In recent years as 2 embryoes policy open, many treasure Mom wanted the 2nd child again, because like the child,a lot of people are, also some parents are to wait after we became old, the child can have sister of a brother-german to come each other has a coordinate. A lot of older generation also say, unripe, taking also is to take, taking two also is to take. Actually, this word also truly, a lot of moment, two children are better really, at least on the road that they grow won't alone, can have a playmate, was brought up to have a brotherly sister mutual coordinate. Nevertheless, raise a child more, to parents, the pressure of the life, bear changes somewhat for certain, we speak below with a group of pictures, what do one birth mother and 2 births mother have to distinguish?
One, image problem
Mom having treasure says, since had child, I became middleaged aunt from a girl, since after giving birth to 2 embryoes, I became younger brother of one's father from aunt again! Have the treasure Mom of two children, be afraid exceeding understanding and approve of are compared this, this view can say is very figure! Why? Develop stability because of pig teammate, the tremendous workload that two child bring, make treasure Mom body holds several duty concurrently, go to work earn money, cook wash clothes tubal child, still be mom will play the leading role for the most part very on the life, as time passes, again virtuous kind and gentle the woman also can become man!
2, life pressure
Small make up understanding to arrive, a lot of accounts that do not want 2 embryoes, because do not have money to raise,be, the cost that rears a child now is very high, do not raise two child, so beside those who want 2 embryoes is basic it is economic capacity possible still, enrol cannot sustain a bit really otherwise, have the word of a child only, two houses lived quite, but if the word of two children, most at least should plan 3 buildings, want with respect to pressure hill big ah. When saying the child is small again, also not be informal can raise rise, those who make parents think they are best, the defray of two such children is far exceed a child. Do not live economic side, we are young still arriving is to be able to be hit go all out, actually educational issue just is big difficult problem, two hill are being pressed, the rhythm with completely white hair!
3, the heart catchs mad index
Raise a child, mom is running the child's greatly small business, every treasure Mom often can be caught mad, can suspect oneself suffer from occasionally even on schizophrenia, two children, seize mad opportunity more. Ah breathe out ~~~
4, free time
To one birth mother, good send nursery school not easily the eldest child, oneself had free time, but had 2 embryoes later, free time is almost 0, the class that toot toots ~~ is not this child has an activity, it is that child has arrangement, return than weekday on the weekend busy, say much be a tear
5, the relation with husband
Had child to just know, husband is a hope really do not go up, often be troubled by contradiction for trivial matters of a few families, let him bring child, he sees a mobile phone, let him cook, he says won't, catch directly mad ah, good not easy, be brought up slowly as the old, spouse concern appreciably alleviates. Come again a 2 embryoes hind, husband is lazy bad also to made, especially when 2 treasure are small still, husband must be gotten take, then, husband and wife the two brother that became adjoining house insensibly.
6, the happiness that experiences.
The word says, 2 births mother should give more time and energy than one birth mother really, can live to have very much not merely flexibly the person's one side, when still having a lot of joy, should know only savour, the happiness that 2 births mother experiences than one birth mother also is double. Actually small make up feel, 2 embryoes make our body and mind tired out sometimes, if the happy place that brings us with him nevertheless is compared, what does has taken pain calculate, this is the burden of so called sweetness. You feel
