If be afraid of,be defeated, then you also do not win forever.
Join the person of the university entrance exam every year, have a this year's graduates only not just.
Recently, small gain has a such newses on hot search a list of names posted up: Big 3 groups small leave school again battle the university entrance exam. The reporter interviews this to ask with class hour: "Why can you think of to be in big a year this of 3 fast graduation afresh answer read?
He 22 years old says: "New him angle dream, take an examination of a good university again. Take an examination of a good university again..
For this, he got up at 5 o'clock every morning, carry word and ancient poetry on the back. Sit next public transportation go to the school, and 18, 19 years old this year's unripe people attend class together. Study arrives to was controlled at 2 o'clock in the evening, sleep only everyday 3 to 4 hours.
What learn before him is the major that studies a gender about chemical theory, after holding to period of time, him feeling is not to suit this industry very much.
Final he acts on pair of doctors this one occupational is liked strongly, chose present target: Answer of pass an entrance examination dawns or hand in big medical major.
To leaving school this thing, the family that just began him special do not understand and object to the utmost, thought to had been read 3 years university, leaving school again is a very stupid thing.
His classmate is about to graduate, some reading grind, some works, return some going abroad to take advanced courses, and he chooses to come again however, the heart also has sufferred indeed a period of time.
But since oneself had thought, that insists to do. Slowly, people begins to understand, turn and support him.
The reporter asks him: "Had you thought in case one's deceased father how be bungled to do? "Had you thought in case one's deceased father how be bungled to do??
He says: "Without, nonexistent. Nonexistent..
The reporter asks again: "Is that major more difficult before has that thought medical major may be compared? "Is that major more difficult before has that thought medical major may be compared??
He says: "To me, this may be a kind of new challenge, but because had experienced unsuccessful college,lived, if coming again, can cherish more. Can cherish more..
Ability this kind of thing, rely on oneself to dig creation namely originally, I also am not what talent, I just work desperately than anybody, the work steadily walks over.
The strange flower congress this year, have a championship that took game of Chinese street ball, professing is Chinese street ball the boy of the first person, he calls Wu You. In speak of be defeated when winning an issue, his memory removed him in those days a decisive match.
That is Ha Lin 3 pairs of final of 3, bilateral at that time match each other in strength, be hit to finally or give victory or defeat without cent, at this moment juridical requirement decides with the means that punishs basket, who punishs a goal first who wins the contest.
Wu You serves as captain, taking a ball to be on penalty shot line, too much thing thought in the heart at that time, result ball is punished lost. When him the head also dare be not answered when the ground takes go off the stage, heard backside " Shua " , the other side scores a goal successfully.
He emulative heart is extremely strong, become since then dare not assume responsibility, every arrive crucial moment, pass a ball to give teammate with respect to meeting choice.
During, he also tries to go up through training field practice hard the feeling that will search to be able to win a ball, can be being returned to the moment of truth of the match is meeting occurrence error. Passed the loss of very long period of time, he begins him self-examination is the training besides ball ability, psychology also needs to train.
Then he begins to read all sorts of sagacious to consider record of reference books with material taken from various sources and arranged according to subjects, also had constant change. And make him finally a word that of satori is red of Michael Er tall: Can bear the weight of when you all failure when, that will be you can the hour of dictate match.
This word made him think back to at a draught in those days that match, fail that punish basket, he discovers, oneself did not think at that time too much the issue that wants to win, thinking however a lot of be afraid of the job that lose. Since then, he begins change state of mind.
In a later decisive match, also be decisive one ball, be issued by Bao Ga's circumstance in teammate, he is active signal teammate passes a ball, receiving the shoot a basket after the ball, "Shua " , basketball joins a network immediately, he reduced the competition absolutely, also looked for oneself.
If be afraid of,be defeated, then you also do not win forever.
Some dot just began to part with the mother, a person sleeps, think closet at night, but the company that failed a mother, let him begin to dread to circumjacent environment generation, even if small sound of sth astir also can be come to into monster by the imagination, so he auxes would rather enuresis, also dare not get out of bed go closet.
After be brought up we, the choice that face is increasing, corresponding pressure is greater and greater also, that awe-stricken feeling also increases subsequently.
The person falls in the wrap up of awe-stricken feeling, what meeting enlarge encounters at the moment is difficult, affect oneself choice judgement thereby.
Perhaps do not need so serious ground to read, look for a job of can burnt mouth to also go; Perhaps need not hit hard in big city go all out, time native place is smooth and steady get along pretty good also; Perhaps a girl, godchild of husband of good good look is in the home, need not have oneself cause hard, also can pass comfortably.
But, you are content with?
The goal of everybody is different, the likelihood is to think her a home, the likelihood is to want to complete round-the-world trip, also may be to want to become millionaire. Although the goal is different, but the business that they are doing an ego to agree with.
Go to meet with between the world of faze of this confused confusion, obtaining self-identity to feel is a very important thing. This needs us to be in the process that achieves a goal, go thinking how to just can succeed more, and the meeting after often wanting to fail how.
Want to win, that is not afraid of be defeated, be defeated to rise, ability wins beautifully come back.
