a woman student, two people attend class together, have a meal, bubble library.

After graduation, they took same home company, everyday geminate enter right.

She prepares love for him handy, he is given for her on the brown sugar water of maternal aunt period.

However, they did not profession tardy, when joking, she says he is male boudoir honey, he says she is female bosom friend.

The friend tells me, he very the relationship that enjoys this kind of parallel style, two people go beside all the time, never encroach however.

He is afraid even, two linear once across, can go further more later.

He says: "Risk of Tan Lian love is too big, once fail, do not become even the friend. Do not become even the friend..

Friend amounts to above, the lover is not full.

Think in me they can go down so all the time when, receive an information suddenly however, they should marry.

I am very accident: "How be about to marry suddenly? "How be about to marry suddenly??

He sends me the script with one long end length, carelessness is to say:

So, when the girl professions to him, he realizes suddenly:

"Somebody is active, it is a kind of honor, must be in charge of to her. Must be in charge of to her..

- 4-

A lot of things, not be you not active, do not refuse, need not be in charge of.

For instance corruption takes bribes, not be others fills in advantage into your pocket, you can deserve it.

For instance extramarital affair, not be a woman makes an appointment with your go to bed, you are OK happy amid.

Our place has male, middleaged and off the rails, carrying wife on the back to steal raw meat or fish.

Unexpectedly, small the 3 benefit that did not get materiality, also be unable to bear strength again, get on the bed unexpectedly colourful issue as before gives first wife.

Man with reverence and awe, genuflect is before wife, show the day pledges: "It is her accost my! "It is her accost my!!

Use without what however.

By the man of accost, not only dishonour, and more resemble a jest.

Because decide force a bit a little, have the man of bit of principle, impossible by accost.

Wife sues a divorce, because,the court also is done not have man " not active, do not refuse " , right him all the more bestow favours.

Not active, it is a kind of glamour probably.

And do not refuse, it is a kind of incapacity. Not responsible, it is a kind of callosity.

Anyhow, such feeling, not be absolutely a kind innocent.

Have the weakest man only, just can choose not active, do not refuse, not responsible.

When him this plants believe in " 3 not creed " when, sounding is to take petty gain, also do not pass actually by the person come as soon as called, of brandish go namely, resemble a free duck.

Advanced not at all.

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