Perfect stranger: Does this each other see a mobile phone between the lover? A simple game overturne

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Since the mankind had a mobile phone, the black switch that it made human nature child with microscope.

Do not know to be in affinity, how many person is met (agree through the other side or secretly) the mobile phone that leafs through a spouse?

The person with complex human nature of deep know well knows, the mobile phone that leafs through others is equal to be mixed originally at leafing through the diary of others almost daily hodometer, many privacy and secret were concealed inside. It resembles demon box of Panduola, once open a possibility,send irremediable.

The motion picture that shows recently " perfect stranger " those who tell about is open " human black brake child " story:

4 pairs (among them a pair of absent one) the sweethearts with long already acquaintance plays on dinner party had a game:

Handle machine is put on the desktop, make public that evening each short message that everybody gets in the mobile phone, mail, each phone. . . . . .

Every big to the occasional of sweethearts or small issue and contradiction begin to be exposed one by one, covered our common topic for discussion: The existence problem of the parents in work of have a youthful look of problem of urticant problem of 7 years of marriage, middleaged crisis, fourth gram, marriage, society is right of the homosexual accept degree of issue. . . . . .

The everybody in the mobile phone has the secret of hidden it seems that, and this piece almost of collect mankind unmentionable disease become greatly, test we are straight the ability of truth of extent human nature:

After all we dare tear apart perfect mask, take skill machine and the person absolute sincerity that love each other to meet?

And this each other sees the person that love each other mobile phone, and are you afraid of again be afraid that the other side sees a mobile phone?

In the film " perfect stranger " at the beginning, they talked about a thing -- a collective good friend causes domestic rupture because of a short message -- chatting to talking about this thing, begin somebody to offer to play the game of a public mobile phone.

Before game begins, be not everybody to agree with this game, but look blameless to let oneself finally, they also must be participated in come in.

In these 7 people, somebody betrayed a spouse, because somebody fears to harm a spouse and hide a few facts painstakingly, because fear to be not understood and be secret Tibet in the heart,return somebody:

Psychological doctor Ai Wa is the sponsor of this game, her marital Luo Ke is doctor of a plastics.

Ai Wa most begin to be discovered by everybody she wants to become grand milk operation, become the is not her however man of the operation for her; And the wife that Luo Ke is carrying him on the back goes looking for other doctor to do psychology to seek advice, and, with the wife strict educational style differs -- he allows daughter night not a home to return to, gave her a security set, after letting her think, oneself make a decision.

Final wife is concealed to his because of the husband, the abandon to the daughter, be furious.

The 2nd pair of husband and wife are Kaluoda is strapped with Lai, one pair is experiencing middleaged crisis and urticant husband and wife of 7 years.

Because be the same as with the mother-in-law, spouse concern is affected, malcontent to the mother-in-law Kaluoda is carrying the husband on the back secretly the information of advertent beadhouse, be discovered when playing this game, caused the contradiction that straps with Lai. As the development of game, everybody begins to discover exterior posture Jing Rubin they had had sexual life no longer, and in pairs is off the rails: Wife choice has an affair with with new man on the net, and the husband also chooses to carrying a wife on the back to follow young woman to flirt in the mobile phone stealthily. Two people quarrel greatly on the spot accordingly finally one, tore face.

The 3rd pair of Bianka that are newly-married swallow Er and division on the west not, the wife is discovered on game with before male friend has connection, the man is very angry, call finally affirm, ability discovery is the communication between normal friend only.

But the husband is had to catch with a few women really by discovery, among them an attendant still psychological doctor Ai Wa. The wife mood that is informed the truth breaks down, a person hides in closet, no matter how the husband knocks outside,do not leave. Finally, still do not have there's still time to tell him husband her of the pregnant on firm bosom, heart grey meaning walked out of closet door coldly, still gave the man marriage Buddhist monastic discipline.

The last taking spouse comer is general of sports teacher admire, because his object is a man, because fear to be discriminated against, the choice conceals him is a homosexual...

After revealing a secret, he as expected because of the manner that friend family not cannot accept on the west, and a discrimination language that blurt out, sad arrive want and his break off relations.

Before this game begins, everybody looks in daily life be like very perfect, every paragraphs of relationship is very close also, but the occurrence as an information, each phone, their mask is torn apart slowly, become each " perfect " stranger.

A lot of have a super and popular beautiful theatrical work before New Year " Lie To Me (do not lie to me) " , dr. Laiteman and his assistant has the leading role inside to discern through countenance and movement the excellent competence of crammer, detect the case that another FBI and a police cannot settle.

But the crammer that although they always can be in,allows when to await detection others, know even wear secret of family member hidden, be in hard however live daily and happiness is gotten too in affinity.

The conclusion that Dr. Laiteman reachs is: Truth Or Happiness, never Both (the truth and happiness cannot hold concurrently) .

" perfect stranger " this film also is in it seems that from flank torturous everybody: True get along with is happy, cannot hold concurrently really?

