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It is before in an article, we told a man technically to abstain from greatly in two in marriage: It is off the rails, 2 it is the home cruel. Never mind is good this at 2 o'clock say, the fault is wrong, because offended completely marital bottom line, the bottom line of moral bottom line and woman, it is very deep harm to the woman.
The man is in the home violence in marriage, it is pair of women from outside to the harm inside, of harm is feminine body not just, can let again and again of feminine heart bruise more.
The man is in the off the rails behavior in marriage, it is pair of women from inside the harm outside arriving, this is the blow that goes up to feminine spirit and affection not only, and because spirit is damaged and meeting woman brings about the body to also be harmed, some women because of the man betray and become extremely gaunt cruel perhaps thin etc, it is the body harm that mental harm causes.
Those have the man of a cruel or off the rails behavior in marriage, do not make allowances for these two kinds of behavior completely to have how old harm to the woman, can saying is providential hard look. The woman serves as a victim, these harm that get are clearer than anybody, so they are driven beyond forbearance the choice divorces, also be the thing that does not have method.
Normally the circumstance falls, in every case is know responsible to oneself woman, in be overcome after the man's treason and home are cruel, metropolis choice divorces. These two kinds of behavior have among them one kind has let a woman be borne hard, more do not carry both to appear at the same time. But, having a sad fact is, some women encountered at the same time betray and the home is cruel, be in all the time however bear, dare not divorce. Such woman seeing in light of us is a kind of what kind of state of mind.
"Man already off the rails the home is cruel, why don't you divorce? Why don't you divorce??Common saying says, things of one kind come together, person with group cent. This viewpoint is put in human relation, the person of common interest often can gather, the person of collective experience often can gather, of course, the person of those who have the same illness sympathize with each other also connects regular meeting to gather.
Regard a divorce as the woman likewise, the relation of small Shan and miscarriage is compared and the relation of someone else is close friends, although the account of their divorce is different, but two individual those who have the same illness sympathize with each other, awake photograph cherish, feel should mutual to urge mutual support, had lived the following life together.
The reason that small Shan divorces is former husband off the rails, particular case and a lot of because of the man off the rails and the woman of the divorce is same, she cannot tolerate oneself and a man that had betrayed oneself continue to do husband and wife, feel oneself cannot excuse a man from beginning to end, so flat carry the things through,whatever the consequences chose to divorce.
The reason that miscarriage divorces is former husband home cruel, although experienced the home only cruel, but she knows this kind of thing is certain won't once, if oneself continue to stay in that paragraph of marriage, affirmation still can have twenty-three thousand four hundred and fifty-six times later, she does not think when was a mass of bruises finally divorce again, feel oneself should stop in time caustic, should responsible to oneself life, so decisive chose to divorce.
They experienced marriage twice in bring about a divorce the most easily offend the thing of marital bottom line, after so two people are known, feel each other those who have the same illness sympathize with each other. Get along long, the disposition that discovers each other is very similar also, very consistent also to marital understanding, the relationship is so better and better.
After they are known twice, protocol a joint program, want help and deliverance those encounter in marriage the man is betrayed or the woman with cruel home, feel themselves has experienced the sort of anguish, the woman that cannot make other experience too similar and painful is friendless.
This kind of thing is not done do not know, did ability to know to so so much woman can'ts bear character painstakingly in marriage. They were known again in succession several are betrayed because of the man likewise or the home is cruel and the woman that brings about a divorce, a few people hold a group in the arms to warm oneself, want to help more people.
Somebody sees here, may suspect they can incite others divorce. Here should clarify for them, they had not done the sort of thing, they just help the wife that has divorced. But, there was a divorce woman to take the small fine that did not divorce to go later, want to let everybody persuade to urge small fine.
The small Shan that does not understand a situation and miscarriage ask is how to return a responsibility, that divorce wife that takes small fine to come says, "Her husband off the rails be opposite again her home is cruel, her time passes very painstakingly, but dare not divorce namely. I see no less than going to really, persuade her she does not listen, let you help so persuade to persuade her. Let you help so persuade to persuade her..
Small Shan and miscarriage had not done this kind of thing, after they want to discuss, redo decides, because after all marriage is small fine, want to respect the desire of herself.
After small Shan and miscarriage discuss, ask small fine, "Man already off the rails the home is cruel, why don't you divorce? Why don't you divorce??
