Guo Jing / city wall bulletin
In those days, because the life is short of money, she gave others 1 year old of sons.
Now, because be badly off, she considers the son that appeals to go at be being sent.
Son already 35 years old, year income 550 thousand yuan, but do not pick up the telephone all the time...
These two days, one Wei Shaoxing old lady because " send after raising a son 34 years, appeal meet with refus " went up small gain heats up search.
Her surname king, 73 years old, have two two female, the young son Xiaozhang that when still having 1 year old, sends (alias) .
King old lady says, the accident after oneself became birth control operation conceives Xiaozhang, after be born, because the condition in the home is too poor, the child is too much, raise do not rise, via person introduction, send condition of a family better other people.
"The other side asks I want how many money at that time, I say is not to sell the child, it is to send, the son was brought up after, can bring let us see see go. " king old lady says, she and young son have connection all the time, had seen ten times, oneself Spring Festivals, in that family of foster Xiaozhang, xiaozhang tells her, had married to buy a house in Hangzhou, still gave birth to the child, the job is good also, do not calculate additional stake, yearly salary has 550 thousand yuan.
When sending her to come home, xiaozhang says, the thing of one's own mother did not tell a wife, hope king old lady calls not actively to oneself.
One's early years of old partner of king old lady dies, she has gotten cerebral stalk, inconvenience of ability to walk, the life provides for oneself very hard, but two two female Dou Xiaoshun, hired nurse to her, attend daily life. Regrettablly before two sons two years the business fails. "Flower 2000 bought more full automatic equipment, give an issue finally, yard did not leave rise, owed a lot of money... " king old lady says, oneself fall ill 3 years, spent seventeen 80 thousand, the daughter goes out, now is to rely on to borrow money to raise her everywhere, this year she a baby-sitter demit. Clear and bright last year, xiaozhang has answered carry on to allow old home, want to go hold a memorial ceremony for does obeisance to one's own father, because the day rains heavily, yellow mud road is bad to go, did not go, but pieces of small life that saw her is embarrassed.
"He gave me 2000 yuan, still call me to change a mobile telephone that can receive fund, good make money to me. " king old lady says, two people had not met later, "I also dare not call to him more, fear an effect he lives, disturb his family. Disturb his family..
King old lady now often is the rice that burn a dot, dried vegetable hubble-bubble eats one day, take medicine everyday should spend 20 multivariate. Two sons say to calculate beggar also can make her satiate, but she feels, this kind of life that relies on to borrow Qian Wei to hold from kin is real too bitter.
"I think, young son income is good, want to look for him to help, give me 89 yuan. " begin from October, king old lady dials pieces of small telephone for many times, the son was not received all the time.
"He may be to be afraid that I want money " , "Estimation is his foster mother does not hope he sees me " ... of king old lady guess increasing, she finds media to appeal, want to contact him son.
On December 3 towards evening, the phone get through that old lady of reporter basis king offers she is small the son's phone.
Xiaozhang begins to express to attending a meeting, inconvenience is received listen, hearing is king old lady is looking for him, enquire a circumstance instantly.
He says, oneself do not know king old lady looked for his thing to go up to heat up search, because the job is busy,picking up the telephone all the time is, can contact king old lady later, appropriate processing.
To distribute news dispatches, king old lady has not received Xiaozhang's telephone call, nevertheless king old lady says he phones Xiaozhang is working hours really.
"Send after raising a son 34 years, appeal meet with refus " the hot ↓ that discuss ↓ is caused on the net
Netizen " confuse chicken of younger sister small element " : Hold the child in the palm to others 30 years ago, quarter correlation with the child also does not have wherefrom much.
Netizen " historical scuttle " : Send raise a son to be willing to help call mutual affection, not be devoir!
Netizen " the cat that takes a nap in crural edge only " : Of this provide for is the eldest son is mixed 2 sons, this is legal obligation!
Netizen " Bai Ling of Xue of long march full back " : At this moment whether the son is willing to help is emotional problem, not be problem of law, morality. From jural look, children is adopted legally by other, remove automatically with the relation of one's own parents, compulsory without provide for. Moral level, parents did not raise the child, support of children of what qualification requirement to have again?
Netizen " scallion is in grow " : What heat comments is right, but this kind of blood is thick the close affection at water is not to say to abandon, discontinuity can accomplish. Although parents abandoned he. I think the uncle of 55W of this yearly salary can be like this achievement, with the education of foster parent cent does not leave, the concept that also accepts with him and oneself viewpoint of value, philosophy is not divided. Still perhaps be meeting help. Stem from popular feeling.
Netizen " Amw installs " : Which mother be willing to part with or use sends we should like to ask the child, how can have no way out of her if it were not for remember this child? This is to seek to live on natural, did not pass normally again. Send a person, had not taught you well, with respect to the fact that can you obliterate one's own son? If your condition differs a side not to go up,do not have method, conditional license, ask you to help her, she gives you life.
This period edit Li Xiaojun