Recently, sina video reported a news, zhejiang carry on is promoted have Ms. Wang, unripe have 3 sons, because young son is belonged to,exceed unripe, be in so he is one year old when be held in the arms send raise.
Ms. Wang all the time the body is bad, once had gotten cerebral stalk, ability to walk disadvantageous, the life is difficult provide for oneself, the old partner also dies early. And two sons that oneself raise, fail on the business, the life is more short of money. Oneself see a doctor to spend major money again, the old partner dies to also spend many money, thought of the young son Xiaozhang that is adopted in one's childhood then.
Ms. Wang gave birth to 3 sons at the outset, but because exceed,sent out young son, when son of lower primary school mere a year old. 34 years are lain between when, young son this year also already 35 years old, after Ms. Wang weighs young son to come out from the university, earn money, had earned more than 10 years, yearly salary had been achieved now 550 thousand, can say the life perfectly.
But under, the young son that Ms. Wang thought of to him connection sends out, because of him the career has now, oneself still are her one's own mother, but Ms. Wang did not think of those who sufferred a son to refuse, and the telephone call that the other side does not receive her all the time.
After this thing passes a report, netizens made a noise a pot of porridge-a complete mess, the opinion is differ opinions vary.
A lot of netizens saw this news force hold out Xiaozhang, think this Ms. Wang does not have maternal obligation at all, be badly off in oneself however when, the yearly salary that has 550 thousand with young son is reason, ask its use up provide for obligation to oneself, this is the behavior that a kind of morality kidnaps.
And partial netizen feels should provide for, also be the unripe parent that gave you life then after all, blood is thick at water.
The lawyer of the related side expresses, if be the foster formalities that deals with by normal procedure, although the children that is adopted is having kin with one's own parents, but between them about be in jural right and obligation, had removed completely automatically.
And if do not have those who had dealt with normal and foster formalities, on provide for obligation, relevant provision of law also is not very clear, proposal both sides can sit, peace talks things over resolve this issue.
Small nevertheless make up feel, this news has the suspicion that morality kidnaps greatly. Two sons age is in 35 to 50 years old among, go out to seek a job casually, lowest a month can assure 2000 salary meat meat has Roududu the canal is full, why even does oneself old mother drink congee to eat dried vegetable everyday?
Next this mother sends raise the child a few years 30, do not raise at ordinary times, but what phone yearly salary of the son understands is as clear as day, why does the family reject to contact? These are have a reason.
Kind what is gotten on if really, what " apology " do not have, will waiting for give presents on rather eat the photograph is too ugly also, and if be the son that considers oneself really, also won't look for media to report, let public opinion force the son draws out money. I do not miss stand in line, also did not say the son's practice is opposite certainly, but just feel this thing, the side is mutual affection, be not being helped is devoir. Social mind is so open now, those whats won't have in the main " tree desire is static and wind is more than " the word of and so on.
In know on see an analogy feels very apt:
You drew out a of own home sodden seed, him conserve a year, him discovery had had two land sufficient live, after following handgrip seed wave to be in people land, went (ghost knows between whether the interest still is carried) . It is the family is in 35 years completely attentive caress education. Two your ground are broken now, the ground that sees the family was bred 35 years eventually bumper harvest, want the land to go presumably, should perhaps go one part?
Above all, two ground of yourself are not complete did not produce. Next, the painstaking effort of ground other people of the family divides you by what.
Finally, calabash child knows to grow his person is a grandfather, did not go looking for cane of what old calabash, identify you to should kiss Mom again by what.
In case prevailed, not be to told others to need not work again later, to the top of one's bent whelp it is good to send toward rich other people? Be afraid of is to closing to contribute essence of life to need not worry about problem of provide for the aged later.
Write in ultimatum, actually I become aware party mom also holds out Bei actually is cool, also be the road that be covered by two sons probably come out to appear. And do not say at that time " super- unripe " send the child act against one's will raise other heart in sad, with respect to reportorial circumstance, the dietary daily life of old mother also wants to let a person sigh rather one information.
Hope this thing appropriate is solved, mother child 2 people are unashamed good.
How do you look this thing? If you are this child that is sent to raise, how should you face this issue?