See small fine is low all the time head does not say, that wife that takes her to come urges her, "You talk! When I persuade you, are you can you say very much? We are helping you, not be to be in kill you! Not be to be in kill you!!
Small fine said an unexpected word, "Want him not to divorce only, my whats can be borne! My whats can be borne!!
Small Shan asks her, "Do you have the child? "Do you have the child??
Small fine shakes his head.
Small Shan asks her, "Is the man very rich? "Is the man very rich??
Small fine shakes his head.
Small Shan asks her, "Do you love him very much? "Do you love him very much??
Small fine shakes his head as before.
Small Shan did not understand, "Since you do not have the child, the man also does not have money, you also do not love him, that he already off the rails the home is cruel, you do not divorce, graph Where is what? Does your must have a reason that does not divorce? Does your must have a reason that does not divorce??
Small fine says, "The circumstance myself of myself is clear, I do not want to divorce. Want him not to divorce with me only, I won't divorce with him. I won't divorce with him..
Small Shan asks her, "He is then off the rails when the home is cruel, don't you feel you are very painful? Bearing is to be able to be borne, but what is the import that you tolerate? But what is the import that you tolerate??
Small fine does not want what to say more again it seems that, drop " painful affirmation is anguish, but I do not want to divorce namely " later left.
Small Shan and miscarriage are not to want to incite her to divorce, want to ask to she is helped after clear case however, but she rejects to help.
That wife that takes her to come says, "I am true feel distressed she, do you say her is this why bother? The man wants money to do not have money, want to do not have appearance long, their feeling is bad also, it is off the rails it is cruel to her home, do really do not know her after all what thinking. She was not to get incurable disease, not be oneself cannot make money feed oneself, why must stay in such marriage? Very low-down really, can saying is genuflect is in marriage! Can saying is genuflect is in marriage!!
Small Shan says, "This also does not have method, she auxes would rather namely bear also not be willing to divorce, we also cannot say she is wrong. Just look in me, this is extremely irresponsible to oneself practice. If be to have the reason that lets oneself stay, pursue for instance the man's money, perhaps pursue the man's person, perhaps love to get loath to part from each other, must has a reason, stay just hold water. Doing not have reason to be stupefied is to stay in in that way marriage, that has a reason only, it is her fear, after be afraid that oneself divorce, pass bad. After be afraid that oneself divorce, pass bad..
I had seen the sort of because oneself misfire unhealthily,feed oneself, even if does not come home after the man is off the rails, also the woman that anyway is not willing to divorce, also had seen the sort of because the man is rich, had in the man off the rails or after domestic violence does it, because oneself do not want to lose a man this a ready source of money and the woman that anyway is not willing to divorce, these two kinds of wives are not willing to divorce anyhow, have the warrant that they think, so they aux would rather stand a man off the rails or the home is cruel also not be willing to divorce, more or less to return understandable. But this kind of circumstance of small fine, be irresponsible to oneself really.
Small Shan says rightly, she auxes would rather those who stand a man is off the rails with the home cruel also do not wish to divorce, prime cause is her fear, be afraid that oneself leave a man not to live, want all one's life to stay in that paragraph of marriage, no matter oneself have much lowliness, no matter oneself have how humbly.
Not be to say she is not willing to divorce our have to incites her to divorce, however, divorce already not important, important is her irresponsible to oneself. Low-down genuflect is in in that way marriage, it is completely in extravagant life, can live fine long hair is insignificantly.
Everybody is living should exposed to the sun and unripe, let oneself live below openly condition only, let oneself have the mood with good good state of mind, your because of such openly condition body and mind is cheerful, that life ability is significant but character. Conversely, if you let yourself live below negative position all the time, state of mind differs mood difference, always be because of in that way negative position sad anguish, that person is born with no point but character. Never mention it you can enjoy the sort of anguish, do not have a person to be able to enjoy the sort of anguish, also be willing to enjoy the sort of anguish without the person.
In marriage, woman ought not to low-down, ought not to genuflect is in marriage, you should live for yourself. Lowliness is a kind lazy, it is irresponsible to oneself, you obviously OK and firm rise the life condition that lets oneself have an obverse side, be enmeshed in negative position all the time however, what is that fated, it is you too lazy, you are disinclined to change your. (civil / Dong Linxi wells balanced, you have a story, will look for me)
