3 marriage of Su Dongpo mix not human relations love

If ask Song Chao has representative scholar most, be not Su Dongpo to not be belonged to; If face of the Song Dynasty did not have Su Dongpo, so the glamour that this dynasty that once continued 319 years loses an in part to major general.

Of Su Dongpo allow the wife calls Wang Fu, it is the daughter of Mr. Su Dongpo, scholarly family, 15 years old are married Home Su, 27 years old die, accompanied Su Dongpo 12 years time. That inscribe one's name that Su Dongpo keeps later " Jiangchen child · remembers a dream " the word grieves over namely of Wang Fu, "Expect bowel is broken year after year place, the bright moon also, short Song Gang " , beautiful statement ever made among them cold countless people read heartbroken.

The 2nd wife of Su Dongpo calls Wang Run, it is the cousin that ex-wife king nots. Today's people often likes to cry the sort of although not romantic, but can get along, can patronize a person, pure belong to practical model the man cries " warm male " , so of Wang Run belong to " warm female " of the type, be a model virtuous wife fine mother. She connects writing, but be confined to handle chore, never have too the idea that the husband contends for ability name; She is not romantic, but however the effeminate figure with a woman bend forward agrarian Yu Ye, in accompanying Su Dongpo to spend lifetime, be low most fan, a paragraph of impoverished, hard years. Of Wang Run bend forward Yu Dongpo of agrarian that earth position, so the Su Shi at that time is date with the ground, profess " east slope lay Buddhist " , whose expect " east slope " two words the consequence later is far than " Su Shi " , " child look up " more far-reaching, resonant. This time place is yuan of abundant 4 years, the Christian era 1081.

Although officialdom be frustrated, although be hard up, the awl that the talent of Dan Sudong slope still resembles an acuteness is same, piercing all sorts of manacle broken wall after the flesh and go out. Su Dongpo banishs from the court the Huang Zhou of the place, a lot of people admire the talent like Su Dongpo's talent, on all sorts of social situations regular the ground appeared the assemble on this body is worn the sound of all sorts of complex element characters. Classics, history, child, collect, poem, ode, article, all of calligraphy, painterly, music, hutch art is perfectness, however " be frustrated is illogical world Wu " , in Northen Song Dynasty reformed with standpatter between bicephalous be deceived, everywhere be rebuffed, wang Anshi look does not issue him, sima Guangye look does not issue him. His from time to time is hopeful and open-minded, from time to time is depressed indignation; Humour of from time to time is humor, termagancy of from time to time is like thunder; Sultriness of from time to time, from time to time swims alone river bank; Keep one's countenance of from time to time, from time to time is greatly upset. Stand fast already the Confucianist " cultivate one's morality, neat home, manage state affairs, smooth the world " ideal, constantly the unfixed path of yearning Buddhist, still often alleviate with gem gal art the be running low that body and mind can'ts bear heavy burden, be fond of the immortal art of Taoist school again sometimes, desire to gain achieves the effect that is stationed in Yan Yishou.

Such person, often was full of glamour, this glamour comes from talent to also come from character already the sort of medium mystery and daedal. Resemble a cup of tea, have all kind flavor ability lets a person be unable to bear or endure the ground wants to be close to, want to sample, if is a cup of sweet syrup, although sweet, but let person addiction very hard. Su Dongpo is right almost everybody is having fatal attraction, guest of Chinese ink of official, bookman, farmer, v/arc one who owns a boat and makes a living as a boatman, pedlar, once walked into Su Dongpo's life. But officialdoming alone only is complete repulsion his. Because he likes " what says what " , he likes be practical and realistic, he likes to admire the national economy and the people's livelihood, the myriad common people that puts eye in big the Song Dynasty, hundred years base course of study, and disdain carefully watch what sb is doing and saying, seek backer, station queueing up.

The social situation that because often appear in Huang Zhou's official, bookman,organizes, the Su Dongpo of this period avoids common ground hard the song female singer of place of meeting bring into contact with. In the society at that time, social situation appears the song female singer of a few festively singing and dancing is very normal, have nothing to do efflorescent. Su Dongpo once knew the song female singer that is called musical instrument to hold, because Su Dongpo is her recital the poetic word of a few Bai Juyi, she unexpectedly big thorough is realized greatly, redeem oneself its body, next escape enters Buddhism. Gregarious field of Huang Zhou calls the song of dynasty cloud female singer, in be being given accident look bissextily by wife king of Su Dongpo, next redemptive. This little girl of 12 years old is to do slave-girl first, became concubine later. Again later, to the Christian era in August 1093, after the king of the 2nd wife in Su Dongpo dies bissextily, she the identity continue with concubine the duty of the wife.

