"Jiangsu girl is missing be murdered " -- how should make a daughter outer do not suffer enroach on
Jiangsu little girl of 13 years old, by formal already be murdered, and the neighbour that the murderer is him unexpectedly, one is not familiar with the person of the grandfather lifetime that spend again, and the relationship that this neighbour follows little girl at ordinary times is particularly good. This thing makes a person very distressed really!
In parental eye, the daughter is her close small cotton-padded jacket, a beloved daughter, it is oneself conscience. Especially corporeal life is abundant now, more " hold in both hands pat in the hand fell, contain in the mouth to be afraid of changed " . For fear that she is outer be harmed by little. Always want to always call the daughter in oneself in front of, but such doing can you protect her really?
1: Be far from undesirable " neighbour " can not protect her
Some parents think, all bad things, the daughter that can let oneself learns bad. E.g. bad language, the undesirable abuse such as name-calling. Yes, have a few really such neighbour, or such family member, ask for a favor comes, want to say what abstains from without place. We should be far from such person really, we can treat these as opposite teaching material teachs the child, this is abuse, this is bad behavior.
But the wolf that should a few approve sheepskin such neighbour, how to let children identify? Jiangsu this little girl, be given damage by the neighbour of a such wolf that approving sheepskin namely.
Accordingly, when we interact with neighbour, we should hear the opinion of children, view. Should increase them to feel, judgement.
2: "Rich foster daughter " be far from temptation?
Rich raise a daughter to you can be far from temptation? This world should satisfy any person requirement without method. That is to say, always a few temptation can let attract them. So we just are in price level, all alone draw of other perhaps side grants to satisfy, should teach a daughter to want free-standing, self-love more. Do not let oneself because of any temptation be immersed in be murdered namely " vortical " ,
3: Be kind to a daughter, foster her to have love, have benevolence
The husband of daughter future is right the daughter's appearance, it is her pa the appearance to her. Although say some are far-fetched. But want to also be opposite, if father is right at ordinary times the daughter's feeling is very chill, the daughter looks for a very warm to her man very hard also. Foster the daughter's benevolence, love. It is parental need to have love, benevolence at ordinary times, want to always be conducted, set oneself an example to others.
4: Complex social environment, how to let them be protected oneself?
The society of one side of this 1000 people, the person's heart always is considered very hard, we not only should learn good intentions, learn to discern even hellion. But some moment, when hellion looks for you, how should do, changing especially is a girl. The family that I feel economy is rich, can let the child learn to learn taekwondo to wait, if do not have ability really, that is about to take exercise more at ordinary times, nice fitness gift lets him face such environment to be not frightened quite. Reduce the likelihood that is harmed. Anyhow, parents must arrive at ordinary times teach child ego protection, the domestic ability that gives the child a warmth lets the child learn ego to protect quite.
