Why do the divorces of 80 young husband and wife after lead freeboard? Letting us look is what was brought about after all 80 hind marital fall to pieces.
1, bring about dispute because of housework
Speak of housework, the reason that causes dispute is main the trivial matters of a few families that is trifles. Be like: Strange the other side is lazy; Those who disrelish the other side to burn is not delicious; Should who cooks a meal, wash a bowl and quarrel; Part on bad terms to who cuts pear apple and be troubled by even! Write down, start work more also can bring joy to us. Housework, I advocate who is available who is done. Available, the household vivid man that wants physical power is assumed, a few deft women are done. Housework woman is given priority to, the man is a shop, the man should respect a woman, the man's should proper audition of the woman bade, it is good that the woman was not done because of man housework scold, after all the specialty that housework is not a man alive. It is consider of the other side more.
2, be pregnant because of the woman and bring about thin
When the woman is pregnant, sometimes the man is easy and vain, the home is disregarded, be absorbed in oneself are happy. If hit mahjong, laoying proposes a toast. Do not understand the hardships that the woman is pregnant. Especially a few be pregnant when the female answers a married woman's parents' home to live, individual male feels he is very footloose, loosen oneself. Man, do not neglect the duty in him heart, should prepare to make father's important task since bear more!
3, intervene because of parents and bring about contradiction
Have some of newly-married husband and wife, once oneself sufferred grievance, it is some of bagatelle originally, to him pa Mom of accuse the other side is not, and some elder, no matter who is right who is wrong, blindly the child that caresses oneself. And rebuke the other side! Often not be between husband and wife before him pa Mom of accuse the other side is not. Serve as elder at the same time, should become opposite party her children, fairness is treated, not prejudicial.
4, bring about become acute because of domestic force
The family is violent not only point to the force between husband and wife, still have children to elder, parents is violent to filial family! Oppose domestic force! The family should be one is far from force, be full of the mutual support of close affection and caressed sweet ground, it is a safe harbor. Hit wife to be not gentleman place to be, only trashy male qualified personnel can take a wife, the child, the old person vents his anger. The woman also cannot become the man sandbag, after all the man also is a suit flesh!
5, bring about inhospitality because of affection problem
Some husband and wife turned stranger into the person, to be indifferent to sth of the other side! The cold force between husband and wife, to marriage the harm also is inestimable. Love occurrence problem, want to be good at communicating. Do not want cold war. Seek an account from oneself more. Remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging. The woman wants to show consideration for softly, the man wants good-tempered and open-minded.
6, be taught because of the child and cause clash
The child's advent, broke original two people world. Because of teach or look after children, the generation between husband and wife chafes. No matter the man still is a woman, want to assume a due responsibility to the child. Remember to the child, bludgeon teachs the child, doting child, not desirable. Parents should make good example for the child! Should include between husband and wife and trustful the other side.
7, cause rupture because of one party affair
Have an affair to one party, it is deadly undoubtedly to marital blow. The boundless universe, temptation is omnipresent, alleged good man, good woman, see you can resist temptation namely. Write down, some more concentrated not be wrong. The opposite sex that can have oneself is intimate, but should accomplish intention feel no regret!
8, because sneer at abuse and cause collision
Contradiction happens between husband and wife, malcontent to the other side, sensitive topic instigates in perhaps quarrelling, even the signal that the mouth gives defilement. Because utterance is undeserved, bring about the other side easily temporarily out of control make extreme conduct. Esteem the other side, also be him esteem. Write down, the word says well!
9, cause difference because of belongings money
Make money because of the other side between some husband and wife little, disrelish end of the other side; Bought goods is valuable; Or bought thing depreciates very mad; Fry had a deficit; Or the good chance that delinquency makes money; Also him relative lends money, oneself are additional the half is waited a moment not gladly. Undertake censuring to the other side! Money is the element of marital happiness, but not be only factor. Those who make a person happy is moral character, is not money. Want to discuss more between husband and wife, encourage more, give love comfort.
10, bring about because of mood obstacle inimical
Present young husband and wife is a singleton for the most part female, more capricious. It is a center easily with ego, in the self-surrender sex in marriage, latitude is insufficient still. Do not agree each other when contradictory become acute so self-effacing, the cursory divorce after contradictory become acute! Long years says, between husband and wife once appear,contradict, two people should locate root jointly, do not let contradictory become acute. Not childish, bear temporarily calm! To marriage, some people feel marriage is love sweetness continuity; And the graveyard that some people feel marriage is love however. In the meantime, some people regard marriage as the most serious issue on the world, and some people are what marriage inspects however trifling matter. Write down, marriage needs to use both sides of male and female to be managed jointly attentively, such ability let marriage can go further!