Did not give out to this film the answer, but however the three unities makes a person impressive:

When they see lunar eclipse together among the party, appeared a such actor's lines: "Lunar eclipse why attractive? Because ' dark side of the month ' . " -- this is a superexcellent metaphor almost: Dark side of the moon, just is dark side of human nature.

In our idea, always be together happily with perfect correlation. And the truth often is misshapen and faulty, but the normal that just is life faultily.

The mobile phone revealed the seamy side of a lot of human nature, but besides those treason that make a person sad, also there is no lack of the compromise of a few warmth:

Plastic doctor Luo Ke is hiding the truth from Ai Wa to accept psychotherapy secretly secretly, after Ai Wa knows challenge very hard then too the husband: "Take no account of before you, why to want to go again now? Why to want to go again now??

Luo Ke answers her: "Change a mind now, just perhaps waste time, but my what method wants to try, after calculating, part company, also can say we endeavored " ...

Urticant Lai of 7 years straps couple and mother-in-law to live together, wife and mother-in-law get along not be in harmony, carrying the husband on the back then beadhouse seeks advice below illicit, the husband thinks work laboriously is helping his mom take care of the child, the wife has such idea actually, often get angry at dispute...

Until when the balcony sees lunar eclipse, the wife apologizes to the husband, the mood that the mother that the husband also made allowances for wife and him to nag lives together...

Be in in the film besides the softhearted extract besides the part, most compromise comes too behindhand, so that open secret that injures a person so momently. What everybody is fearing to expose his is flimsy forgive with what the faulty, demand that worries about oneself cannot get each other, final choice goes more remote more in crammer:

The marital relation strike a reef of psychological doctor Ai Wa and husband, did not face up to the problem between husband and wife, choose however and the good friend is off the rails will replace;

Because wife and mother concerns to become with the husband few is weak the Kaluoda that is affected even sexual life even, never expose true feelings with the husband however, and marital basil also chooses to escape, have an affair with with unfamiliar and young woman in the mobile phone. . . . . .

Until after beginning in this game, they just must face those obstacles that encounter in marriage and family and covert conflict.

Be in these seeing to seem the idea that can't bear under, hidden just is the mankind is flimsy with fear, and the regret that was not communicated forever and is clear about problem explanation.

American marriage and John Amodeo of domestic cure division say:

Praise in alleged and perfect be too busy, the hypocritical holiday aspect that controls everything with the palm undoubtedly certainly, and the human nature that debases kink of all contradiction of faulty, affection among this true culture, breaking away from true ego is inevitable almost.

The biggest challenge that we face is the appearance that should dare to discover the mankind is original -- view of disgrace of prep against society is refluent and go up, tell oneself, we have an advantage namely originally faulty also.

Human light and dark side, harm and reconcile, conflict and harmonic, it is the one part that cannot cut apart in affinity originally.

Does honest meeting damage a relation? Won't, crammer just is met;

Conceal a problem, has been the relationship met?

Won't, conceal meant a problem to lose the chance that solve forever.

Ohn Amodeo is in " rebuild accredit: Love and treason psychology " write in one book:

There is too much variable in love and marital relation, the external cause that still has a lot of lives also is us can not the palm accuses, but can accept fact of this be related calmly without a few people.

Be opposite among human self-awareness failure and detached fear, can let it hold any things that can add safe touch closely.

But acid is, we most the way that often chooses: Lie to the spouse and hide conflict -- can not achieve the goal that adds safe touch, rather, they destroy the true killer of affinity just about.

Promote safety the fashion of feeling truly, it is to be in the process that love each other, ceaseless creation any OK and promotional each other affection, pull close the thing that each other concern, it is the difference that be accepted hard and understands each other to differ, it is to allow to contradiction arises and be solved patiently.

Only such, ability walks into each other heart further, get and faulty, but a bit safer habitat.

And the real heart that those who be like mobile phone Tibet is us, so best relation is: Need not share a mobile telephone, but do not need crucial point to be afraid that each other each other sees a mobile phone.

The ending afford for thought in the film:

Before go out, everybody faces present situation hard, some breaking down, some some life, break with, some feels disgusting.

But after going out, pass through immediately when returning game to did not begin, inside 7 people of cherish secret, keeping exterior peace, the life that continues to conceal each other: Somebody is mixed on the net unfamiliar male friend is playing sexual game, somebody continues and the girl flirts, the sexual orientaton that somebody continues to mask his...

Do not know playwrite gave this to cannot face 7 people of the truth, searched look be like moderate step to fall.

Face the spouse's mobile phone, hit be not being opened is a problem, how to after opening, face, be another problem actually. Not cross the border is not active pry, but expose when the problem when coming out, do not defy not evasive, assume actively remove oneself the responsibility in the relation, it is the healthy regulations of adult management affinity it seems that.

Drive the mankind to open Panduola's box when curiosity, bear the truth reconciles to contradict definitely is need ability however.

After all, only new talented person is perfect.

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