Civil | Secret book gentleman
A lot of parents by force of life pressure, with busy job, kiss what force is in person to look after children without time, meet the child so attend for you by man of Lao of grandfather grandma, grandmother. This is a kind of common society phenomenon, cause however however gave a lot of contradiction.
The friend calls to me, greet a few hind, begin to blame the grandmother that has her: Coddle child watchs TV, shield a shortcoming of fault always is when chasing after the child to feed child of meal, my education, often buy snacks to eat to the child, on the weekend one big early rise bite dingdong should be waited a moment, the friend says, class of every the world comes home now, see the mother-in-law is taking my son to watch TV, I have an anonymous fire, such going down, the child by be used to bad. But I go to work very busy, be in the home every day without time for company child, expecting the child only now again a few growner, went up nursery school probably good.
I ask a friend: Live a few years this together with your mother-in-law, do you never appreciate those who cross her to pay? The friend hesitated, also have had appreciated, I know her an age look after children very painstaking also, but life idea, teach the child's concept, always have difference, communicate very difficult, contradiction and estrangement are so much also.
The old person helps look after children, a lot of people saw malpractice, difference, contradiction only, but be in blame old person when, had thought oneself. Should point to forefinger others, undertake accuse when, 3 fingers pointed to him. The old person helps us look after children without obligation and responsibility, in us actuating pressure is great, when taking care of the child without time energy, they volunteer, partake actively for us, suffer us even however grouse, still be to resemble ejaculatory of place of a lot of old people really in that way: Exert oneself not to please.
There is elder to help in the home attend the child, also have a lot of advantageous sides.
Ease economic pressure
Do not know to have a person to had understood the prices of lunar elder brother's wife and baby-sitter, live month elder brother's wife, namely 24 hours attend the child and pregnant woman in employer home, firewood fulfil is in probably 6 1000 the left and right sides, if be elder brother's wife of astral class, fancy month,achieved on 10 thousand yuan even. And be in charge of only attend new student with pregnant woman, do not be in charge of cleaning sanitation, give family person to cook. The charge photograph of baby-sitter is a few lower to wanting at lunar elder brother's wife, if not be live baby-sitter, the sort of pressing second collect fees on time, probably horary 150 the left and right sides, be in charge of cleaning sanitation only.
And Where is the old person that looks after children for us? Do not need us to go not only their pay, constant even even conversely allowance we. Buy powdered milk to the child, buy make water not wet, dress, young toy, food is bought in side home, buy articles for daily use, these ordinary cost, appearing also is the expenditure with not little brushstroke.
More what is more,the rather that the old person looks after children, and the way that does not say him is scientific, degree of his love to the child, intention, should be beyond question. We won't fear the old person can abuse our child, the child and old person compare baby-sitter month elder brother's wife in home photograph, what we always are at ease is much. Child of old person make much of, help us handle chore, change however do not come to approbate, there should be many in the heart afflictive
Develop heart of child love filial piety
Live together with the old person, if make parents we can be thankful to elder, respect. So our child is met follow the lead of, respect elder member of family of parents, respect. The force that teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution is very big, set oneself an example to others, make the child's model, than oral go up inculcate effectual is much.
Never mention it the thinking mode of two acting people, habits and customs is different, it is with age person also be different. We should accept individual otherness. Encounter difference, should communicate in time. Understand each other, esteem is the premise that harmony gets along between person and person. Carping, grouse, do not know to be thankful, so when you old, the child also is met study sth in order to apply it, be opposite with same way you oh.
The old person treats them grandson generation people, always more be very fond of a few, a lot of moment, they are a love that are deficient in us in one's childhood only, made up for our child. The heart that cherish is thankful, can conversion thinks, often communicate, solve a problem jointly, so the family that has a harmonious happiness is tickler no longer.
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If you have these Yo bemused,
