In the life, a lot of parents come up against bit of thing to sit calmly very hard to say well, solve together. It is normally squabble begins when a bit have a difference of opinions, next voice is bigger and bigger move a hand to come even, the psychology that did not consider the child completely and experience. The growing environment that should know a family is lifetime of meeting influence child. The child in the future disposition, humanness plays the likelihood can suffer father mother to quarrel constantly, fight the influence of this kind of negative behavior. To be in the child of these families for, their best choice may boil grown adult to leave namely escape here.
Parents should think, children live in a family that parents often quarrels, can you become what kind of?
1, will cause severe children psychogenic disorder
Parental brawl is to the child one kind oppresses actually. Often fall in such high-pressured environment, the child can become special not only fear, panicky, still can cause a series of psychogenic disorder, appear for instance cranky, angst, depressed wait for psychological problem, still can bring about extreme of idea of a few children even, be on a wrong way later.
2, can become very sensitive with lack safety feels
Parents' regular roughhouse, in can letting the child be immersed in panic, inner terrified thinks disturbedly: Be because I quarrel,? Do they want to divorce? They even I? Do they still love me? In be in anxious environment for a long time, can make the child becomes very sensitive, work foot of Wei hand Wei, get along very hard in the life with other, the society is blended in very well after child of can serious effect is grown.
3, the marital family view that affects children
Parental life actually the all the time is not affecting children. The marriage that often can make to the marital family disappointment of own parents children did not come to oneself and life hold very negative attitude. Thereby scared marriage, fear to establish a family, can weigh the track of an overturned cart of the generation on skip.
The family is soil, need what father mother love to irrigate to just can make children healthy grow. Occupied do not carry the kind that quarrel, that meeting become acute is contradictory, and the effect that short of solves. Calm far mutual fling abuses is a lot of better!