When dynasty cloud just took Home Su Dongpo, still be the little girl of a muddled. What Su Dongpo admires her is clever and bright, teach her to read the literacy, composition that write a poem. As time elapse, the literary talent of dynasty cloud begins to erupt, she also is loved by Jingsheng with each passing day to Su Dongpo, will at first advocate the friendship of the affection of fall forward, teachers and students is changed into love to mix spoony. Of Wang Run after dying before long, su Dongpo is banished from the court again benefit city. Su Dongpo knows there difficult, instruct concubine dynasty cloud to leave. Photograph of dynasty cloud dare to die from, follow Su Dongpo to cultivate in benefit city land, build a house, for company Su Dongpo is out at the elbows, hard live. After 5 years, this young and the woman that affection compares Jin Jian, namely the 3rd wife of Su Dongpo, because deficient is ill,also accompany each other and left the world. In those days, su Dongpo is firm 60 years old, dynasty cloud namely 1945 years old.

3 wives, followed the name uses the world, talent the great gifted scholar that breathtaking, sound sows later ages, but however neither one " husband Gui Qirong, wife Sui Fugui " , even if,go up too 3 years two orderly, smooth and steady and the day of peace and happiness, drift from place to place is thematic; 3 wives, it is leave Su Dongpo and the world in very young age, most propbably is hard and extinct mental efforts, also be probably " situation is difficult not birthday " ; 3 wives relay, also accompany Su Dongpo to arrive merely of a cycle of sixty years year, when the 3rd wife dies, be apart from Su Dongpo celestial being to still have time. 3 wives are surnamed king, before two are a sister-in-law, the 3rd is the 2nd choice, this also is having some kind of grumous fate taste it seems that.

Besides 3 wives, su Dongpo returns rarely humanness to know the ground to had had not human relations love. Why " not human relations " ? The object that loves because of him is his cousin. Good be being loved in his is dark only love, otherwise even if has " extremely evil excessive heads, talk mark no matter heart, perfect man is not had on the world that regard a heart " old saying, be afraid people also maintains even if Su Dongpo is disposition puts cognizance person, the Wei bank figure of Dan Sudong slope also is met big because of this sell at a discount.

To the cousin's feeling, estimation is Su Dongpo's first love, estimation also is green plum a bamboo stick used as a toy horse, so very affectionate also. Su Dongpo goes begging a scholarly honour and official rank, the cousin is informed to had married a person after coming back, marry the Liu Zhongyuan near Jing Jiang. Because be cousin, disagreement ethics is apparently between them, also do not have future; Plus what is done cannot be undone, not said to regret, even if confess also did not have an opportunity. So, su Dongpo can depress this pure and deep love only in the bottom of the heart. But unfortunate is, still revealed a few clues later.

Bright Ning Liunian (the Christian era 1073) , su Dongpo goes Jing Jiang's younger sister's husband lived in 3 months. The grandpa willow Jin of younger sister's husband also is a great scholar, su Dongpo also is found associate. During, su Dongpo wrote many poems and songs, travel notes, still a poem is made is the home banquet that is written technically in home of younger sister's husband, intermediate this occurrence character appeared, bypassed alone only the name with distant second of willow of younger sister's husband. He has sent calligraphy work to two sons of the cousin, had not given one word one paper to Liu Zhongyuan alone only. Liu Zhongyuan is the younger sister's husband that is his, it is the master that his guest house is in, he such " circle " it is really should not at manage, explain exclusively even if in the heart of difficult curb " vinegar " strong.

Su Dongpo once gave Hangzhou viceregal Chen Xiang had written a poem, there is a paragraph of very long preface before the poem is made, many words was used among write peony. Saying is that spring, oneself return too late, missed the beautiful season of peony, when waiting for him to see peony, peony has fallen the flower is seedy. Peony borrows Yu Tangmei extremely likely namely, return too slow bad too beautiful season, fall the flower is seedy it is to say oneself missed a cousin, good-bye cousin when, she already was parent of person wife person. And directer evidence is in this poem:

Be ashamed returns should be wrong florescence, already was the knot that become back the period of the day from 11 pm to 1 am.

With pity of content few affection I am old, dispatch spring bilks Jun Shi without hate.

Jade stage does not see alcoholic drink of face to one's heart's content, sky of song of Jin Lv blame folds a branch.

Meet surely year after year from now on, desire division expert vegetable grower asks Fan Chi.

This poem is written quite continuously white, but look from content, it is to give a friend to perhaps chant peony no matter, let a person feel fine long hair is irrelevant, indescribable. Especially " Jin Lv " with " fold a branch for nothing " literary quotation is a provenance, it is the poem that the woman place that Tang Dynasty calls Du Qiu the woman writes, the title cries " golden detailed garment " , "Persuade garment of detailed of gold of Jun Mo cherish, when cherish advising supreme ruler takes a boy, hua Kaikan folds straight beard, mo Daihua comes to nothing fold a branch " . This woman is to use this poem to come probably vigilant her lover, this confess when some candidder, when should loving each other some eagerer, missed one person, missed lifetime. The integral content that is like a these literary quotation and poem contacts Su Dongpo to go up to the cousin's amour, criterion all fine long hair are irrelevant become understand go well, everything is indescribable become of course.

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