The process that grow. You should learn " pull black " oneself, ability surmounts him.
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"If one day, those who encountered the past oneself, I go on spank fan certainly, he did thing of too much fault! " this was last year if friend and I say.
We sit on weather station, blowing gentle breeze, with respect to move little alcoholic drink, see urban lights wane to the close, cannot find a bit warmth however.
We tongue-lash policy, say the businessman that do not have fine drives up house price, say foolish force boss chaos carries policy, say pitiful cummer still cannot find the way home now, more than 20 years, seeing even the face.
A cool wind is blown, I was hit cold quiver, wine woke largely: "You say, of future we, can also you want to scold wake present oneself? Can also you want to scold wake present oneself??
The friend is abrupt and silent, the liquor bottle on handle swings: "Remember plan of a few plans has not been written, go, you help staff officer of my give advice. You help staff officer of my give advice..
One year is lain between when, we sit on weather station to drinking little alcoholic drink to blowing an ox again.
The friend raises goblet to say: "I should go one year to passing oneself say sound is thanked, painstaking you. Painstaking you..
In this year, he read 50 books, engineered a few activities, brought the bill of 1 million class for the company.
His pay broke up two times, still found a beautiful girlfriend.
We always feel to go oneself are very foolish, spend period of time again actually, you can discover, present you are very foolish also.
Blindly blame the past and use without what egg.
Make a change only, blame oneself seasonable " pull black " , just can let future oneself are appreciated present oneself.
2
Last month, a trainee of company left his post.
The reason is very simple, when he goes to work, play in that secretly king person honorable.
The director discovered, warned him one time, he very the expression that feel embarrassed makes no longer next time.
But passed two days, I see he plays in that again.
Leave one's post that day, we ate a meal together, I ask him: How cannot you change to go to work play game is this bad be used to?
He scratchs his head, say: Habit of several years, do not have method!
I look at his expression that one face is indifferent to, one pile word swallows an abdomen again in.
Remember once seeing a such stories: A youth, 24 years old of universities graduate, the job arrives 30 years old, still poor, continue to work, still be poor jingle, then he runs to ask a Great Master.
The Great Master saw him say: "Poor of your family circumstances. "Poor of your family circumstances..
The youth listens, well, really accurate, draw out 50 money then: "Then you say, I am 30 years old before how? I am 30 years old before how??
"Poor. "Poor..
"Those 40 years old? "Those 40 years old??
"I am sorry, poor still. Poor still..
"Those 45 years old? " the youth draws out 50 cash with exit last bag.
"No longer poor. "No longer poor..
"So I am great minds mature slowly! " the youth is glad to.
The Great Master shakes his head: "Either, because you are used to poverty, be less than poverty with respect to the feeling so! Be less than poverty with respect to the feeling so!!
Emerson says: The habit is not best lackey, it is worst host.
Undoubted, we are most the person's habit is a bad host!
It let us forget introspection, forgot to think, overlooked a change.
If not seasonable the bad habit oneself " pull black " , then we also can be used to poverty only finally.
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"Pull black " the thing that oneself are an anguish, but " do not pull black " it is a more thorny issue.
Have a such people, his religiosity witch doctor and augur, have two Moll, old smoking history, the wine that return be addicted to is like a life, have a such people, once was driven out of the office twice, want to just get up midday everyday, want to drink the brandy of about one liter every night, when reading an university, still had had the record of suck opium.
It seems that, their life seemed to be finished, how does do sth over and over again also turn over not undulatory flower.
But in fact, the first person calls Fu Lanke Lin Luosifu, later his be reappointed consecutively president of 4 United States.
The 2nd person calls Wensidu · Qiu Jier, he became the famousest prime minister on British history later.
If they are done not have,pull in time black oneself, so Luo Sifu can be flooded to be in historical tide only, everybody is known, and Qiu Jier can be become possibly only a pothead, there perhaps can be his name all the time in constabulary file, the honor that a person goes and abasement can represent the past only, can represent one individual lifetime, mix now only in the future.
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Like Hemingway to be in very much " true nobility " in this paragraph of written word: I believe from beginning to end, begin the person that lives more gravely in the heart, also can begin to live more rustically on appearance. ?
Him compunction mistake, and do one's best no longer follow the same old disastrous road, this ability is true penitent, true nobility should be excel past oneself, so, a truly mature person, be brave in to pull necessarily black oneself!
oneself cowardly ignorance, arrogant, lazy and foolish all is pulled black.
Little study, little progresses, little surmounts the past oneself.
This process perhaps is endless, it is painstaking.
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